jkwon 0 #1 September 30, 2004 Personally I'm just skeered of STDs and don't think I'd do it.--joe HISPA #69 The Best Band in the WORLD!!! The new full length album "See What You Can Find" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #2 September 30, 2004 Depends on if I have the same one. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #3 September 30, 2004 QuoteDepends on if I have the same one. Trying to collect the whole set? Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #4 September 30, 2004 Who the hell would scew someone they knew had a STD? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clownburner 0 #5 September 30, 2004 Wait, do you define 'psychotic' as an STD?7CP#1 | BTR#2 | Payaso en fuego Rodriguez "I want hot chicks in my boobies!"- McBeth Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jkwon 0 #6 September 30, 2004 Quote Who the hell would scew someone they knew had a STD? You'd be surprised. I dated a girl who had an STD and ALL my boys were like...just double wrap and go to war man. I didn't of course. But it's kinda interesting things would do for a good lay. It's not THAT important to me. Getting Laid that is.--joe HISPA #69 The Best Band in the WORLD!!! The new full length album "See What You Can Find" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jkwon 0 #7 September 30, 2004 QuoteWait, do you define 'psychotic' as an STD? Most of the time Psychosese begins after having sex...so sure...STD will include it. :)--joe HISPA #69 The Best Band in the WORLD!!! The new full length album "See What You Can Find" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #8 September 30, 2004 QuoteWait, do you define 'psychotic' as an STD? I think the term Don't stick it in the crazy!!!! applies in that case.... Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #9 September 30, 2004 well if you consider that I had sex with a woman who had a child...then I guess your amswer is yes. I like kids but they ARE an STDMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #10 September 30, 2004 QuoteQuoteDepends on if I have the same one. Trying to collect the whole set? Oh, my God, I almost fell out of my chair with laughter... I think my first reaction is like anyone else's; to immediately recoil and say "No Way"... Upon further reflection, my honest answer is it depends. Were they honest and up front about it? Am I really into them? Obviously, the protection issue is a given. It is hard for me to pass judgement on an overall basis, especially these days when they say one out of every four people has some form of herpes. I know a number of men and women of high "morals", who just happened to have bad luck. A dear girlfriend of mine (who is actually quite the catch) contracted herpes from the FIRST guy she ever slept with. She is open about it (though quite frankly would be mortified if she thought I would tell anyone who she is in this discussion), controls it with medication, and is never sexually active during an outbreak. In other words, she acts responsibly. Isn't she as entitled to a fufilling relationship as anyone else?"I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jib 0 #11 September 30, 2004 I wonder how many people would answer if I were drunk and horny enough? Personally, it isn't worth it. Wait for the antibiotics to kick in and the AIDS results. Scary shit these days!! -------------------------------------------------- the depth of his depravity sickens me. -- Jerry Falwell, People v. Larry Flynt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #12 September 30, 2004 Double wrap it ? aww man thats fuggin terrible, I couldn't see knowingly exposing my body to any contagious disease, much less for some sex....I'd rather go rub one out and keep the captain safe :) "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
christoofar 0 #13 September 30, 2004 My initial gut reaction would be no. But... that depends on who that person is. If I fell head over heals for someone, which has only happened to me 2x in my life (and I didn't marry either one.. no reciprocation)... I think that I could probably overlook everything and forgive just about anything just so I can be with that person... and yes even if that person has HIV. I know that might sound twisted... but have you truly ever been in real love before? ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #14 September 30, 2004 Nope! I'm super paranoid about STDs. Not that I'd think any different of the person. Shit happens and I understand that. I just wouldn't want to have to go through telling my potential new partner every time it was "time"... -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #15 September 30, 2004 What about people who sleep around and don't tell their victims that they have an STD??? I've actually heard of this happening. The person broke the news weeks after the first incident. Garbage. Some people are f*cked up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,632 #16 September 30, 2004 Quote...open about it... controls it with medication... never sexually active during an outbreak. In other words, she acts responsibly. Isn't she as entitled to a fufilling relationship as anyone else? I answered yes with protection, for exactly those reasons. It's a risk; like skydiving. If you manage the risk vs. gain right, then it's a decision that deserves to be made with intelligence rather than instinct. Of course, I remember the 70's, when sex was safe, too Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #17 September 30, 2004 Quote Who the hell would scew someone they knew had a STD? Just about any guy under the age of 25. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #18 September 30, 2004 QuoteWho the hell would screw someone they knew had a STD? I would. I even married such a person. Never had any problem. Just have to be careful. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RyanofOZ 0 #19 September 30, 2004 I agree with TypicalFish here. It would depend on the situation, and how the person dealt with it. I would hate to miss out on someone because of that. Especially when most all but AIDS can be controlled or cured now. I would not date an AIDS infected person though. That is my only for sure "no". The end result of death is too much for me to take. I have several friends that have gotten things over the years and all got rid of it, or lived with it. The 1 in 4 with herpes argument is an interesting one. The buddy of mine that is a doctor said its all over the younger 18-35 single age range. Also that quite a few have it and will never know because they never have a breakout. The same goes for papillona(sp) virus that causes warts. He had said even more have a form of that. Only 2 cause visible warts, the rest just hang out. I have never personally been approached by someone in that situation, or had one myself (knock on wood) but I would have to say I would have an open mind about it and have a few questions. Some girl that got raped in college and given something shouldnt be made to pay for it or feel bad her whole life. Nor should the guy that didnt think his wife was cheating on him till he broke out with something. I just think every situation deserver an open mind on this one.Oz Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #20 September 30, 2004 Jib, just use red condoms...nothing can break through those. Anyhoo, no i wouldn't sleep with someone that had an STD. I've never had one and would like to keep it that way. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jib 0 #21 September 30, 2004 QuoteJib, just use red condoms...nothing can break through those. Or at least they'll distract you long enough not to worry about emergencies etc. -------------------------------------------------- the depth of his depravity sickens me. -- Jerry Falwell, People v. Larry Flynt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacefuljeffrey 0 #22 September 30, 2004 QuotePersonally I'm just skeered of STDs and don't think I'd do it. Same here. I made the mistake of having casual sex with a girl in college and found out afterward just how sluttily promiscuous she had been. I got TERRIFIED. Got tested right away, then again some time later, and WHEW!! I was in the clear! But what a learning experience! I had been an oblivious college student, making the assumption that "surely anyone my age just hasn't been around the block enough to carry diseases I might get." As soon as I found cause to worry even just a little bit, I got reallllly cautious. Probably denied myself a lot of sex over the years that I could have had, or at least pursued, but for the fact that I'm not willing to chance getting a disease, not even one of the ones that they can cure. The last time I dated a girl, I went to my doctor, told him I was starting a new relationship and wanted a clean bill of health (or at least an assessment that I hoped would be clean) and he ran a series of standard STD tests and again, I was fully clean. But wouldn't you know it, I did that so I could reassure this girl before we got serious, and she called it off before we did get serious. I'd say she missed out: a guy who cares enough to make sure to be able to show her he's not a disease risk to her, someone that thoughtful, and she decided against me. Oh well. I wonder if the next guy she decided to date was that mature and responsible and considerate. Does it show that nice guys finish last? Well, I can't say for sure, because it's not like I had a chance to tell her that I had gone and gotten tested for her, or anything. So it wasn't even something she could weigh in her decision. But who knows; I think things worked out that way for a reason. We had a lot in common (and we made out really well together) but there were differences I was aware of, like she liked to smoke pot, and I'm fully non-drug, so maybe we weren't right for each other after all. But I do have the luxury of knowing that I'm disease free for the next cutie who comes along. -Jeffrey-Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
christoofar 0 #23 September 30, 2004 QuoteJib, just use red condoms...nothing can break through those. Anyhoo, no i wouldn't sleep with someone that had an STD. I've never had one and would like to keep it that way. Would you rethink that if you were deeply attracted and in love with someone (not casual fling)? Personally, I wouldn't know how to react if it happened--I'd play it by ear. An ex g-friend of mine is facing this very situation with a Hep-A/Hep-B carrier who I also know and I talk to both of them frequently. Although it's not as serious as say, syph or HIV, it did have her in a corner as to what to do. But she loves him enough to overcome all that. I have to say that's mighty powerful if you're willing to cross that bridge. Attraction is one thing, but love is another and it's extremely powerful, you'd do almost anything to keep feeling that good. Just talkin' about this makes me remember all the bouts of seperation anxiety I used to have. ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #24 September 30, 2004 Quote I know that might sound twisted... but have you truly ever been in real love before? Yes, and I can say that if I was with someone that I loved, or was married to them, and they picked up an STD from an accident I would stay with them, and still be intimate with them. As long as they were the person I was going to be staying with for the rest of my life. I know not everyone would do that. But then again, you only find real love in life if you are lucky. Don't get me wrong - virii scare the hell out of me. Gives me the willies (but at least that isn't an STD!). You have to be careful because even the sweetest of girls may have made a couple mistakes along the way and be infected. I believe I heard a stat that 30% of all people infected with herpes do not even know they have it! Therefore it's better to be choosey about your partners, and not pick someone that has a risky background (or slept with someone that had a risky background)....until they get tested._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #25 September 30, 2004 Quote Who the hell would scew someone they knew had a STD? Those who know they have the same STD... If they both already have it, what's the harm? Just as long as they don't spread it to others..."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
