jumperconway 0 #1 December 9, 2004 I think that I'm losing my GF along with Mom this holiday season I really just don't want any more crap than I have! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #2 December 9, 2004 "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #3 December 9, 2004 Hey, fuck it all and come visit us in Aggieland this weekend. The weather is supposed to be nice and you KNOW you'll have a good time with the Aggie crowd! We'll make sure of it!--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #4 December 9, 2004 Hugs, my friend! Your mom may no longer be on this earth, but she hasn't left you. She is watching you and loving you from the skies and will be with you always.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #5 December 9, 2004 "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #6 December 9, 2004 You're not alone. Your mother is still around watching over you. Her love is still in your heart. Your friends and family members still love you. (We are still here for you, too!) I hope that you can work things out with your girlfriend, Conway. Try to talk with her very soon and get to the root of the problem(s). Communication and respect is key in any good relationship. (((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and many prayers sent your way, my dear. Edited: I may be confused...does this mean that your girlfriend is ill? (I'm so sorry!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #7 December 9, 2004 oh geezz man, Im sorry... I misunderstood, it's happening alot lately. that sucks... thats one of my worst fears, and it sucks that it just happens... to everybody no less. the inevitability does alot of damage alone. Just remember energy cannot be created nor destroyed, which is what we are. she's here and knows you care. Greive and peace.. -Tony "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #8 December 9, 2004 QuoteJust remember energy cannot be created nor destroyed, which is what we are. she's here and knows you care. Greive and peace.. That's EXACTLY what I believe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #9 December 9, 2004 No, hon, you are not alone. I know this has all been tough for you with your Mom, your tretments, and now your GF. I don't know why things happen like this but they do, just know we are here for you. Call me if you want to talk. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumperconway 0 #10 December 9, 2004 I thought I was over this but the flood gates have opened back up, damnit! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #11 December 9, 2004 Conway, It takes time for grief to work its way through. It would not be normal for you to be over the grief of losing your mom this soon. Be patient with yourself and give yourself permission to grieve. Trust me, it will get easier with time. In the meantime, I'm still praying for you, bud. I don't know what the situation is with your girlfriend, but I'll keep that in my prayers also. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumperconway 0 #12 December 9, 2004 No, I know that you and Chris are here for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumperconway 0 #13 December 9, 2004 A lot of scary thoughts have crossed my mind today. I have worked on the 18/20way ash dive with the dzo. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #14 December 9, 2004 Sending PM. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #15 December 9, 2004 I'm so sorry also. When it rains, it pours sometimes, huh? They say that you're never given more than you can handle. I know it may not seem like that now though. What can we do for you?She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
christoofar 0 #16 December 9, 2004 QuoteI think that I'm losing my GF along with Mom this holiday season I really just don't want any more crap than I have! <> dude. ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Merkur 1 #17 December 9, 2004 Sorry to hear that! Hope that at least the GF thing will turn to a good end. If you need someone to talk to, you know where you can find me next weekend - hope that we can give you at least some smiles there. M.vSCR No.94 Don't dream your life - live your dream! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gravityizsexy 0 #18 December 9, 2004 QuoteI thought I was over this but the flood gates have opened back up, damnit! It takes time... it's definitly not easy, Im personally not strong enough to go through the position you've unfortunatley been put in. If you think it will help to talk about it I'll be more than happy to share my thoughts and questions about passings. If you think it will help. btw - In my last post I meant "greive IN peace", sorry -Tonjy "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #19 December 9, 2004 Good luck, hope it works out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #20 December 9, 2004 You know I'll do anything I can but you have to tell me what it is you need. Hugs hon. Hang in there and I can promise things will work out. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #21 December 9, 2004 Take care, worry about spending time with Mom, the gf will play out the same probably either way. I sincerely hope that things workout and get better for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nacmacfeegle 0 #22 December 9, 2004 Conway, you are not alone bro.-------------------- He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me. Thomas Jefferson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
upndownshop 0 #23 December 9, 2004 QuoteI have worked on the 18/20way ash dive with the dzo. Conway If I may suggest, Jack Berke has a great design for a bag. He helped my family with my Fathers ashes and it was the most incredible thing to see. The bag releases it at once instead of a "streamer", thus creating a cloud that left my father hanging around for about 10 minutes, or until everyone landed safely. My heart is out to you brother. Be strong and be safe. J Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #24 December 9, 2004 Many (((hugs))) my friend. We're all here for you. Hang in there, OK? you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freakflyer9999 1 #25 December 9, 2004 QuoteA lot of scary thoughts have crossed my mind today. I have worked on the 18/20way ash dive with the dzo. Pick up the phone and call a professional to help. Don't put it off. Scary thoughts are not OK! Grief is a very predictable cycle. Understanding it can often make the process easier. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
