Guys - is this a standard for girls?

[flyinghonu 0]

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The people buying into it are the crew sitting at home watching tv right now, I would bet it does not include most skydivers.
You want to ask some questions, ask them of the mothers that encourage 14 year old 'mini-mes'. As them of the teachers that feel elementray kids should be treated in all ways like adults. I will heavily agree with you that there is a serious underlying problem: selling sex to everyone on the planet and the being surprised that someone under 18 bought it.

I was referring to grown women who have bought into this not children (and yes, I consider anyone under 17 children regardless of how attractive they may be).

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However, I really doubt, a few skydivers joking about breasts and the perfection there in created that culture.

Yeah, that is exactly what I meant by my post....NOT!

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This is no different than girls looking at unattainable guys. Now perhaps what you idolize in them is different, but that is a difference of the sexes. Am I supposed to generalize that all women are liars because they say they want an intellectual guy and then drool over Vin Deisel?

I was also referring to some of the comments made in the post not just the pictures. The comments made, is part of what contributes to the notion some women have that men are lying about not wanting the "eye candy" over the stimulating intellectual.

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Human nature wants what it does not have. If you are in a relationship with an strictly intellectual guy, the bad boy type might cross your mind occasionally. Not because of any inherent value, but simply the attraction of the unknown or unattainable.

Maybe for you but I'm pretty happy with what I have. Looking and admiring is one thing, desiring something other than what you have is a whole other game.

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This is unfortunate, as people have grown this "They are big, the must be fake" attitude. I know from personal dating, that is absolutely false.

Enlightening .

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If you can find a lot of 'real' women with 'real' breasts who want to share them, I am sure would be every bit as happy looking at them.

Here ya' go http://www.perfect10.com/

I'll read your response and appreciate your point of view but I've truly had enough of this thread. Its like a freakin' car crash, I just can't stop watching it. I must be one of those lucky women who just doesn't give a damn what men think of me...I love me, my hubby loves me, and that works FOR me. Yeah, he looks but from what I can tell each night, he has what he desires Peace Out!

"Excuse me while I kiss the sky..." - Jimi Hendrix

[SkydiveNFlorida 0]

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Well you make a good point, I would say my perception is that there are a lot less, we seem to give in pretty quick to a nice smile and a soft word.

lol!

[flyingferret 0]

Thanks, I totally respect your views and agree with some of them.
This is a spawn thread, from another thread I started, which I declared upfront to be totally gratuitous and the result of boredom and red wine.
It was a much satire on our seemingly insatiable apptetite for breasts as anything else.
Somone started a thread questioning the idea that my thread was 'a standard' and I felt obliged to weigh in on the topic.
The real commentary about feminity/standards could really be more of a speakers corner thing.

My closing comment would be this:
I am quite conservative, you can scan my old posts if you really want, but I suspect there is much better uses of time. I have never dated anyone like those pictures. I just very pleasingly got a date for this weekend, and she is not in any of those pictures.
I admire women, sometimes foolishly and sometimes superficially, and am honest enough to admit it. I may never have a Shelby GT500, and I may never have (in fact would rather not have) a 'supermodel/bunny' wife, but might glance at either.

As for your direct comments:
I am not sure how you isolate the 'adults' most views are formative LONG before 18. I would guess adult that have bought in now, felt drawn that direction long ago.

Eye candy vs. intellect? We want both, in fact we want a lot more. I also want a plane, 5 skydiving rigs, the new ferrari 430, and 3 harleys in the garage. The question is what is really worth persuing? What truly has value. That is the distinction between the eye candy and the rest. I still don't see how that is a lie. Unless perhaps you know men that insist the only like one thing, in which case I cannot speak for them, but that is not me. You even make the comment about your husband that he looks. We can in fact consider multiple options and choose value. I will with some risk assume most skydiving guys are enlightened enough to not choose purely superficial value.
Of course who would have thought that viewing some pin up pics on a casual forum would be considered choosing.

With respect, peace out.

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[flyinghonu 0]

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Eye candy vs. intellect? We want both, in fact we want a lot more. I also want a plane, 5 skydiving rigs, the new ferrari 430, and 3 harleys in the garage. The question is what is really worth persuing? What truly has value. That is the distinction between the eye candy and the rest. I still don't see how that is a lie. Unless perhaps you know men that insist the only like one thing, in which case I cannot speak for them, but that is not me. You even make the comment about your husband that he looks. We can in fact consider multiple options and choose value. I will with some risk assume most skydiving guys are enlightened enough to not choose purely superficial value.
Of course who would have thought that viewing some pin up pics on a casual forum would be considered choosing.

With respect, peace out.

Ok, I know I swore not to respond but again...the car accident thing. This entry has helped me understand...again, I must remind myself how hard it can be to articulate your thoughts on a forum and in writing.

Back to enjoying your boobies ...that was joke.

"Excuse me while I kiss the sky..." - Jimi Hendrix