Vallerina 2 #1 November 18, 2004 I always found this to be the funniest of emotions. I find it funniest when people want something they already have or don't need. I also never understood not being friends with someone out of jealousy. I'm not saying I've never gotten jealous of any of my friends, but I never understood not liking them because they're blessed in some way. I never understood not wanting to be friends with someone because of the way they look. Ever since I was 10, my best friend has been the most gorgeous woman I've ever known. All the guys hit on her first. Yes. All. While it would get to me at times, I never once wanted to be mean to her or not be friends with her for it. She's hot. It's not her fault. She's also an extremely brilliant woman who is so much fun to hang around. Why would I miss out on those things because she's hot? I never understood being too jealous to be friends with someone because of their intelligence. One of my friends became a millionaire at the age of 24 because of an airplane wing he developed. He's a genius. It would be great to understand difficult concepts so easily like he does, but to not have hung out with him and listen to his other theories because I wanted to have a higher iq...well, that just seems silly. I would've missed out on great conversation. I never understood not being able to be friends with someone because of their money. I'm going to have to work and not enjoy every luxury known to man, but I never understood stereotyping people with money and snubbing them for what they have. What I really don't understand is being jealous of somebody because they're well-liked and avoiding getting to know them. I will never be able to understand NOT wanting to get to know somebody because it seems they bring joy to other people who know them. Personally, I haven't run across too much jealousy. I haven't had many instances of people being extremely jealous of anything I have. The few times someone has been jealous has been a pretty sharp pang. I can take people being mad at me (hehe....I'm used to that!) I'm just glad I don't have much for people to get jealous of! Just a ramble of something on my mind!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #2 November 18, 2004 You need to put on somthing slinky and danceInfront of a webcamYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zep 0 #3 November 18, 2004 QuoteYou need to put on somthing slinky and danceInfront of a webcam whilst slowly taking it off Gone fishing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antifnsocial 0 #4 November 18, 2004 jealousy bad love good Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Evelyn 0 #5 November 18, 2004 Great thread Val, Wish I would have had your wisdom at that age. I don't know that I have that wisdom at MY age. I think you have a lot of insight into people and I wish I had that too. You rock . Life is either a daring adventure or nothing ~ Helen Keller Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #6 November 18, 2004 QuoteI can take people being mad at me (hehe....I'm used to that!) I'm just glad I don't have much for people to get jealous of! First, I think that you have plenty to be jealous of (intelligent, strong personality, extremely witty/sharp, beautiful blond hair/blue eyes, great body/height, etc.), but it's hard for me to be jealous of a good friend. I also cannot say that I have never been jealous of anyone else, especially extremely intelligent people, whom I wish I was like more. (I admire them so much.) Yet, I have to admit that it feels way better to feel happiness for someone's else's intelligence, beauty or good fortune. Also, it feels especially good to be happy for someone who has worked hard for things and is reaping the rewards. When I feel twinges of jealousy, I try to turn it inward to see what is lacking within myself that may make me feel this way. The best is sharing in someone else's joy and perhaps even learning from that person. In accepting who we are and our "limitations", we can then push them beyond what we had previously dreamed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites antifnsocial 0 #7 November 18, 2004 her threads do, wish I really knew some of you, there are some cool people on dz.com Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #8 November 18, 2004 Quoteher threads do, wish I really knew some of you, there are some cool people on dz.com Awww...thanks! There really are some cool people on here! Rosa...you stole my words again! That's what I try to do, too, whenever I feel jealousy. If you turn it around so that you're happy with what someone has rather than be disappointed in what you think you lack...well, that just makes good sense.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites TheAnvil 0 #9 November 18, 2004 Many people are jealous of me because I am short and able to fit in places they can't. Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #10 November 18, 2004 Quoteher threads do, wish I really knew some of you, there are some cool people on dz.com Val is sooo not cool. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #11 November 18, 2004 QuoteMany people are jealous of me because I am short and able to fit in places they can't. You too? Val ~ I think that I want to marry you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SBS 0 #12 November 18, 2004 I also cannot say that I have never been jealous of anyone else, especially extremely intelligent people, whom I wish I was like more. ----------- Yeah, that would be cool if you were a little smarter... -S PS - I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry!_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #13 November 18, 2004 QuoteVal ~ I think that I want to marry you. Let's move to Utah where we can all marry each other and be one big happy family!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #14 November 18, 2004 QuoteI also cannot say that I have never been jealous of anyone else, especially extremely intelligent people, whom I wish I was like more. ----------- Yeah, that would be cool if you were a little smarter... -S PS - I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! DORK! That's my point, Steve. I wish that I was... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #15 November 18, 2004 QuoteQuoteVal ~ I think that I want to marry you. Let's move to Utah where we can all marry each other and be one big happy family!! YEAH!!! Val, Sunny, Rosa...oh, too bad that Katie is taken. Wait, what about my BF? Can he marry us all? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #16 November 18, 2004 YES!!! Your boyfriend is hot!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #17 November 18, 2004 QuoteYEAH!!! Val, Sunny, Rosa...oh, too bad that Katie is taken. Wait, what about my BF? Can he marry us all? I get to bring my harem of men too, especially that phillykev guy. Mmmm.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #18 November 18, 2004 Ok, Sunny girl. You can play with his underwear, too. Lol...I knew that Val would say "yes"! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Remster 30 #19 November 18, 2004 QuoteEven that silly Remster guy is pretty cool (his wife is just hot, though!) So are you saying my wife isnt cool.... Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites melstarr 0 #20 November 18, 2004 QuoteWhat I really don't understand is being jealous of somebody because they're well-liked and avoiding getting to know them. I will never be able to understand NOT wanting to get to know somebody because it seems they bring joy to other people who know them. As Always Val*, you deliver a very well thought-out thread... I like the points you bring to the .com-round-table of discussion the above quote is definitely on my mind -- because i've witnessed this type of jealousy. it happened (and still does) to a very special friend of mine ~ it's truly sad . similar to what you have stated val*, i don't understand why people can't see the beauty in different personas . gosh, there is so much to learn from all the different people out there!! personally, i rule out jealousy with a desire for friendship. a lifetime is way too short to swim lazily in a pool of jealousy, yaaaay! ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #21 November 18, 2004 Quoteit happened (and still does) to a very special friend of mine ~ it's truly sad Yup! My best friend Erin literally got shoved one time by some really mean women because their "men" were checking her out. Quotepersonally, i rule out jealousy with a desire for friendship. As always, beautifully written! Mel, you rock! You are so gorgeous, and you look frickin' HOT in the sky!!! (Just my way to get you to post more pics!)There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Dougiefresh 0 #22 November 18, 2004 QuoteI haven't had many instances of people being extremely jealous of anything I have. I'm extremely jealous of your jump numbers. I lie awake nights plotting how I can get them...Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. --Douglas Adams Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #23 November 18, 2004 QuoteMel, you rock! You are so gorgeous, and you look frickin' HOT in the sky!!! (Just my way to get you to post more pics!) I agree completely with Val (big surprise), and I also wish for more sky pics of Melstarr. I cannot stop staring at her sky pics (sig line). Meli, I adore your suit, rig and incredibly BEAUTIFUL flying. You look absolutely perfect, like a graceful angel in the sky. Please post more pics soon...hopefully, on your website, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mardigrasbob 0 #24 November 18, 2004 Are we talking about jealousy or envy? Examples: Hot swoop god 6'3",chiseled, great hair, million dollar smile, walks into bombshelter.=envy My girlfiend leaving with him,winking at me on the way out.=jealousy. ------ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #25 November 18, 2004 I really try hard not to fall into the jealousy trap. We ALL have something to bring to the table and not all of those traits are the same. I try to look at what I have that I can contribute to the friendship that will compliment my friends wonderful traits. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. 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antifnsocial 0 #7 November 18, 2004 her threads do, wish I really knew some of you, there are some cool people on dz.com Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #8 November 18, 2004 Quoteher threads do, wish I really knew some of you, there are some cool people on dz.com Awww...thanks! There really are some cool people on here! Rosa...you stole my words again! That's what I try to do, too, whenever I feel jealousy. If you turn it around so that you're happy with what someone has rather than be disappointed in what you think you lack...well, that just makes good sense.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #9 November 18, 2004 Many people are jealous of me because I am short and able to fit in places they can't. Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #10 November 18, 2004 Quoteher threads do, wish I really knew some of you, there are some cool people on dz.com Val is sooo not cool. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #11 November 18, 2004 QuoteMany people are jealous of me because I am short and able to fit in places they can't. You too? Val ~ I think that I want to marry you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #12 November 18, 2004 I also cannot say that I have never been jealous of anyone else, especially extremely intelligent people, whom I wish I was like more. ----------- Yeah, that would be cool if you were a little smarter... -S PS - I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry!_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #13 November 18, 2004 QuoteVal ~ I think that I want to marry you. Let's move to Utah where we can all marry each other and be one big happy family!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #14 November 18, 2004 QuoteI also cannot say that I have never been jealous of anyone else, especially extremely intelligent people, whom I wish I was like more. ----------- Yeah, that would be cool if you were a little smarter... -S PS - I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! DORK! That's my point, Steve. I wish that I was... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #15 November 18, 2004 QuoteQuoteVal ~ I think that I want to marry you. Let's move to Utah where we can all marry each other and be one big happy family!! YEAH!!! Val, Sunny, Rosa...oh, too bad that Katie is taken. Wait, what about my BF? Can he marry us all? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #16 November 18, 2004 YES!!! Your boyfriend is hot!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #17 November 18, 2004 QuoteYEAH!!! Val, Sunny, Rosa...oh, too bad that Katie is taken. Wait, what about my BF? Can he marry us all? I get to bring my harem of men too, especially that phillykev guy. Mmmm.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #18 November 18, 2004 Ok, Sunny girl. You can play with his underwear, too. Lol...I knew that Val would say "yes"! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Remster 30 #19 November 18, 2004 QuoteEven that silly Remster guy is pretty cool (his wife is just hot, though!) So are you saying my wife isnt cool.... Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites melstarr 0 #20 November 18, 2004 QuoteWhat I really don't understand is being jealous of somebody because they're well-liked and avoiding getting to know them. I will never be able to understand NOT wanting to get to know somebody because it seems they bring joy to other people who know them. As Always Val*, you deliver a very well thought-out thread... I like the points you bring to the .com-round-table of discussion the above quote is definitely on my mind -- because i've witnessed this type of jealousy. it happened (and still does) to a very special friend of mine ~ it's truly sad . similar to what you have stated val*, i don't understand why people can't see the beauty in different personas . gosh, there is so much to learn from all the different people out there!! personally, i rule out jealousy with a desire for friendship. a lifetime is way too short to swim lazily in a pool of jealousy, yaaaay! ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Vallerina 2 #21 November 18, 2004 Quoteit happened (and still does) to a very special friend of mine ~ it's truly sad Yup! My best friend Erin literally got shoved one time by some really mean women because their "men" were checking her out. Quotepersonally, i rule out jealousy with a desire for friendship. As always, beautifully written! Mel, you rock! You are so gorgeous, and you look frickin' HOT in the sky!!! (Just my way to get you to post more pics!)There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Dougiefresh 0 #22 November 18, 2004 QuoteI haven't had many instances of people being extremely jealous of anything I have. I'm extremely jealous of your jump numbers. I lie awake nights plotting how I can get them...Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. --Douglas Adams Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #23 November 18, 2004 QuoteMel, you rock! You are so gorgeous, and you look frickin' HOT in the sky!!! (Just my way to get you to post more pics!) I agree completely with Val (big surprise), and I also wish for more sky pics of Melstarr. I cannot stop staring at her sky pics (sig line). Meli, I adore your suit, rig and incredibly BEAUTIFUL flying. You look absolutely perfect, like a graceful angel in the sky. Please post more pics soon...hopefully, on your website, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mardigrasbob 0 #24 November 18, 2004 Are we talking about jealousy or envy? Examples: Hot swoop god 6'3",chiseled, great hair, million dollar smile, walks into bombshelter.=envy My girlfiend leaving with him,winking at me on the way out.=jealousy. ------ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #25 November 18, 2004 I really try hard not to fall into the jealousy trap. We ALL have something to bring to the table and not all of those traits are the same. I try to look at what I have that I can contribute to the friendship that will compliment my friends wonderful traits. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. 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Vallerina 2 #16 November 18, 2004 YES!!! Your boyfriend is hot!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #17 November 18, 2004 QuoteYEAH!!! Val, Sunny, Rosa...oh, too bad that Katie is taken. Wait, what about my BF? Can he marry us all? I get to bring my harem of men too, especially that phillykev guy. Mmmm.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #18 November 18, 2004 Ok, Sunny girl. You can play with his underwear, too. Lol...I knew that Val would say "yes"! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #19 November 18, 2004 QuoteEven that silly Remster guy is pretty cool (his wife is just hot, though!) So are you saying my wife isnt cool.... Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
melstarr 0 #20 November 18, 2004 QuoteWhat I really don't understand is being jealous of somebody because they're well-liked and avoiding getting to know them. I will never be able to understand NOT wanting to get to know somebody because it seems they bring joy to other people who know them. As Always Val*, you deliver a very well thought-out thread... I like the points you bring to the .com-round-table of discussion the above quote is definitely on my mind -- because i've witnessed this type of jealousy. it happened (and still does) to a very special friend of mine ~ it's truly sad . similar to what you have stated val*, i don't understand why people can't see the beauty in different personas . gosh, there is so much to learn from all the different people out there!! personally, i rule out jealousy with a desire for friendship. a lifetime is way too short to swim lazily in a pool of jealousy, yaaaay! ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #21 November 18, 2004 Quoteit happened (and still does) to a very special friend of mine ~ it's truly sad Yup! My best friend Erin literally got shoved one time by some really mean women because their "men" were checking her out. Quotepersonally, i rule out jealousy with a desire for friendship. As always, beautifully written! Mel, you rock! You are so gorgeous, and you look frickin' HOT in the sky!!! (Just my way to get you to post more pics!)There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dougiefresh 0 #22 November 18, 2004 QuoteI haven't had many instances of people being extremely jealous of anything I have. I'm extremely jealous of your jump numbers. I lie awake nights plotting how I can get them...Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. --Douglas Adams Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #23 November 18, 2004 QuoteMel, you rock! You are so gorgeous, and you look frickin' HOT in the sky!!! (Just my way to get you to post more pics!) I agree completely with Val (big surprise), and I also wish for more sky pics of Melstarr. I cannot stop staring at her sky pics (sig line). Meli, I adore your suit, rig and incredibly BEAUTIFUL flying. You look absolutely perfect, like a graceful angel in the sky. Please post more pics soon...hopefully, on your website, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mardigrasbob 0 #24 November 18, 2004 Are we talking about jealousy or envy? Examples: Hot swoop god 6'3",chiseled, great hair, million dollar smile, walks into bombshelter.=envy My girlfiend leaving with him,winking at me on the way out.=jealousy. ------ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #25 November 18, 2004 I really try hard not to fall into the jealousy trap. We ALL have something to bring to the table and not all of those traits are the same. I try to look at what I have that I can contribute to the friendship that will compliment my friends wonderful traits. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
mardigrasbob 0 #24 November 18, 2004 Are we talking about jealousy or envy? Examples: Hot swoop god 6'3",chiseled, great hair, million dollar smile, walks into bombshelter.=envy My girlfiend leaving with him,winking at me on the way out.=jealousy. ------ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #25 November 18, 2004 I really try hard not to fall into the jealousy trap. We ALL have something to bring to the table and not all of those traits are the same. I try to look at what I have that I can contribute to the friendship that will compliment my friends wonderful traits. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
