shellybellyfly 0 #26 September 22, 2004 Thanks, vanillaskygirl, I have been trying to do what you suggested! Lummy, that is a pretty good idea! I'm sure someone would be willing to be my "boyfriend" and do that! Good idea! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lummy 4 #27 September 22, 2004 NP... good luck. I'm sure a big burly biker soundin kinda BF would do the trick REAL quick :)I promise not to TP Davis under canopy.. I promise not to TP Davis under canopy.. eat sushi, get smoochieTTK#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #28 September 22, 2004 Good luck with all! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites linny 1 #29 September 22, 2004 QuoteI mean, I told him everything I hated about him, said do not ever call me again... but it just doesn't work! UM, quit picking up the phone. You DO have a choice on whom you speak with and when. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mnealtx 0 #30 September 22, 2004 QuoteMan, how do you get an ex to just leave you the fuck alone??!!!! Mine just keeps calling me and whining about why can't he get a girl and how he screwed up letting me leave him. I want to just say, yes, you were a complete asshole, that's why. But I'm too nice.... I've tried everything, but he won't leave me alone!! Any ideas? Caller ID... if you see it's him, or the number isn't listed....don't pick it up! Conversely, let the answering machine screen your calls for you. Have your current b/f do the message. "Hi, you have reached 555-1212. Please leave a message at the beep". Also, if he calls you at work, have someone screen your calls, if you don't have caller ID at work. Good luck!Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #31 September 22, 2004 QuoteUM, quit picking up the phone. You DO have a choice on whom you speak with and when. Exactly what i was thinking. If you truly don't wanna talk to someone, you don't answer the phone. If you don't have callerID, then you just hang up when you discover it's him. Not that hard to avoid someone's phone calls. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RoysPlayThing 0 #32 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteUM, quit picking up the phone. You DO have a choice on whom you speak with and when. Exactly what i was thinking. If you truly don't wanna talk to someone, you don't answer the phone. If you don't have callerID, then you just hang up when you discover it's him. Not that hard to avoid someone's phone calls. Doesn't alway work when you have children involved. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #33 September 22, 2004 QuoteDoesn't alway work when you have children involved I didn't notice her saying she had children involved. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RoysPlayThing 0 #34 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteDoesn't alway work when you have children involved I didn't notice her saying she had children involved. I'm talking about different circumstances here... stop being nit-picky again. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwmike 0 #35 September 22, 2004 QuoteI mean, I told him everything I hated about him, said do not ever call me again... but it just doesn't work! I am reminded of the woman was was complaining about the obscene phone calls over the past 6 months ...'he keeps calling and goes on and on saying these filthy, disgusting things~" No offense, sister, buy you need to take some responsibility here. If you want the phone calls to end, end them. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites peregrinerose 0 #36 September 22, 2004 Change your number, or have his blocked. Hang up on him EVERY time he calls or you are giving him mixed messages. If he emails, delete them without opening. Worked well on my ex. Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites somethinelse 0 #37 September 22, 2004 DO YOU HAVE CALLER ID? IF YES- THEN JUST DON'T ANSWERTHE PHONE WHEN HE CALLS. DOES HE COME OVER TO YOUR HOME? IF YES, DON'T ANSWER THE DOOR, OR BE UNAVAILABLE & DON'T DEAL WITH HIM. BY THE WAY, DON'T CODDLE HIM. STICK TO IT, AND HE'LL BE FORCED TO MOVE ON AND GET OVER YOU BECAUSE, YOU WILL LEAVE HIM NO CHOICE. BY REFUSING TO LEAVE YOU ALONE, AS YOU'VE TOLD HIM TO DO, HE DISRESPECTS YOU AND CONTINUES TO TRY TO CONTROL YOU. TAKE CHARGE CHICKIE. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #38 September 22, 2004 QuoteI am reminded of the woman was was complaining about the obscene phone calls over the past 6 months ...'he keeps calling and goes on and on saying these filthy, disgusting things~" "...and the phone bill is horrendous. He keeps calling Collect." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #39 September 22, 2004 Set him up with someone. Theres gotta be a girl you know who can't get a date either.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites miked10270 0 #40 September 22, 2004 Hi Shelly, First off, block him from sending e-mails to you. On Outlook Express just highlight his message in your InBox, click Message in the top menus, and then click "Block Sender". Now to phone calls. For work, ask your switchboard to identify all callers to you and not put his calls through. At home, Invest in an answering machine. Get a male friend or work colleague to record the outgoing message. Something like: "The people who live here can't come to the phone just now. If you know these rabbits, you'll know why! Leave a message." Or: "You've reached the Lunatic Asylum, Chief Lunatic Speaking. I can't take your message because the beeps are coming to get me. Leave your message with one of them!" The grreat thing about answering machines is that you can leave them on even when you're at home . Your friends soon get used to you picking up as they start to leave a message. He'll hopefully get sick of phoning your machine all the time. Good luck, Mike. Taking the piss out of the FrenchAmericans since before it was fashionable. Prenait la pisse hors du FrançaisCanadiens méridionaux puisqu'avant lui à la mode. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #41 September 22, 2004 QuoteSet him up with someone. Theres gotta be a girl you know who can't get a date either.. Isn't Tenn a little far from Iowa? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites slug 1 #42 September 22, 2004 Hi belly How about telling the guy you've changed your sexual preference and now have a S.O. BTW x's that can't let it go are aren't gender specific. Trust me I have tall women stalking me all the time I wish R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #43 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteSet him up with someone. Theres gotta be a girl you know who can't get a date either.. Isn't Tenn a little far from Iowa? Yah I cant get a date.. I try and try.. guys never pay attention to me.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Bolas 5 #44 September 22, 2004 QuoteYah I cant get a date.. I try and try.. guys never pay attention to me.. It's those big boobs. According to Adam guys don't like those... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #45 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteYah I cant get a date.. I try and try.. guys never pay attention to me.. It's those big boobs. According to Adam guys don't like those... What??! Adam said I was perfect ..just the way I am. Hes just jealous because I fill out a bra better than he does. ( I look better in a thong too, but we dont need to go there.. ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #46 September 22, 2004 Quote( I look better in a thong too, but we dont need to go there.. ) Ahh... but we could. What more pleasant way to spend the afternoon than perusing pics of CKs thong? None, I think. Of course, you can always PM me any pics that you feel are too risque for public consumption. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #47 September 22, 2004 Hmmm.. I suddenly have a lot of work to do.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ryoder 1,590 #48 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuote( I look better in a thong too, but we dont need to go there.. ) Ahh... but we could. What more pleasant way to spend the afternoon than perusing pics of CKs thong? None, I think. Of course, you can always PM me any pics that you feel are too risque for public consumption. You should be able to burn an afternoon here: http://www.whale-tail.com/"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites goose491 0 #49 September 22, 2004 QuoteMan, how do you get an ex to just leave you the fuck alone??!!!! Mine just keeps calling me and whining about why can't he get a girl and how he screwed up letting me leave him. I want to just say, yes, you were a complete asshole, that's why. But I'm too nice.... I've tried everything, but he won't leave me alone!! Any ideas? Disclaimer: I feel near-guilt for sharing this with you... A very dangerous tactic, it is... Use this only if you be speaking true but if you've not in fact 'tried everything', then I suggest you leave this well-alone until you have... 1)Next time you're on the phone, start talking about the hot sex you had with the stranger you picked up at the bar you got smammered at last night ... 2)Then say something like: "Oops, I can't really talk right now... I didn't realise it but... er... [put phone on your shoulder at this point and shout: "Hey! What's your name?"]... Frank is still here... what a terrible host I'm being." Ahhh, my heart aches just thinking about it. When you do try this, beware! Be sure not to fall weak to the dark side. Female treachery as a habbit comes easily... but dies hard. Bwahaaa! Good luck! [under breath] poor guy [\under breath] My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 2 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. 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linny 1 #29 September 22, 2004 QuoteI mean, I told him everything I hated about him, said do not ever call me again... but it just doesn't work! UM, quit picking up the phone. You DO have a choice on whom you speak with and when. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #30 September 22, 2004 QuoteMan, how do you get an ex to just leave you the fuck alone??!!!! Mine just keeps calling me and whining about why can't he get a girl and how he screwed up letting me leave him. I want to just say, yes, you were a complete asshole, that's why. But I'm too nice.... I've tried everything, but he won't leave me alone!! Any ideas? Caller ID... if you see it's him, or the number isn't listed....don't pick it up! Conversely, let the answering machine screen your calls for you. Have your current b/f do the message. "Hi, you have reached 555-1212. Please leave a message at the beep". Also, if he calls you at work, have someone screen your calls, if you don't have caller ID at work. Good luck!Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #31 September 22, 2004 QuoteUM, quit picking up the phone. You DO have a choice on whom you speak with and when. Exactly what i was thinking. If you truly don't wanna talk to someone, you don't answer the phone. If you don't have callerID, then you just hang up when you discover it's him. Not that hard to avoid someone's phone calls. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #32 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteUM, quit picking up the phone. You DO have a choice on whom you speak with and when. Exactly what i was thinking. If you truly don't wanna talk to someone, you don't answer the phone. If you don't have callerID, then you just hang up when you discover it's him. Not that hard to avoid someone's phone calls. Doesn't alway work when you have children involved. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #33 September 22, 2004 QuoteDoesn't alway work when you have children involved I didn't notice her saying she had children involved. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #34 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteDoesn't alway work when you have children involved I didn't notice her saying she had children involved. I'm talking about different circumstances here... stop being nit-picky again. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #35 September 22, 2004 QuoteI mean, I told him everything I hated about him, said do not ever call me again... but it just doesn't work! I am reminded of the woman was was complaining about the obscene phone calls over the past 6 months ...'he keeps calling and goes on and on saying these filthy, disgusting things~" No offense, sister, buy you need to take some responsibility here. If you want the phone calls to end, end them. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peregrinerose 0 #36 September 22, 2004 Change your number, or have his blocked. Hang up on him EVERY time he calls or you are giving him mixed messages. If he emails, delete them without opening. Worked well on my ex. Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
somethinelse 0 #37 September 22, 2004 DO YOU HAVE CALLER ID? IF YES- THEN JUST DON'T ANSWERTHE PHONE WHEN HE CALLS. DOES HE COME OVER TO YOUR HOME? IF YES, DON'T ANSWER THE DOOR, OR BE UNAVAILABLE & DON'T DEAL WITH HIM. BY THE WAY, DON'T CODDLE HIM. STICK TO IT, AND HE'LL BE FORCED TO MOVE ON AND GET OVER YOU BECAUSE, YOU WILL LEAVE HIM NO CHOICE. BY REFUSING TO LEAVE YOU ALONE, AS YOU'VE TOLD HIM TO DO, HE DISRESPECTS YOU AND CONTINUES TO TRY TO CONTROL YOU. TAKE CHARGE CHICKIE. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #38 September 22, 2004 QuoteI am reminded of the woman was was complaining about the obscene phone calls over the past 6 months ...'he keeps calling and goes on and on saying these filthy, disgusting things~" "...and the phone bill is horrendous. He keeps calling Collect." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #39 September 22, 2004 Set him up with someone. Theres gotta be a girl you know who can't get a date either.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
miked10270 0 #40 September 22, 2004 Hi Shelly, First off, block him from sending e-mails to you. On Outlook Express just highlight his message in your InBox, click Message in the top menus, and then click "Block Sender". Now to phone calls. For work, ask your switchboard to identify all callers to you and not put his calls through. At home, Invest in an answering machine. Get a male friend or work colleague to record the outgoing message. Something like: "The people who live here can't come to the phone just now. If you know these rabbits, you'll know why! Leave a message." Or: "You've reached the Lunatic Asylum, Chief Lunatic Speaking. I can't take your message because the beeps are coming to get me. Leave your message with one of them!" The grreat thing about answering machines is that you can leave them on even when you're at home . Your friends soon get used to you picking up as they start to leave a message. He'll hopefully get sick of phoning your machine all the time. Good luck, Mike. Taking the piss out of the FrenchAmericans since before it was fashionable. Prenait la pisse hors du FrançaisCanadiens méridionaux puisqu'avant lui à la mode. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #41 September 22, 2004 QuoteSet him up with someone. Theres gotta be a girl you know who can't get a date either.. Isn't Tenn a little far from Iowa? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #42 September 22, 2004 Hi belly How about telling the guy you've changed your sexual preference and now have a S.O. BTW x's that can't let it go are aren't gender specific. Trust me I have tall women stalking me all the time I wish R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #43 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteSet him up with someone. Theres gotta be a girl you know who can't get a date either.. Isn't Tenn a little far from Iowa? Yah I cant get a date.. I try and try.. guys never pay attention to me.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #44 September 22, 2004 QuoteYah I cant get a date.. I try and try.. guys never pay attention to me.. It's those big boobs. According to Adam guys don't like those... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #45 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuoteYah I cant get a date.. I try and try.. guys never pay attention to me.. It's those big boobs. According to Adam guys don't like those... What??! Adam said I was perfect ..just the way I am. Hes just jealous because I fill out a bra better than he does. ( I look better in a thong too, but we dont need to go there.. ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #46 September 22, 2004 Quote( I look better in a thong too, but we dont need to go there.. ) Ahh... but we could. What more pleasant way to spend the afternoon than perusing pics of CKs thong? None, I think. Of course, you can always PM me any pics that you feel are too risque for public consumption. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #47 September 22, 2004 Hmmm.. I suddenly have a lot of work to do.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #48 September 22, 2004 QuoteQuote( I look better in a thong too, but we dont need to go there.. ) Ahh... but we could. What more pleasant way to spend the afternoon than perusing pics of CKs thong? None, I think. Of course, you can always PM me any pics that you feel are too risque for public consumption. You should be able to burn an afternoon here: http://www.whale-tail.com/"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goose491 0 #49 September 22, 2004 QuoteMan, how do you get an ex to just leave you the fuck alone??!!!! Mine just keeps calling me and whining about why can't he get a girl and how he screwed up letting me leave him. I want to just say, yes, you were a complete asshole, that's why. But I'm too nice.... I've tried everything, but he won't leave me alone!! Any ideas? Disclaimer: I feel near-guilt for sharing this with you... A very dangerous tactic, it is... Use this only if you be speaking true but if you've not in fact 'tried everything', then I suggest you leave this well-alone until you have... 1)Next time you're on the phone, start talking about the hot sex you had with the stranger you picked up at the bar you got smammered at last night ... 2)Then say something like: "Oops, I can't really talk right now... I didn't realise it but... er... [put phone on your shoulder at this point and shout: "Hey! What's your name?"]... Frank is still here... what a terrible host I'm being." Ahhh, my heart aches just thinking about it. When you do try this, beware! Be sure not to fall weak to the dark side. Female treachery as a habbit comes easily... but dies hard. Bwahaaa! Good luck! [under breath] poor guy [\under breath] My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites