0
funks

Which is worse?

Recommended Posts

I hardly get angry at people anymore, but right now I am angry at this one person, and I don't want to talk to him or communicate on ANY level with him.

personally, I do the silent treatment thing usually if I get mad, and I'd rather have someone still talking to me and so we can communicate to fix the problem; silent treatment is the worst...


Mother to the cutest little thing in the world...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Both are valid means of communication. Either way, guys understand that someone is unhappy with them. :)

However, nagging is repetitious communication. She obviously hasn't got it figured out exactly what she's mad about yet.

Given the option, I prefer that she is bitchy in a quiet fashion, so that she doesn't talk over an important spot during the game. We can always talk about the relationship during some spare time later. :ph34r:

The key is to go ahead and get them totally pissed off so that they can spend a couple of hours quietly organizing their thoughts. It makes the time spent communicating later more direct and valuable.

Another important relationship tip from yo' unca bill. :):)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
I can't stand the silent treatment. If someone's pissed at me at least tell me why so I can either say I'm sorry or tell you you're an idiot. Then again nagging about it non stop sucks too. I'd just leave at that point.

Personally I think I give the old silent treatment though just because I hate nagging.

--------------

(Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Quote

I can't stand the silent treatment. If someone's pissed at me at least tell me why so I can either say I'm sorry or tell you you're an idiot. Then again nagging about it non stop sucks too. I'd just leave at that point.



A girl after my own heart. if there's a problem, discuss. whatever, wherever, whenever and not just in relationships either.
Lee _______________________________

In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy?
http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Silent treatment just means she is bitching and nagging quitely with out telling you what's up.
Builds thoughts in her head as if you responded to questions you neve heard.
*****THEN blames you for what she made up in her head DURING: "Silent treatment".
_______________________________
If I could be a Super Hero,
I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year.
http://www.hangout.no/speednews/

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Quote

Silent treatment just means she is bitching and nagging quitely with out telling you what's up.
Builds thoughts in her head as if you responded to questions you neve heard.
*****THEN blames you for what she made up in her head DURING: "Silent treatment".



That is how they work?

I met this guy about 4 years ago. He turned to me and said, "I just came to me. I know how women think." ...and then his head exploded. :o (It was best that way) :D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

0