kelel01 1 #51 January 25, 2005 No, no. I have no desire to get married. Maybe a relationship would be nice, but marriage-- no way, not now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #52 January 25, 2005 QuoteQuote I am a little confused. You are obviously a women, you skydive, how is it that you are having problems finding someone to have sex with.......hmmmmm Maybe you need to come to Skydive Orange. I don't think you would ever have that problem again. The problem is that we're trying to find nice guys. All I can find are guys that used to be nice, but now they want to be jerks! Well see, that puts a whole new spin on the situation. She never said anything about being nice. The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #53 January 25, 2005 Quote The problem is that we're trying to find nice guys. All I can find are guys that used to be nice, but now they want to be jerks! Well if the population of women that make that happen declined then there would be more nice guys, right?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #54 January 25, 2005 QuoteQuote The problem is that we're trying to find nice guys. All I can find are guys that used to be nice, but now they want to be jerks! Well if the population of women that make that happen declined then there would be more nice guys, right? Actually, I already know plenty of nice guys! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerd137 0 #55 January 25, 2005 QuoteNo, no. I have no desire to get married. Maybe a relationship would be nice, but marriage-- no way, not now. Whoa! NOW you got my attention! You comin' to Cali any time soon? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #56 January 25, 2005 And what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. Yes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. Letting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #57 January 25, 2005 QuoteAnd what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. Yes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. Letting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for. Well, I'd be nice to YOU!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Darius11 12 #58 January 25, 2005 treat people as you want to be treated.Quote I want some one to rip my pants off and say lets go baby.I think i would get in trouble if i did that to a woman i didn't know very well. I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #59 January 25, 2005 bwahahahahaha - Find the right woman and you never know.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jumper03 0 #60 January 25, 2005 QuoteAnd what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. you just summed up the way I live my life! Haven't been treated right yet but hope springs eternal! Oh- and have fun doing it all. You gonna breathe anyway, might as well have a blast doing it!Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #61 January 25, 2005 Quotetreat people as you want to be treated. Uh huh. QuoteYes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. In theory QuoteLetting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for. Perhaps I could rephrase that then. I'm done being open and forthcoming with feeling of any emotional basis whatsoever. I'll still be cordial. and . . . Well, I'd be nice to YOU! (eddited because I felt like it)I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #62 January 25, 2005 Fuck you. I'm mean and always will be. Deal with it. BTW, nice shoes. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #63 January 25, 2005 QuoteI'm done being open and forthcoming with feeling of any emotional basis whatsoever. I'll still be cordial. and . . . Well, I'd be nice to YOU! hmmm...being cordial...is that kinda like saying "How are you?" when you don't give a rip what the answer is? Being cautious while getting to know someone and allowing yourself to be open emotionally to them is one thing. Stopping yourself from being emotionally available is going to get you squat. Why would a woman make herself emotionally available to you if you are not willing to take a chance and do the same? Why would any woman invest herself and emotions into a relationship with a man who's not going to be available emotionally? A friendship with a person that's not available emotionally - cool as long as that person knows up-front and is on the same page. A relationship with a person - you'd better be on the same page emotionally and be open and honest about it from day one or the only thing you will do is hurt the person you've gotten involved with and hurt yourself. Oh...and Turtle...I'm always nice to my friends so you're safe. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #64 January 25, 2005 Quotehmmm...being cordial...is that kinda like saying "How are you?" when you don't give a rip what the answer is? Not really Quote Stopping yourself from being emotionally available is going to get you squat. Why would a woman make herself emotionally available to you if you are not willing to take a chance and do the same? Because, as what was stated (somewhat) earlier, once the challenge is gone - so is the relationship. People in general want what they think they cannot have - and in striving to prove that wrong end up making the most GODAWFUL mistakes that anyone can. Quote Oh...and Turtle...I'm always nice to my friends so you're safe. Thank you.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #65 January 25, 2005 QuoteBecause, as what was stated (somewhat) earlier, once the challenge is gone - so is the relationship. People in general want what they think they cannot have - and in striving to prove that wrong end up making the most GODAWFUL mistakes that anyone can. The wanting what they think they can not have is not a person who's really emotionally available or honest with themselves as to what they want. The challenge vs. the relationship...if the relationship goes away as soon as the challenge is gone, the painful reality is that person wasn't emotionally available or ready for a relationship and all that it entails. Or the other option is...they are scared of what a relationship is - again...emotionally unavailable. A relationship will always have it's ups and downs. Communication, emotional availability, and the willingness to keep the flame going in a relationship (whether it's a night in front of a fireplace, a 'naughty' time of the partner's choice, or...) are key to keeping a relationship healthy. Loving the time spent with each other and still enjoying the time spent apart....going out with your buds one night and having a blast while knowing that you'll see the other person the next night (or whenever it's arranged)...the missing the other person when they aren't around...having fun with them while they are there...that's what is needed.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mnealtx 0 #66 January 25, 2005 What is this 'sex' of which you speak? I mean, I've seen the word in the dictionary and all, but damned if I can recall what it is.... Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crwslut 0 #67 January 26, 2005 Quote. . . Having sex on a regular basis ever again. Anyone else? Damn you happy, constantly-having-sex people! You're to hell and gone better off than people who are in relationships and not having sex. You can be alone and lonely. You can be with someone and lonely. The latter is far worse.What could possibly go wrong? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bobsled92 0 #68 January 26, 2005 I have it 1-2 times a week but, that's not "REGUALR BASIS" enough for me. We're working on it. I think we need a second honeymoon_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #69 January 26, 2005 QuoteWalks into thread - looks around - does a double take "Hmmm" Sits down in a lawn chair Grabs a pad and paper to take notes. dude... that's the greatest... can I join you there in the corner?Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Amazon 7 #70 January 26, 2005 Do you just need a better imagination?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites dove 0 #71 January 26, 2005 Slappie.. you are such a giver. Always thinking of others. Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #72 January 26, 2005 QuoteQuoteWalks into thread - looks around - does a double take "Hmmm" Sits down in a lawn chair Grabs a pad and paper to take notes. dude... that's the greatest... can I join you there in the corner? This is a sex thread - UM - that would be . . . NO! 'Sides I'm busy over here.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #73 January 26, 2005 Quote'Sides I'm busy over here. Doin what? Eatin sunny side up with a side of sausage? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #74 January 26, 2005 k... I'll just leave then... 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ladyskydiver 0 #56 January 25, 2005 And what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. Yes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. Letting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #57 January 25, 2005 QuoteAnd what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. Yes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. Letting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for. Well, I'd be nice to YOU!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #58 January 25, 2005 treat people as you want to be treated.Quote I want some one to rip my pants off and say lets go baby.I think i would get in trouble if i did that to a woman i didn't know very well. I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #59 January 25, 2005 bwahahahahaha - Find the right woman and you never know.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jumper03 0 #60 January 25, 2005 QuoteAnd what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. you just summed up the way I live my life! Haven't been treated right yet but hope springs eternal! Oh- and have fun doing it all. You gonna breathe anyway, might as well have a blast doing it!Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #61 January 25, 2005 Quotetreat people as you want to be treated. Uh huh. QuoteYes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. In theory QuoteLetting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for. Perhaps I could rephrase that then. I'm done being open and forthcoming with feeling of any emotional basis whatsoever. I'll still be cordial. and . . . Well, I'd be nice to YOU! (eddited because I felt like it)I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #59 January 25, 2005 bwahahahahaha - Find the right woman and you never know.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #60 January 25, 2005 QuoteAnd what about the population of men that make women back off? Let's be real here...treat people as you want to be treated. you just summed up the way I live my life! Haven't been treated right yet but hope springs eternal! Oh- and have fun doing it all. You gonna breathe anyway, might as well have a blast doing it!Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #61 January 25, 2005 Quotetreat people as you want to be treated. Uh huh. QuoteYes, you'll get hurt by some people, have no affect on others, and will be loved by yet others. In theory QuoteLetting life's experiences make you bitter and decide to "not be a nice guy" will just have you pushing away someone that might just be what you were looking for. Perhaps I could rephrase that then. I'm done being open and forthcoming with feeling of any emotional basis whatsoever. I'll still be cordial. and . . . Well, I'd be nice to YOU! (eddited because I felt like it)I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #62 January 25, 2005 Fuck you. I'm mean and always will be. Deal with it. BTW, nice shoes. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #63 January 25, 2005 QuoteI'm done being open and forthcoming with feeling of any emotional basis whatsoever. I'll still be cordial. and . . . Well, I'd be nice to YOU! hmmm...being cordial...is that kinda like saying "How are you?" when you don't give a rip what the answer is? Being cautious while getting to know someone and allowing yourself to be open emotionally to them is one thing. Stopping yourself from being emotionally available is going to get you squat. Why would a woman make herself emotionally available to you if you are not willing to take a chance and do the same? Why would any woman invest herself and emotions into a relationship with a man who's not going to be available emotionally? A friendship with a person that's not available emotionally - cool as long as that person knows up-front and is on the same page. A relationship with a person - you'd better be on the same page emotionally and be open and honest about it from day one or the only thing you will do is hurt the person you've gotten involved with and hurt yourself. Oh...and Turtle...I'm always nice to my friends so you're safe. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #64 January 25, 2005 Quotehmmm...being cordial...is that kinda like saying "How are you?" when you don't give a rip what the answer is? Not really Quote Stopping yourself from being emotionally available is going to get you squat. Why would a woman make herself emotionally available to you if you are not willing to take a chance and do the same? Because, as what was stated (somewhat) earlier, once the challenge is gone - so is the relationship. People in general want what they think they cannot have - and in striving to prove that wrong end up making the most GODAWFUL mistakes that anyone can. Quote Oh...and Turtle...I'm always nice to my friends so you're safe. Thank you.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #65 January 25, 2005 QuoteBecause, as what was stated (somewhat) earlier, once the challenge is gone - so is the relationship. People in general want what they think they cannot have - and in striving to prove that wrong end up making the most GODAWFUL mistakes that anyone can. The wanting what they think they can not have is not a person who's really emotionally available or honest with themselves as to what they want. The challenge vs. the relationship...if the relationship goes away as soon as the challenge is gone, the painful reality is that person wasn't emotionally available or ready for a relationship and all that it entails. Or the other option is...they are scared of what a relationship is - again...emotionally unavailable. A relationship will always have it's ups and downs. Communication, emotional availability, and the willingness to keep the flame going in a relationship (whether it's a night in front of a fireplace, a 'naughty' time of the partner's choice, or...) are key to keeping a relationship healthy. Loving the time spent with each other and still enjoying the time spent apart....going out with your buds one night and having a blast while knowing that you'll see the other person the next night (or whenever it's arranged)...the missing the other person when they aren't around...having fun with them while they are there...that's what is needed.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #66 January 25, 2005 What is this 'sex' of which you speak? I mean, I've seen the word in the dictionary and all, but damned if I can recall what it is.... Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwslut 0 #67 January 26, 2005 Quote. . . Having sex on a regular basis ever again. Anyone else? Damn you happy, constantly-having-sex people! You're to hell and gone better off than people who are in relationships and not having sex. You can be alone and lonely. You can be with someone and lonely. The latter is far worse.What could possibly go wrong? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #68 January 26, 2005 I have it 1-2 times a week but, that's not "REGUALR BASIS" enough for me. We're working on it. I think we need a second honeymoon_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #69 January 26, 2005 QuoteWalks into thread - looks around - does a double take "Hmmm" Sits down in a lawn chair Grabs a pad and paper to take notes. dude... that's the greatest... can I join you there in the corner?Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #70 January 26, 2005 Do you just need a better imagination?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #71 January 26, 2005 Slappie.. you are such a giver. Always thinking of others. Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #72 January 26, 2005 QuoteQuoteWalks into thread - looks around - does a double take "Hmmm" Sits down in a lawn chair Grabs a pad and paper to take notes. dude... that's the greatest... can I join you there in the corner? This is a sex thread - UM - that would be . . . NO! 'Sides I'm busy over here.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #73 January 26, 2005 Quote'Sides I'm busy over here. Doin what? Eatin sunny side up with a side of sausage? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #74 January 26, 2005 k... I'll just leave then... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
