Damn, I'm mad

[lawrocket 3]

I just got ruined in court. Temp Restraining Order. The gal that brought it lied through her teeth. I caught her in it. Pointed out three whoppers, under perjury. Pointed out other things that I can't prove are lies that didn't make sense in a timeline. All so she could keep this guy's son from him. And I only took this guy because he's the first DV respondent I actually fully believed.

Court said it found her "credible," in part because she admitted to kicking in his car, slapping him, and yelling and screaming at him.

She also alleged, under oath, that he had warrants against him and was in trouble with the law. Of course, this means that the bailiffs held onto him for an additional 15 minutes while they ran through to find out if he was wanted anywhere. He was clean. No warrants. Said the Sheriff's Deputy to me, "Dang. She WAS lying."

It is the judge's ass if he doesn't grant it and bad news occurs. So I gotta see it from his perspective.

I shouldn't take it personally, but I did. Now is not the time to be drinking, either, since one beer will become 8.

My wife is hotter than your wife.

[TheAnvil 0]

Sorry dude! I don't understand how you can nail her like that and still get hosed. What a crock of shyte.

Drink tequila. I'm having a sip for you right now!

Vinny the Anvil
Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL
JACKASS POWER!!!!!!

[AggieDave 6]

That SUCKS!

Tell you what, remember the Anamaniacs?

Here's the "I'm Mad" song:

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I'M MAD (Episode 69)
Music and lyrics by Randy Rogel.

DrSns: Wake up! It's late!
It's twenty minutes after eight
Everyone get up; it's time to go
Up and at 'em now
Come on; shake a leg
Have some juice and scrambled egg
On the floor and out the door
Let's get on our way.

Dot : Hey, watch out!
Yakko: What's the matter?
Dot : You almost knocked me off the ladder
Yakko: No I didn't
Dot : Yes you did; I almost fell
Yakko: Don't exaggerate
Dot : I'm not
Yakko: Yeah, right
Dot : Are you trying to pick a fight?
Yakko: Will you get out of my face?!
Dot : Well, you're always in my space
DrSns: Hey get off each other's case
Because we're trying to get along.

Wakko: I want pancakes
Or a waffle
This tastes awful
Is that all we've got?
Can't find my clothes
And I need to blow my nose
And my socks are full holes
And my shoelace has a knot.

Dot : That's my toothbrush
Yakko: No it's not
Dot : Well, it's sitting in my slot
Yakko: No it isn't; this is mine and that one's yours
Dot : Well, you're standing in my way
Yakko: Yeah, that's tough
DrSns: Alright now that's enough
Everybody get your stuff
Because we're going out the door.

DrSns: Every time we get into the car
It's so much work
It takes us twenty minutes
While you're driving me berserk
With your playing und your jumping
Und your running all about
When I finally get you inside
You always lock me out!

Dot : I'm mad, I'm mad
I'm really, really, really mad
You poked me with your elbow in my side
Yakko: No I didn't!
Dot : Yes you did
Yakko: Nuh-uh
Dot : You did
And I'm just a little kid
You're lying; don't deny it
Yakko: Oh, I'm gonna hit you
Dot : Yeah, just try it
DrSns: Will both of you be quiet
'Cause we're driving in a car!

Dot : Ow, he hit me!
Yakko: Ow, she bit me!
Dot : He said he's gonna "get me"
Yakko: No I didn't
Dot : Yes you did!
DrSns: Alright that's it; now I forbid
Either one of you to say another word!

Wakko: Are we there yet?
I'm tired.
I'm hungry.
How far?
My nose is snotty
Need to move my body
Gotta use the potty
Better stop the car.

Dot : Stop it!
Yakko: No, you stop it
DrSns: Why can't you both just drop it?
Dot : Well, he started it
Yakko: Oh, yeah, I'm really sure, uh-huh
Dot : Na-ah
Yakko: Uh-uh
Dot : It's your fault
Yakko: No it's not.
Your leg is in my spot
DrSns: Yakko you be quiet
Und that goes for you too, Dot!

DrSnS: Every time we take a trip
It's always just the same
With the fighting und the biting
Und the calling all those names
Then there's pushing und there's shoving
Und there's scratching on the neck
When we finally get to where we're going
Everyone's a wreck!

YW+D : Yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak!

Dot : I'm mad, I'm mad Wakko: Are we there yet?
I'm really, really, really mad I'm tired.
You poked me with your elbow in my side I'm hungry.
Yakko: No I didn't! How far?
Dot : Yes, you did, you did My nose is snotty
And I'm just a little kid Need to move my body
DrSns: Will both of you be quiet Got to use the potty
'Cause we're driving in a car! Better stop the car.

DrSns: We're here, we're here
Doesn't anybody want to give a cheer?
Yakko: You mean this is where we're all gonna spend the day?
Dot : At the circus?!
Wakko: Hey, guys, look! They got rides!
DrSns: Now you're satisfied?
Alright, everyone inside
And let's have some fun, okay?

YW+D : Yay!!!

Dot : I'm glad, I'm glad
What a really great time we had
Did you see those lions and those tigers
Weren't they neat?
DrSns: Are you happy now?
Dot : We are; thanks a lot
I'm sorry that we fought
From now on I'll get along
Yakko: That's alright, Dot; I was wrong
DrSns: Ah that's nice, now come along
Let's all get in the car.

Dot : You can take the seat you like
You're always so gallant
Yakko: Ah, thank you, Dot, but ladies first
You take the seat you want
DrSns: Everybody's happy now
We've had a real good day
Und now it's time to go back home
So let's be on our way.

Dot : You hit me
Yakko: No I didn't
Dot : Yes you did. Stop it!
Yakko: No, you stop it
Dot : Move your leg
Yakko: No, you move your leg
Dot : You started it
Yakko: No I didn't, you did
Dot : No I didn't, you did
Yakko: So what?
Dot : You always start it!
Yakko: Don't you cross that line!
Dot : You're not the boss of me!
Yakko: This is where the line is, right here!
Dot : Oh yeah? Since when? Get out of my face! I'm the boss here!
Yakko: Dr Scratchansniff, she started it!

Hopefully that'll bring a smile to your face.

--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

[flyinghonu 0]

DV cases are always hard, as I'm sure you're aware of. On a positive note, I worked for a Family/DV attorney for a brief period of time. He couldn't have cared less about his clients...it all came down to a huge retainer and work the case as fast and little as possible. Then when his client's couldn't pay their bills on time, he sued them...no questions asked, no exceptions and no payment arrangements. Its nice to see an attorney who DOES take it personally.

Like you said, the judge HAD to do what he had to do. I like to think Karma will have its revenge on biotches like her. Its just sad to see yet another biotch abusing the system and making it even harder for women/men who have LIGITIMATE claims.

"Excuse me while I kiss the sky..." - Jimi Hendrix

[dorbie 0]

Can't you get a do-over based on the transcript and the results of the warrant search?

How about a complaint to the DA?

[lawrocket 3]

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Tell you what, remember the Anamaniacs?

I'm more along the lines of this:

"He's lawrocket kaboom, lawrocket kaboom
He works in his office with the flowers in bloom
His employees know that anytime soon
Big boss lawrocket, will go Kaboom!"


I'll go see Dr. Scrathinsniff:

Dr. Sns: "Repeat after me. A judge is your friend."
Me: "A judge is your friend."
DrSns: "A judge will not hold you in contempt and lock you in the basement."
Me: "Sure he would. He did it to Judge: "When the whippoorwill, whippers in the wind, the court will fire back, 'In jail for thirty days-ee.'"

My wife is hotter than your wife.

[happythoughts 0]

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Pointed out other things that I can't prove are lies that didn't make sense in a timeline. All so she could keep this guy's son from him.

Restraining order is Act One.

Wait for Act Two. This will be the part where she alleges abuse. Usually physical abuse. "He hit me/threw things/yelled".

This will take about 4 months of depositions from:
the child (who will be traumatized by all this)
neighbors (who only heard yelling, not who or why)
her friends (who have been coached by her lawyer)
anyone else who may aid in the stalling process.

Eventually, he will be proven innocent. But by that time, residential/custodial parent will be established. "Your honor, the child has been living in a stable environment. We shouldn't disrupt the childs life..."

btw, all that stuff about "lying, perjury, and making false allegations of warrants" will be dismissed by her attorney as "confusion of the moment". Try and prove that she meant to lie.

Also, during the custody hearing, her attorney will ask, "Have you ever had a restraining order placed against you?" to paint the Evil Man picture.

You will lose. Don't feel so bad about it. Not your fault, it is the process.