dzdiva 7 #1 December 18, 2003 I just got the phone call. A friend of mine lost her battle with cancer today. She fought a long hard battle, but in the end the disease won. With hugs, tears, and laughter we tried to beat this demon together. Each time I saw her, she greeted me with a hug and a smile. What a sweet smile. She had decided that when she got better she'd do a tandem. We were so looking forward to that day, which will never come now. The other night when I saw her, she knew what was coming and she looked at me and told me she'd be okay. Her body was failing and she was trying to comfort me. What an amazing woman. I consider myself blessed to have called her "friend". With the holiday season here, I just want you to remember to love each other. Tell your family and friends you love them and let them know how much they mean to you. Peace and hugs, Laurie"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #2 December 18, 2003 Sounds like you're a pretty darn good friend yourself. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{VIBES}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} to you and everyone else during the holiday season.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #3 December 18, 2003 Thanks. I'll pass those vibes on to her husband and children. They need them more than I do."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #4 December 18, 2003 It's not easy losing a friend. Many VIBES and HUGS to you and all who loved her. I've been there too many times......... J -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kai2k1 0 #5 December 18, 2003 Damn Laurie, I am so sorry to hear that. Prayers, <<<<<>>>> and (((HUGS)))) for you hun. There's no truer sense of flying than sky diving," Scott Cowan Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kramer 0 #6 December 18, 2003 Laurie, sorry to hear about your friend. Just know that she's in a better place now. Vibes and prayers for you and the family. -Kramer The FAKE KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER!!!!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #7 December 18, 2003 That sucks! But when it's time it's time. Here's VIBES for her family. May they celebrate her life and not mourn her death. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flygirl03 0 #8 December 18, 2003 Heaven has another angel I am sorry for your loss I hope you never forget her sweet smile (((HUGS))) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ earthbound misfit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
souleh 0 #9 December 18, 2003 She was a very strong woman, and it was good that she was at peace with what was going to happen when the time came. My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family. She's in a better place now, I'm sure <> Nick. 'buttplugs? where?' - geno Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #10 December 18, 2003 It's amazing how people who are fighting such battles can find such inner strength and wisdom. My father is in the last stages of lung cancer after 2 years; he told me not long ago: "Matthew, when I was 13 and diagnosed with polio I thought I would be dead at 18. I'm 68, and in my mind, every day I have gotten to spend on this earth with the people I love since then has been a gift. I have truly been a lucky man." My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend. Matt"I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #11 December 18, 2003 ((Hugs)) to you, my friend."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #12 December 18, 2003 (((((((HUGS))))))))) {{{{{{VIBES}}}}}}} Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #13 December 18, 2003 Sweetie, I'm so sorry for your loss. But you can be thankful that she was able to say her goodbyes and was surrounded by people who love her. ((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))) Kelly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #14 December 18, 2003 come here LB *holds out arms waiting for You to fill them*I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #15 December 18, 2003 Thanks for sharing your story to help us remember the real importance of the holidays. I wish you and your friends family all the hugs and comfort in the world. Sometimes even if ya fake a smile it helps.Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
leroydb 0 #16 December 18, 2003 so sorry.... but she is in a better placeLeroy ..I knew I was an unwanted baby when I saw my bath toys were a toaster and a radio... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dumpster 0 #17 December 18, 2003 Hugs, Vibes and my deepest sympathy my friend, please pass these along! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #18 December 18, 2003 Laurie, I learned of my Father dying(cancer) yet he is not gone. Those you love may change and pass on but, you will find them with you now more than ever before She might not "read" your mind but, she can still hear your voice. Pray & talk vocally, in your car or where YOU feel comfortable and know she IS listening. Tell her good things, she's been though a lot_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #19 December 18, 2003 I'm so sorry about your loss. I really wish I had any words to make it easier, but I don't. Just know now that the suffering is over. You are obviously a true friend, and I commend you for that. If you need someone to talk to, PM me. ((((((((((((((((((((VIBES)))))))))))))))))))))))) Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
n2skdvn 0 #20 December 18, 2003 ((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))if my calculations are correct SLINKY + ESCULATOR = EVERLASTING FUN my site Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chute 0 #21 December 18, 2003 I am truly sory. ~~~~~VIBES~~~~~~ to you and her friends and familyBottomless Beers and Blue Skies! * Brother_Brian * D.S.W.F.S.B. #2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bshl 0 #22 December 18, 2003 Thanks for the reminder, Laurie. She'll certainly live on as long as you're around. Blue skies and happy landings! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BoostedXT 0 #23 December 18, 2003 I send my condolences to you, and her family. People are on this earth for a reason. Whether it be to show us something, teach us something, or be there when we need them most. She was there for you, as you were there for her, and although she might have passed on. She will always be there with you. When you soar through the air she will be your co-pilot, or maybe just when your feeling down and need a hug....those tingles you will feel are not just chills, its her being there for you. VIBES JoeFor long as you live and high you fly and smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry and all that you touch and all that you see is all your life will ever be. Pedro Offers you his Protection. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #24 December 18, 2003 I am sorry to hear about your loss. Thank you however for reminding us all about the importance of living. I have rarely met a skydiver who forgets that but every now and then it is easy to slip. We are here to live for each other and ourselves. HeatherLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billymotox 0 #25 December 18, 2003 i am sorry for your loss. now your friend rests with the Creator of Life. my sincere condolences to you all. billy d------------------------- "Escape may be checked by water and land, but the air and the sky are free." (from the story of Daedalus and Icarus) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites