VanillaSkyGirl 6 #51 April 27, 2004 QuoteOkay, now go do some research on "shrimping." Sex Glossary Wow...you really, REALLY like feet, Jeffrey. My feet are pretty tiny...they fit into a man's hands. I remember having my feet kissed the first time that I ever made love. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacefuljeffrey 0 #52 April 27, 2004 QuoteQuoteOkay, now go do some research on "shrimping." Sex Glossary Wow...you really, REALLY like feet, Jeffrey. My feet are pretty tiny...they fit into a man's hands. I remember having my feet kissed the first time that I ever made love. LOL! Tiny is good. Hey, I didn't say anything besides "look it up," and gave a link! I said nothing self-incriminating...! That is so cool, what you said at the end. I'll just go ahead and guess that you found it memorable at worst, and pleasurable at best. My first girlfriend grooved on it pretty hard, and still when I talk with her she sighs and whispers that she has no one to be nice to her feet anymore. (I guess she shouldn't have 'moved on,' 'cause now she realizes what she's missin' -- that others are now gettin'!) --Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #53 April 27, 2004 QuoteWow, I had never heard of that either! Here's a link to some from Condomania. (If I have to put NSFW next to that... sheesh! ) Never heard of the "finger cots" either... (There is a link for those on that same page.) Rosa have you seen the flavours on that website????? HOW YOU DOINYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #54 April 27, 2004 QuoteLMAO one of those things that make you go HUH? If you are so worried that you have to use one of those then maybe you sholdn't be putting your mouth anywhere near it in the first place! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I've seen a few replies that echo this sentiment. Do you guys take protection as a joke? If you believe in covering your penis, cover your tongue ALSO. An ounce of prevention weighed against something there is no cure for....do the math. HIV infection is on the rise again because people think 'it can't happen to me'. It CAN. And the fastest growing group of new infections are young HETEROSEXUAL women. Some helpful links: www.cdc.gov www.thebody.com www.afraidtoask.com Take some time and do some reading . In a time where they are making condoms for individual FINGERS~~there's no room for smugness.~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoShitThereIWas 0 #55 April 27, 2004 WFFC set my vocabulary straight When I hit the link, my eyebrows went up and I looked at the screen with the look of someone who doesn't quite know what to expect and then ... OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH -just like Andrew Dice Clay would have said it! (Not that there's anything wrong with that...) -rimming that is Roy Bacon: "Elvises, light your fires." Sting: "Be yourself no matter what they say." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #56 April 27, 2004 You make a VERY good point about protection, April, but I think that you are misunderstanding people's reactions. For instance, I have only had monogamous sex with committed partners (whom I trusted and still do) in majorly serious relationships, but, YES, even I ask to see papers showing proof that this person was recently tested and tested negative for HIV (as well as negative for VDs) before having sex or oral sex with him. I talk to the person about his sexual history and ask to see test results ALWAYS because I am very serious about this kind of thing. I am never immediately intimate with a person...NEVER. That is why "dental dams" are new to me, not because I am not careful or casual...quite the opposite. If I know that I am going to be intimate with someone, well...I MUST find out his sexual history. Period. Smugness, huh? April, after finding out someone's sexual history and all, would you really not trust that someone, whom you have had a loving, committed relationship with for 5 years, to be faithful to you? Would you honestly still be using a "dental dam" in a situation like that? Why is trusting your significant other classified as being "smug"? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kansasskydiver 0 #57 April 27, 2004 Quote6th grade sex ed. Aaahh sunny, liberal California. Wow I got that speach in 3rd grade, Chicago<--- See look, pink dolphins DO exist! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #58 April 27, 2004 QuoteI came across "dental dam" Yeah...me too!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #59 April 27, 2004 QuoteQuoteI came across "dental dam" Yeah...me too!!! LOL scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #60 April 27, 2004 Smugness, huh? April, after finding out someone's sexual history and all, would you really not trust that someone, whom you have had a loving, committed relationship with for 5 years, to be faithful to you? Would you honestly still be using a "dental dam" in a situation like that? Why is trusting your significant other classified as being "smug"? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ When I posted, the word 'trust' had not been used in any of the previous posts. I do not know nor do I need to know anyones sexual history, unless I'm interesting in sleeping with him. I applaud you wholeheartedly for being cautious and careful, but the words I saw on the thread were 'cautious' 'worried' and 'confident'. NOT everyone is diligent and my post was not made to put anyone on the defensive, but to show there is a serious attitude of 'it can't happen to me' and little things like a cut on one's finger can become a point of entry for disease. I don't think I misunderstood at all.~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bshl 0 #61 April 28, 2004 Something tells me if you need one, you need to shop elsewhere. Blue skies and happy landings! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #62 April 28, 2004 QuoteSomething tells me if you need one, you need to shop elsewhere. but it also can be a fun accessory...scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #63 April 28, 2004 QuoteSomething tells me if you need one, you need to shop elsewhere. I don't understand this post. Please read the original post...lol. Anyway, no, silly, I don't need one, personally. That was my point to April. If the person that you are thinking of sleeping with needs one, then maybe you should NOT sleep with that person at all. The only true 100% protection is NOT having sex with an infected person. To those people who think that they may be at risk (and even to all the people that are unsure)...PLEASE use one of these. It's better than becoming a statistic. Aprilcat ~ Thanks for reminding us of not taking this attitude about protection. If you read ALL the prior posts in this thread...many of us were actually expressing shock that people are sleeping with people that they do not feel are safe putting their lips on without protection. Nobody was trying to belittle, scoff at or be smug about the idea of protecting themselves from infection. We just were in shock that people would be knowingly sleeping with a partner who was unsafe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dixieskydiver 0 #64 April 30, 2004 QuoteSo, I guess we've all only slept with virgins? Kelly Now that you mention it... Dixie HISPA #56 Facil Rodriguez "Scientific research has shown that 60% of the time, it works every time." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mayberry 0 #65 April 30, 2004 Hi Rosa!! I know this is a serious topic of discussion, but if you want a HILARIOUS explanation/version of dental dam, go rent the movie "Booty Call" from Blockbuster!! I laugh my ass off every time I watch it!! DonDon Here's to friends! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bshl 0 #66 May 2, 2004 QuoteQuoteSomething tells me if you need one, you need to shop elsewhere. If the person that you are thinking of sleeping with needs one, then maybe you should NOT sleep with that person at all. My point exactly - shop elsewhere! Blue skies and happy landings! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
