Would you screw someone who is married?

[Conundrum 1]

If a married man or woman came to you and was interested, would you sleep with them? Date them?

It seems like now-a-days people just don't give a shit about morals or the vows they take with someone they say they love. It makes me sick.

I wouldn't touch a married man, period. Cheating disgusts me, wether someone else does it or it's done to me, and I'd certainly never lower myself to help them with that.

" Oh but she's gonna fuck someone anyways, might as well be me or it's gonna be someone else! " is an argument I hear a lot, and I just find it disgusting behavior.

What's your take on it?

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Cheating disgusts me

My take on it....


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[eeneR 3]

Or even worse...when they dont tell you they are married... I hate people who cant end one relationship before starting another.....even if the relationship is fucked and has problems...end it, clean up...before bringing something else in.

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[Frenchy68 0]

If a married man or woman is out looking for action, there is something seriously wrong with the relationship in the first place. Faithfulness is meaningless if one has to force himself/herself to honor it. Not talking about the occasional temptation (which should be resisted), but more about a pattern of cheating. Move on. Would I sleep with a married woman knowing that doing so would affect an otherwise seemingly happy marriage? No. Would I sleep with a married woman on the verge of separating from her husband? Can't say for sure.
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[Conundrum 1]

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Or even worse...when they dont tell you they are married... I hate people who cant end one relationship before starting another.....even if the relationship is fucked and has problems...end it, clean up...before bringing something else in.

Exactly. I was beginning to think I was the only one who thought like this.

[Evelyn 0]

I would sleep with a married man - my husband

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[Gravitymaster 0]

If I knew she was married I would tell her she needs to sit down and try and work things out with her husband. I'd tell her that the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence and I'd ask her to think about the ramifications of breaking up her family if she has kids.

Of course, if I was 21 again, I'd do her like a drunk monkey.

[chaoskitty 0]

I'm with you and Renee..girl.

And I have another point to add.. I just have to think carefully how to word it to get it across correctly. Flip-flop genders and stuff.. it all applies:
A single woman who is available for a committed, loving relationship (which is what *most* women want eventually if not already), would be a fool to get involved with a married man, who has very little to offer in the way of a committed, loving relationship. At least not until lots of drama occurrs and people get hurt all over the place.

So basically, if a married man wanted to get involved with me, I'd look at him and see that the only thing he could offer me would be sex and drama, when I have so much more to offer him.

So throw that on top of being morally wrong, deceitful, hurtful, etc. My answer would be no.

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If a married man or woman came to you and was interested, would you sleep with them? Date them?

It seems like now-a-days people just don't give a shit about morals or the vows they take with someone they say they love. It makes me sick.

I wouldn't touch a married man, period. Cheating disgusts me, wether someone else does it or it's done to me, and I'd certainly never lower myself to help them with that.

" Oh but she's gonna fuck someone anyways, might as well be me or it's gonna be someone else! " is an argument I hear a lot, and I just find it disgusting behavior.

What's your take on it?

I agree wholeheartedly...I would never sleep with a married man. PERIOD! And yes, I have been propositioned by a married man before...I told him off immediately and informed him that the tan line from his ring was quite visible......

Unfortunately, there are people out there who would stoop so low as to sleep with someone who is married...As someone else said...End one, then start another...First things first...Everything else is just excuses......

However...this does not touch on "open" relationships...that is a different story...I am referring to marriages that are completely monogamous...

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[sunshine 2]

eeneR said it quite well. I'll admit back when i was younger and stupider i didn't really care if the man was married. But thank god i grew up (somewhat) and have much better morals now.

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[Spatula 0]

Notta!! That simple, no questions asked. I believe in the vows I took when I got married, and cheerish them. People who comprimise these....well .....are STUPID!!!!

But that's just my 2c

[Shotgun 1]

Only if I had permission from their spouse.

And assuming I wanted to sleep with someone else who is married... For now I think I'll stick to sleeping with just my husband (who, as Evelyn pointed out, IS a married man ).

[Conundrum 1]

Why aren't the people who are voting "yes" replying? I'm interested to hear your reason for why you'd do it.

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Why aren't the people who are voting "yes" replying? I'm interested to hear your reason for why you'd do it.

My guess is because deep down inside they know it's wrong and would rather not expose themselves and be flamed.

[RevJim 0]

Ahhh, what the hell.

Being married is fun!

You get to flirt with everyone, married and single. Ya know why? 'Cause they all know you're just messing around and having fun. On occasion I do find one that doesn't take it that way though. That's an even bigger rush, 'cause you get to tell THEM no. I've known lots of women in my life that were known as a dick tease. It's really, really fun being a clit tease.

Remember, just because he/she are hitting on you does NOT mean they want to have sex. Maybe, just maybe they are judging your moral character. I do just that, and it's quite entertaining.

It's your life, live it!
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Why aren't the people who are voting "yes" replying? I'm interested to hear your reason for why you'd do it.

My guess is because deep down inside they know it's wrong and would rather not expose themselves and be flamed.

I would have to say that is the best answer to her question...who would want to admit to being an adulterer?


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[Zep 0]

I think some one should ask the question

If you are married would you sleep with some one else?

Gone fishing

[RoysPlayThing 0]

Desperate! Immoral! stupid! and childish!! ...

thats what I think of it.

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[peregrinerose 0]

I had a year long relationship with a married guy who was supposedly in the process of getting divorced. I got involved because I adore his kids (neglected by mom, I was doing all the momstuff, getting them off to school, tutoring, etc, she was high on painkillers). It was stupid, I will spend every day for the rest of my life regretting it. For anyone even loosely considering this path, learn from my bigass mistakes.

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[scottbre 0]

In this world of "sexual openness" it seems like there ought to be an "it depends" option in your poll. Because there are married couples out there who look for a third person to add to the mix.

[Conundrum 1]

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If you are married would you sleep with some one else?

Gah! Thats even worse!

[sunshine 2]

If the husband was ok with it, i would screw a married chick.

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Why aren't the people who are voting "yes" replying? I'm interested to hear your reason for why you'd do it.

A lot of times I hear a certain reason repeated from married women.

"It wasn't really cheating because I knew the relationship was over. I had told him and we were just waiting to file the paperwork."

Just after I got divorced, I worked at a large corp office. I got propositioned by bored married women about once a month. Just "an afternoon at the Red Roof Inn, no strings".

They liked their life, kids, car, home, and even their husband. They were just bored with the "same old" in bed. I'm also sure they weren't just asking me.

I already had enough drama, stress, paranoia, and stupidity in my life though.

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Why aren't the people who are voting "yes" replying? I'm interested to hear your reason for why you'd do it.

A lot of times I hear a certain reason repeated from married women.

"It wasn't really cheating because I knew the relationship was over. I had told him and we were just waiting to file the paperwork."

Just after I got divorced, I worked at a large corp office. I got propositioned by bored married women about once a month. Just "an afternoon at the Red Roof Inn, no strings".

They liked their life, kids, car, home, and even their husband. They were just bored with the "same old" in bed. I'm also sure they weren't just asking me.

I already had enough drama, stress, paranoia, and stupidity in my life though.

Smart man...



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