Remster 30 #76 September 8, 2004 QuoteMine even involved a dancing banana this one? Quotejust an innocent pawn in a seductive temptress’ game Word. (dont we love it! lol)Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #77 September 8, 2004 QuoteGirls mostly agree on what kind of man they want. This is known as the "All women think the same and only have one mood" theory. Surprised no one mentioned it before. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DownWind 0 #78 September 8, 2004 QuoteIMO... there aren't enough nice guys out there! nice guys rock! i know a bunch of em. and they all rock! here's to the nice guys out there... !!! Liz, I guess I must be a nice guy since you constantly call me gay. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #79 September 8, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuoteIMO... there aren't enough nice guys out there! nice guys rock! i know a bunch of em. and they all rock! here's to the nice guys out there... !!! This nice guy has been smitten with you ever since he first saw that avatar picture! Are you as beautiful inside as your face is there? That would make you a prize! If the personality anwhere near matches the face... whoaa boy! - awe. you MUST be gay!!! hahahaha! i kid! i kid! you are such a sweetie jeff! thanks for making me smile! ladies... jeff is a VERY VERY VERY nice guy!!! Could you define "Nice" please? I think the term would be subjective depending on the situation. Double edged sword - you know - what's nice to some would be considered "Door Mat" to others while blunt and degrading to some would be considered "As strong Personality" to others.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #80 September 8, 2004 QuoteFor the record, I was a lonely, new jumper at a new dropzone in a foreign land (Alberta ), and I was forced to drink spiked punch by these awfull regulars at dinner. Wow that must happen a lot out there... I think I must have met some of them at Lost Prairie... Evil Little Canadian Women.. it was hard enough when they like you for being a friend.... I cant imagine how rough it must be for guys there when they set their sights on one of you nice guys. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #81 September 8, 2004 Maybe others try to put hidden meaning in their words, but I have none. Jeff is a really nice guy. From what I know of him, he is sincere, thoughful, and very kind. Nice guys are guys that I choose to be friends with. They never intentionally cause hurt to another person. They have a nice positive attitude. They generally treat others with respect, the way they would choose to be treated themselves. Nice guys are by no means "door mats," and I doubt being told you are nice is degrading. If someone feels like a "door mat," they need to learn to stick up for themselves. Believe it or not, you can be nice and still be strong. And yes, Downwind, you are one of the nicest guys I know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #82 September 8, 2004 QuoteI cant imagine how rough it must be for guys there I tell ya.... Its a daily struggle! But we manage... Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fast 0 #83 September 8, 2004 QuoteMaybe others try to put hidden meaning in their words, but I have none. Jeff is a really nice guy. From what I know of him, he is sincere, thoughful, and very kind. Nice guys are guys that I choose to be friends with. They never intentionally cause hurt to another person. They have a nice positive attitude. They generally treat others with respect, the way they would choose to be treated themselves. Nice guys are by no means "door mats," and I doubt being told you are nice is degrading. If someone feels like a "door mat," they need to learn to stick up for themselves. Believe it or not, you can be nice and still be strong. And yes, Downwind, you are one of the nicest guys I know. No matter how "nice" of a guy you are, there is only so much a person is willing to "put up" with. I think that the problem is that people confuse the "nice" guy with "door matt" too often. Door Matts are desperate and would do anything. Nice Guys will do the things that they would normally do and more often are able to recognize when a person is trying to take advantage of the kindness that they are willing to exhibit to the people around them. It just comes down to what you want and when you want it. If your willing to be someone else to get what you want sooner than you would get it being yourself then thats up to you. Some people just have a hard time doing that.~D Where troubles melt like lemon drops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me. Swooping is taking one last poke at the bear before escaping it's cave - davelepka Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #84 September 8, 2004 Thank you for clarification -I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #85 September 8, 2004 QuoteSeriously. Just because a guy treats a woman well does NOT make him gay. Or does it? WTF? Just wonderin. What I really want to know is why are all gay guys labelled 'nice'? I mean, come on, there has to be a few gay assholes out there.it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #86 September 8, 2004 QuoteQuoteSeriously. Just because a guy treats a woman well does NOT make him gay. Or does it? WTF? Just wonderin. What I really want to know is why are all gay guys labelled 'nice'? I mean, come on, there has to be a few gay assholes out there. Oh - figuratively - Right?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #87 September 8, 2004 "Nice" - treats people with respect and courtesy. Different types of "nice" people. Nice - Opposite sex will get no special treatment, good or bad. Probably won't perform any tasks for the opposite that he wouldn't do for his buddies. "Umm... no I won't be helping to clean your carpet on my day off." Gay - isn't interested in the opposite sex, so doesn't offend them with sexual boundary violations. Stalker - "If they only get to know me, they'll like me..." Desperation. Known as doormat. Hugger - Only hugs the attractive people that he wants to grope. Smoozer. A lot of these definitions are not gender specific. These definitions fit gals too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #88 September 8, 2004 I think this whole issue has to do with maturity. Some, not all, 20 somethings think they need to be the bad boy to attract women. And some, not all women in their age group fall for it. I have found that when you reach around 30 years of age, most, once again not all guys, hit the "I don't give a shit what people think" stage. If you're a nice guy, you're content with it and you're turned off by the ladies who want a bad boy. I believe also that women mature also, perhaps even at an earlier age and realize that "nice" does not equate with "gay." It's all about growing up. Have a nice day. _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #89 September 9, 2004 QuoteSeriously. Just because a guy treats a woman well does NOT make him gay. Or does it? WTF? Just wonderin. Dunno about being gay, but nice guys finish last. Always. No exceptions Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #90 September 9, 2004 Quotebut nice guys finish last. Always. No exceptions Stop whinning. That, I can pretty much garantee you, most women wont like. It pretty much says to all the guys who are happy in their relationships that they are either: - assholes; or - loosers And only the nice guys are left single. Please......Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #91 September 9, 2004 QuoteQuotebut nice guys finish last. Always. No exceptions Stop whinning. That, I can pretty much garantee you, most women wont like. I always try to finish last and most of the gals seem to appreciate it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #92 September 9, 2004 And you're definatly not nice, so there you go, point proven that its not only the nice guys who finish last! Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #93 September 9, 2004 QuoteStop whinning. That, I can pretty much garantee you, most women wont like. Not whining. Just an observation.Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #94 September 9, 2004 QuoteAnd you're definatly not nice, so there you go, point proven that its not only the nice guys who finish last! I feel that I perform a social duty. I don't subscribe to the one mood theory. Sometimes women want a snuggly relationship, sometimes they want a buddy to hang out with... sometimes they want to be spanked like a rented mule . I have to go with my strengths. I just don't feel qualified to help in the first category, so I help out in numbers two and three. I'm just here to help. Mr. Helpful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #95 September 9, 2004 Quote What I really want to know is why are all gay guys labelled 'nice'? I mean, come on, there has to be a few gay assholes out there. You really want to meat Phil, don't you? Phil is not quite as nice as I am, if that tells you anything! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildblue 7 #96 September 9, 2004 QuoteStop whinning. I already said stop whining, you're slow. http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=283075#283075it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Keith 0 #97 September 10, 2004 QuoteWhat I really want to know is why are all gay guys labelled 'nice'? I mean, come on, there has to be a few gay assholes out there. Yeah, and I've probably dated most of 'em. Keith Don't Fuck with me Keith - J. Mandeville Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Airman1270 0 #98 September 10, 2004 ...But they typically are more reserved than the dickchunks who are overly-agressive.. and then may be mistaken for gay cause theyre not pursuing as actively as some other guys... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Okay, here's a brief story. Not that I assume anyone cares, but this is an open forum... I was never the aggressive type. Sure, I was interested in the same things everyone else was, but I didn't want to be the guy the ladies talked about when they got into their "men suck" snit. No octopus here. (Okay, there were a few exceptions, but she was into it too so we can get off Jon's back....) It was not uncommon to date someone for awhile and later learn that, during those first dates, she wondered what was wrong with me. On several occasions I learned that she was receptive and was waiting for me to make a move. DOH!. Finally, one day in 1989, I met a woman who started hanging out in a bar at which I was spending a lot of time. Nothing serious, in fact nothing at all other than two people hanging together with no serious intentions. We ended up in one of those secluded parked-car situations, and I began to recognize the script. She was sending those signals I'd failed to respond to in the past. "Not this time" I said to myself. Older & wiser, having learned my lesson, I was not going to let this opportunity pass and decided I would give her what she wants. So I began to show her the attention she obviously desired, and, sure enough... she stopped me. In a rather awkward fashion, she said she wasn't really interested in supersizing our evening together. With a wry laugh I said "I give up." The perplexed look on her face was worth it. I explained everything I just told you. We had a giggle and apologized to each other for the misunderstanding. That marked the end of our "dating", but we remained bar buddies and enjoyed a pleasant rapport. She soon married another guy she later met at the same bar. Sure, this is boring and irrelevant, but I notice you're still reading. So anyway, I'm not gay and I'm not always a nice guy. But I have a lava lamp. Cheers, Jon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Airman1270 0 #99 September 10, 2004 ...I happen to like nice guys. And yes, I think they should finish last. Let the lady finish first ... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Agreed. The first hour+ is yours; the last 10 - 90 seconds is mine... I'm just a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Jon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 Next Page 4 of 4 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
Vallerina 2 #95 September 9, 2004 Quote What I really want to know is why are all gay guys labelled 'nice'? I mean, come on, there has to be a few gay assholes out there. You really want to meat Phil, don't you? Phil is not quite as nice as I am, if that tells you anything! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #96 September 9, 2004 QuoteStop whinning. I already said stop whining, you're slow. http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=283075#283075it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #97 September 10, 2004 QuoteWhat I really want to know is why are all gay guys labelled 'nice'? I mean, come on, there has to be a few gay assholes out there. Yeah, and I've probably dated most of 'em. Keith Don't Fuck with me Keith - J. Mandeville Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Airman1270 0 #98 September 10, 2004 ...But they typically are more reserved than the dickchunks who are overly-agressive.. and then may be mistaken for gay cause theyre not pursuing as actively as some other guys... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Okay, here's a brief story. Not that I assume anyone cares, but this is an open forum... I was never the aggressive type. Sure, I was interested in the same things everyone else was, but I didn't want to be the guy the ladies talked about when they got into their "men suck" snit. No octopus here. (Okay, there were a few exceptions, but she was into it too so we can get off Jon's back....) It was not uncommon to date someone for awhile and later learn that, during those first dates, she wondered what was wrong with me. On several occasions I learned that she was receptive and was waiting for me to make a move. DOH!. Finally, one day in 1989, I met a woman who started hanging out in a bar at which I was spending a lot of time. Nothing serious, in fact nothing at all other than two people hanging together with no serious intentions. We ended up in one of those secluded parked-car situations, and I began to recognize the script. She was sending those signals I'd failed to respond to in the past. "Not this time" I said to myself. Older & wiser, having learned my lesson, I was not going to let this opportunity pass and decided I would give her what she wants. So I began to show her the attention she obviously desired, and, sure enough... she stopped me. In a rather awkward fashion, she said she wasn't really interested in supersizing our evening together. With a wry laugh I said "I give up." The perplexed look on her face was worth it. I explained everything I just told you. We had a giggle and apologized to each other for the misunderstanding. That marked the end of our "dating", but we remained bar buddies and enjoyed a pleasant rapport. She soon married another guy she later met at the same bar. Sure, this is boring and irrelevant, but I notice you're still reading. So anyway, I'm not gay and I'm not always a nice guy. But I have a lava lamp. Cheers, Jon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Airman1270 0 #99 September 10, 2004 ...I happen to like nice guys. And yes, I think they should finish last. Let the lady finish first ... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Agreed. The first hour+ is yours; the last 10 - 90 seconds is mine... I'm just a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Jon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
