kinney29 0 #1 January 24, 2005 So a friend of mine's wife has set me up on a blind date for tommorow night. and to be honest I 'm a little worried. I know nothing about her, and I know this may seem shallow, but what if I show up and I am not attracted to her? I've never been on a blind date and want to know proper etiquitte for them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #2 January 24, 2005 Proper etiquette: Relax. Expect nothing, but be prepared for anything, including a really good time. (edit: forgot to add, but was reminded below: these are your friends - they're trying to bring you both together to see what happens, not ambush you. Wost thing that could likely happen is you'll end up with a new friend) No matter what happens (i.e. she's a wildebeest or has uncommonly crass manners, which is unliely), just be chilled out, tuned in, and polite. Ask her easy, non-intrusive questions, and pay attention only to her. At the end of the date, you are under no obligation whatsoever. DON't ask for her number, or say anything sounding like, "I'll call you", if you're not going to. If it sucks, you simply say thanks for the evening, I had a great time. Take care. If she rocks, well, you know, turn on the charm!! Good luck, and just have fun!! you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkiD_PL8 0 #3 January 24, 2005 If your friend's wife has spent a good amount of time around you and she knows you pretty well I wouldn't worry about it to much. Just be polite and if you aren't attracted to her then just finish the date and let her know you aren't interested. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #4 January 24, 2005 QuoteSo a friend of mine's wife has set me up on a blind date for tommorow night. and to be honest I 'm a little worried. I know nothing about her, and I know this may seem shallow, but what if I show up and I am not attracted to her? I've never been on a blind date and want to know proper etiquitte for them. Very simple - Do not pre judge - be looking for a new friend - and bring a couple-a paper bags with you - just in case.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #5 January 24, 2005 Be totaly hammered when you meet her, so whatever you do you can blame on the booze. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #6 January 24, 2005 If she's really gross, humor her until you get to wherever you're having dinner. Then pick your nose and wipe it on the tablecloth. That'll do it. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #7 January 24, 2005 Did one about two weeks ago. My friend invited to his wifes birthday party and set me up without informing me of it. I show up. Apparently, the host had already identified all the single guys to the target. Three large tables. When we sat down, I was next to the woman, across from her sister, mother, and son. The sister proceeded to argue with her b/f and complain about his job, cooking, and attitude. The mother added that her daughters were not meeting her expectations. The target accidentally dumped her plate of food in my lap about 20 minutes later. I think I know the reason that she is single. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #8 January 24, 2005 If you can, arrange your first meetup for something casual like coffee or a drink. That way, if it's not going well, you haven't committed to a long date like dinner. If it is, you can always say "Hey, do you want to grab dinner?" I agree with everyone - try to enjoy the company. Chances are even if there's not a "spark" she'll be a decent person and you'll have something to talk about. I've found most blind dates I've gone on just end up feeling kind of "meh" - I don't end up with great love stories or great horror stories. And I agree, if you don't want to follow up, don't say "I'll call" or "let's get together sometime." Just leave it at "it was really great to meet you." Period."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #9 January 24, 2005 Hi Kinny You sure your friends wife really likes you Some women can hold a grudge get a second opinion from your buddy. Guy's gotta stick together. Life is like a box of chocolateR.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #10 January 24, 2005 QuoteHi Kinny You sure your friends wife really likes you Some women can hold a grudge get a second opinion from your buddy. Guy's gotta stick together. Life is like a box of chocolateR.I.P. Like really - the dudes married for Christ's sake - He doesn't need a wing man.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peregrinerose 0 #11 January 24, 2005 Why over think it. You have nothing to lose other than a couple hours, and you may even have a nice time. Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marz 0 #12 January 24, 2005 I was set up for a blind date by this couple I know and the girl is now my wife!!!! We all went out for dinner together the first time so that made it a little less awkward. But obviously we had a good time and I drove her home and got her telephone number. I called her a few days later and the rest is history. Sometimes good things can happen on blind dates! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #13 January 24, 2005 That's how this will be. We're all going out together. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 January 24, 2005 I hadn't been on one before until last year. The first one my friend says "Dude.......she is SMOKIN hot." I figured I could trust his judgement. Met her that night.......we started doing Tequila and Bacardi shots. I warned her of JUST how dangerous I can be when drinking Bacardi. She gave me an "Oh whatever." Some time later I stopped what I was doing and asked......"Hey......aren't those your pants over there on the floor?" She laughed............We dated for awhile and I pretty much fell in love with her. I still miss her some days. Had another set up from the same girl that put me on the first one. Met her friend......had some beers......had lots of sex that night. Continued to see her regularly for several months. Nothing too special but a fun "Fuck Buddy." She ended up getting mad because I didn't call her for about a month. It was WFFC that got in the way. So..........moral of the story.......I have had GREAT luck with the only two blind dates I have ever been on. YMMV! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #15 January 24, 2005 Quote: these are your friends - they're trying to bring you both together to see what happens, not ambush you. You don't really know guys and how we treat each other do you? ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #16 January 24, 2005 I wanna go on a blind date!!! have fun Kinney Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #17 January 24, 2005 QuoteQuote: these are your friends - they're trying to bring you both together to see what happens, not ambush you. You don't really know guys and how we treat each other do you?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #18 January 24, 2005 QuoteI wanna go on a blind date!!! have fun Kinney If promise to keep my eyes closed? I know a great bistro in town - but you would have to drive.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #19 January 24, 2005 QuoteQuoteI wanna go on a blind date!!! have fun Kinney If promise to keep my eyes closed? I know a great bistro in town - but you would have to drive. -- No No, I promise to keep MY eyes closed! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #20 January 24, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuoteI wanna go on a blind date!!! have fun Kinney If promise to keep my eyes closed? I know a great bistro in town - but you would have to drive. -- No No, I promise to keep MY eyes closed! It would be safer for you to keep your eyes close. I've seen turtle... and my eyes still haven't recovered. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #21 January 24, 2005 QuoteI was set up for a blind date by this couple I know and the girl is now my wife!!!! We all went out for dinner together the first time so that made it a little less awkward. But obviously we had a good time and I drove her home and got her telephone number. I called her a few days later and the rest is history. Sometimes good things can happen on blind dates! WHOA, me too, dude!! (Except I'm the wife...but our friends set us up) > J/k... We've been married for 10+ years now (I was just a baby when we said our vows ) and it's awesome. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #22 January 24, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteI wanna go on a blind date!!! have fun Kinney If promise to keep my eyes closed? I know a great bistro in town - but you would have to drive. -- No No, I promise to keep MY eyes closed! It would be safer for you to keep your eyes close. I've seen turtle... and my eyes still haven't recovered. ROFLMAO!!"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #23 January 24, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteI wanna go on a blind date!!! have fun Kinney If promise to keep my eyes closed? I know a great bistro in town - but you would have to drive. -- No No, I promise to keep MY eyes closed! It would be safer for you to keep your eyes close. I've seen turtle... and my eyes still haven't recovered. -- But I'd have to peek atleast ONCE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #24 January 24, 2005 Damn, you live on the edge don't you? "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #25 January 24, 2005 QuoteDamn, you live on the edge don't you? -- One foot on, one foot dangling. That innocent little peek might trecherous for someone in my position. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
