kinney29 0 #26 October 18, 2004 Quote BUT MAKE GOOD AND SURE THIS IS SOMETHING YOU MAY WANT TO LET GO. And if there ain't no ring on the finger it's fair game. It won't make you a bad person.fatones The point is I don't WANT to let it go but, I HAVE to let it go. If when we met she was single I'm sure we would be dating, but she's not. I'm not a believer that there is ONE right person for someone. So I cut my losses and move on! If she is ever single and I am at the time I'll see what happens, but I'm not gonna hold my breath, if I did I would missing out on a lot of other wonderful things in life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #27 October 18, 2004 cut-away, cut-away, cut-away. save your self man.Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #28 October 18, 2004 QuoteYooohoooo! Breakup sex! LMAO. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goose491 0 #29 October 18, 2004 Life's too short dude. Don't lose contact with a friend because of this. And the truth is out now.. she is also interested? I'll risk being flamed and say Life is also too short to put feelings on the back burner for anything. My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #30 October 18, 2004 QuoteQuoteYour plan is sound and wise. Proceed. Thank you for your permission. You're very welcome. (I knew that's what you were looking for when you posted this - who knows how to read between the lines, huh?) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #31 October 18, 2004 Quote I'll risk being flamed and say Life is also too short to put feelings on the back burner for anything. Even if I told you it was your girlfriend? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chachi 0 #32 October 18, 2004 QuoteQuote I'll risk being flamed and say Life is also too short to put feelings on the back burner for anything. Even if I told you it was your girlfriend? Actually, yeah because I would rather know before she cheated on me that she really didn't want to be with me anymore. I would forgive her if she could look me in the eye and say she didn't cheat on me and wanted to end it before she did. ~Chachi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #33 October 19, 2004 QuoteQuote BUT MAKE GOOD AND SURE THIS IS SOMETHING YOU MAY WANT TO LET GO. And if there ain't no ring on the finger it's fair game. It won't make you a bad person.fatones The point is I don't WANT to let it go but, I HAVE to let it go. If when we met she was single I'm sure we would be dating, but she's not. I'm not a believer that there is ONE right person for someone. So I cut my losses and move on! If she is ever single and I am at the time I'll see what happens, but I'm not gonna hold my breath, if I did I would missing out on a lot of other wonderful things in life. If you do/did hook up with her, it would only be a matter of time before she finds another couch to watch some TV with! Maybe a year, maybe five, but it would happen! "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bob.dino 1 #34 October 19, 2004 Huh? I don't get this. They haven't actually done anything... they're just having lots of fun hanging out together. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. My gf is well within her rights to hang out with her male friends, as am I to hang out with my female ones. On the other hand, if she broke up with current bf to be with kinney29, what's wrong? She didn't cheat, he wasn't a bastard, and current bf is let down as nicely/honestly as is possible in the circumstances... kinney29 is, in my opinion, being decent and reasonable about the whole situation. A gentleman, in fact. And there's no reason to suspect the girl is anything less than a lady. She hasn't made a move on him or nuthin'. It's no sin to be attracted to someone. edit: Of course, what you do about that attraction may well be Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josheezammit 0 #35 October 19, 2004 Quoteshe wants it...give it up...come on...you know you want to...it'll be okay....no one will find out ooooooo, robert, you so crazy, as a youth minister, (that is not an asshole) if you want to know what i think, pm me, i will share..... Ahh, what a wonderful world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheMonkey 0 #36 October 19, 2004 be a man, go for it...if her boytoy was slingin it to her right in the first place she wouldn't be lookin for it elsewhere! if you pack the artillery and skilz, you got no worries about being swooped...life's short, go fast, take chances, hook low, and don't wear a helmet! --------------------- Never argue with an idiot, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #37 October 19, 2004 QuoteHuh? I don't get this. They haven't actually done anything... Well actually ... no we haven't slept together, however we have kissed and when we were watching the game we weren't exactly sittng on oppisite sides of the couch. That said, we did talk last night on the phone. It's obvious that even though she's been in this relationship for awhile she's not sure it's gonna last, but I told her we should not see each other anymore. She understood, she knows it's for the best, but she doesn't like it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tonto 1 #38 October 20, 2004 QuoteIt's obvious that even though she's been in this relationship for awhile she's not sure it's gonna last. You're the emotional reserve, well packed, and well maintained - and you've just threatened not to work. Her relationship will not last. Not the way she's behaving, anyway. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skyrad 0 #39 October 20, 2004 Dude, it sucks but you're just going to have to suck it up. Sure it'll hurt but that will pass. Better to have the integrity and honour than be 'that guy' a f**king low life. If you mean to her so much she'll break it off with her guy and you'll be in the clear. If she doesn't then clearly shes made her choice. As my Irish friends say 'That whats for yer, won't go by yer!' keep the faith boets!When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy. Lucius Annaeus Seneca Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #40 October 20, 2004 Thanks for all the support guys, but honestly it doesn't really hurt that much. It feels good knowing that I did the right thing. Right now one of my good friends just broke up with his girlfriend and he's hurting a lot more than I could and I'm just trying to be there for him. If I allowed myself to wallow in self pity about a relationship that wasn't even there it would really show me how shallow I was. Even so what does hurt is my beloved Yankees losing 3 games in a row, now THAT hurts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
