Vallerina 2 #1 November 8, 2004 Some of you might remember this post: http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1330777#1330777 Basically, I thought that I was going to be able to pick any costume that I wanted as long as it went with the overall color scheme. At the very least, I thought that everyone would buy the same, plain costume for cheap. I was wrong. Three or four of the ladies in the group all want to have the exact same, expensive costume. I don't mind spending a little more on something that I like or something that I can wear again, but this falls into neither category. Is it just me or is this hideous: http://www.dahlal.com/new_site/pages/Product_Costume.php?CategoryID=1&BigCatID=1145&Stock=ES13&all_IDs=1157%2C&BigCatName=Egyptian&CatName=Full+Costumes&artistSort=&artist=&Sess_dahlal=09e96128575fd64c4b140a84a3a28df8 It's expensive. I'm only going to wear it once for about 4 minutes. It reminds me of really bad Christmas decorations. I told the ladies that I will not buy it, so I might be the only one not wearing it! Oh well!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #2 November 8, 2004 It doesnt look as good as the other ones you posted... but werent those even more expensive?Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #3 November 8, 2004 Be original... Like you are the leader and they are your followers. Spend the rest on skydiving. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #4 November 8, 2004 Quotebut werent those even more expensive? The one that Sunny posted was insanely expensive! But, the others were only about $10-$20 more. They weren't as gaudy.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #5 November 8, 2004 This one seems designed to cover more body flaws. Specifically, it doesn't show too much (any?) of the ass or thighs. Possibly a reason why the other ladies like it so much. quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #6 November 8, 2004 QuoteThe one that Sunny posted was insanely expensive! I have good (but expensive) taste. Anyhoo, that outfit is hideous. I can't beleive those other girls like it. Ugh, i know i would suck it up and buy it just to go along with the group, but you're way stronger than me. Don't give in to those tasteless little twits!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #7 November 8, 2004 QuotePossibly a reason why the other ladies like it so much. Actually, you might be on to something there. However, if they want more material, they should've gone with something less gaudy. They'll just look like big gold and purple pieces of fabric on stage.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #8 November 8, 2004 OK, in the last post I made the comment that with your body, any outfit that was posted would look awsome. This is the exception. YUK!It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #9 November 8, 2004 Thanks, Jim! I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this is ugly! I'd rather just wear a plain purple skirt and top!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyangel2 2 #10 November 8, 2004 Thank god for a good photographer and photo shop to cover body flaws May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IanHarrop 43 #11 November 8, 2004 Here are some more choices... Clicky"Where troubles melt like lemon drops, away above the chimney tops, that's where you'll find me" Dorothy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #12 November 8, 2004 When you were a kid and did dnace recitals or class plays, did you pick your own costume regardless of what everyone else wore? Personally, I don't think its THAT bad. Its a costume that's going to be worn on stage, its less expensive than the other options and if you say no and wear your own thing you will a) stick out like a sore thumb and b) alienate the other ladies in your group. Unless you can find something suitable thats far less expensive I don't really get your objection. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #13 November 8, 2004 Quotedid you pick your own costume regardless of what everyone else wore? If the teacher told us what to wear, I would do it. When I was a kid, we'd never spend $100 on just one dance costume either. QuoteUnless you can find something suitable thats far less expensive I don't really get your objection. Oh, there are many more costumes that are far less expensive! One of the women in the group who also has an objection to it sent us links to costumes that are simple and cost about $50. They look decent.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katzeye 0 #14 November 8, 2004 Yup it's horrid. I did the belly dancing thing right aobut the time I started skydiving. It's fun! What gets me is this "troupe" thing at all the shows. Um, bellydancing is singular person show. It was never meant to be done with more ppl or in a group. Well, that's what my teacher told me anyhow. Is a chicken omelette redundant? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #15 November 8, 2004 You should get together with her and stage a coup! Of course when I did shows and dance recitals in school, most of our costumes were made by our mothers! And I also agree that $100.00 does seem high. But the alternatives you posted cost even more, so I just don't think you'd get far with the price objection. I do think the ladies in the group need to get together and decide what's appropriate to spend on a costume for the performance, and come to an agreement as a group. Funny, this is reminding me of last night's episode of Desperate Housewives! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #16 November 8, 2004 QuoteI did the belly dancing thing right aobut the time I started skydiving. It's fun! What gets me is this "troupe" thing at all the shows. Um, bellydancing is singular person show. It was never meant to be done with more ppl or in a group. It originated from women dancing together, so true belly dancers did perform in troupes. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ltdiver 3 #17 November 9, 2004 So, aren't belly dancing costumes supposed to emphasize that body part (and not the rest)? ltdiver Don't tell me the sky's the limit when there are footprints on the moon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #18 November 9, 2004 QuoteSo, aren't belly dancing costumes supposed to emphasize that body part (and not the rest)? ltdiver Alot of the traditional costume covered the belly aswell, the more western one show much more skinYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #19 November 9, 2004 QuoteI don't mind spending a little more on something that I like or something that I can wear again, but this falls into neither category. Is it just me or is this hideous! I am in SHOCK. Poor Val. That is incredibly, disgustingly HIDEOUS!!! Are you girls also cheerleading for the Lakers on the side? WTH is up with the COLORS??? Val, I am so sorry that you have to buy this or risk looking out of place and possibly upsetting the others. Good luck with your decision, and I hope that you and your belly-dancing friends enjoy yourselves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #20 November 9, 2004 QuoteAre you girls also cheerleading for the Lakers on the side? WTH is up with the COLORS??? Okay, that was funny! I was (as usual) the first one to speak up against the costume, and many other ladies agreed. One lady just had a baby, doesn't feel like showing her stomach, and also doesn't feel like spending that much money, so we're going with a very plain purple/black theme. Fine by me! People can either make it themselves or by something cheap! I'm going to go with plain, except I'm going to get one of those cool coin belts that I can wear to the bars as well!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyangel2 2 #21 November 9, 2004 I hope it all works out for you. It's kind of like being a brides maid, having to wear a dress that you hate, that you know you'll never wear again.May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
melstarr 0 #22 November 9, 2004 QuoteI hope it all works out for you. It's kind of like being a brides maid, having to wear a dress that you hate, that you know you'll never wear again. that's exactly what i was thinking too .... val*, you are hot, so you will still look Awesome-Smoke-alicious in ANY of the costumes wishing you lots of fun with your performance! ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpwally 0 #23 November 10, 2004 Just show your tits and be done with it.....wally ;-)smile, be nice, enjoy life FB # - 1083 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #24 November 10, 2004 I believe the woman wearing it in that picture is really a man.... Maybe the costume would look better on YOU! linz-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
