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windcatcher

feeling a tad lonely at the bonfire

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Hey guys--
Just wanted to vent or whatever. Right now I just feel like I will never find the guy I really want--lately I have these dreadful thoughts that someday I will have to settle, for some guy who wears khakis and plays golf. :(
Anybody else feel like the type of person they want doesn't even exist?
Perhaps I'll just stay single the rest of my life. I mean, how hard can it be?
A sad-eyed lady
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Mother to the cutest little thing in the world...

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Get across the Red River to the land of milk and honey...:P

(translation: travel around, see some other DZs, you'll meet a lot of people that way. That's even more fun to do once you have your A license, though).
--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

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Don't know about those kahakis and all, but I still have my golf clubs somewhere....

its a tough call sometimes... beautifull weather, should I go to the DZ or golf?

bwahahahhahahahaha, those clubs haven't seen the light of day in a long time. I think I've landed at the golf course more than I stepped into it in the last two years as well. :)

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Sarah.... NO NO NO NO NO...never settle for a....golfer:S

Perhaps MORE travelling( yes I looked at your profile) and expanding your horizons might just be the ticket...make your escape from Oklahoma.



I agree with Jeanne here...Golf = The DEVIL!:P

However, I will have to kick her monkey-butt for telling you to move away from OK, though. It's really not that bad of a place to live.

Heh....that should be our state motto, "Oklahoma. No....really...we're not that bad!"B|
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Oklahom sucks!! Now Kansas, there's a real state. :D



Yeah, like I'm going to take that kind of abuse from a woman who can trace her roots back to Arkansas.:ph34r:
Sky, Muff Bro, Rodriguez Bro, and
Bastion of Purity and Innocence!™

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Well, you're certainly looking in the right place (DZ.com) for dynamic young people. Or at least young-at-heart.

Go to boogies, make skydiving friends, meet their friends. Bingo, instant romance. Or at least some good makeout sessions. ;)

Patience, my dear. Just as it takes time to get 1000 jumps, it takes time to get the perfect SO.
Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. --Douglas Adams

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Hmmm. I'll give 2:1 odds that you'll end up being perfectly content and wonderfully happy with a guy who is comfortable in khakis and plays golf. Heck, if you're so tall, try taking it up - you'd be a long ball hitter!

The guy you really want DOES exist. Unfortunately, you may be missing him, since there's a good chance that guy wears khakis and plays golf. If you never give that guy a chance, you may just be missing out on the infinite happiness.[:/]


My wife is hotter than your wife.

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Yeah, like I'm going to take that kind of abuse from a woman who can trace her roots back to Arkansas



Negative. My parents moved to Arakansas 4 years ago. My family comes from chicago, and before that Italy.

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Negative. My parents moved to Arakansas 4 years ago. My family comes from chicago, and before that Italy.



Italy, to Chicago, then to AR? It's even worse than I thought. You're Hillbilly Mafia. Also known as, La Cosa NASCAR. :o:D

*Kris is running for dear life now*
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I will have to settle, for some guy who wears khakis and plays golf. :(



Like everyone else is saying......maybe get out more. You will find who your looking for..... BTW, just because someone golfs, shouldn't be an exclusionary factor in your decision making.....

There's a ton of jumpers that play golf!!!! And the ones that do? Have money....!!B|

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La Cosa NASCAR.



Messicans are funny, sometimes.

Sorry you didn't make it to SGC.....I was hoping we could do a rodeo and attempt to break the sound barrier. :)

Don
"When in doubt I whip it out,
I got me a rock-and-roll band.
It's a free-for-all."

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Anybody else feel like the type of person they want doesn't even exist?



What type of person do you want? If you want the adventurous type but hopefully still somewhat responsible? Well guess what? There's plenty of these sort of guys hanging around the DZs or some exit point (well at least the adventurous types are there). Do not settle for just anyone. Especially the golfing types who are hung up on their image and the status of their bank accounts. Get some skydiving experience, get licensed and then start travelling to the different DZs and boogies. You know you'll be able to choose from many many many different men as the ratio of men to women in the jumping world favors the females. :(

I too still have a void in my life. But I try to fill it by doing stuff I enjoy doing and it takes my mind off of the void. Some day I may meet a girl who I like and who likes me. But I'm not going to put my life on hold while I wait to meet her as it could very well not happen or at least not happen for many many moons.

Take care, be happy and try to live each day to it's fullest. There are so many cool things out there in the world to explore.


Try not to worry about the things you have no control over

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However, I will have to kick her monkey-butt for telling you to move away from OK, though. It's really not that bad of a place to live



Point of order here...I aint got no Monkey name so the Monkey butt thing does not apply.

Point 2.. if you think you could... BRING IT

Point 3... I have been to Okielahoma more than once..

So the girl realllly needs to rget out and experience the rest of the country;)

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I read a prior post of yours where you posted that you were only 21 years old. Why are you spending time worrying about being single? You should be happy that you are young, single and skydiving!

Besides, what is wrong with being single? Is it common practice in Oklahoma to marry too young? I am single and turn 33 on Saturday, but I am very happy with myself and my life. I have even turned down marriage proposals in the past because I felt that it was not the right time for me to settle down. Meeting and settling down with someone is dependent on various life/personality factors, and it differs for each and every person on earth.

I predict that when you are happy and fulfilled with yourself, your positive energy will draw men to you like moths to a light. Go out and experience life...make yourself happy, and you will be just fine. Even if you don't understand what I mean now, you will when you mature a little more. :)

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........... it will happen when you least expect it! Life has a funny habit of throwing things your way you least expected!!



And then taking them away shortly there after for no reason or warning leaving you worse off than when you first started. Bitter? Nahhhhhh[:/]
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