windcatcher 0 #1 February 10, 2005 well? Let's say after getting married, or being in a relationship for awhile, she asked you to start working out/lifting weights because she wanted to see you with a little more muscle...would do it for her? Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #2 February 10, 2005 Quotewell? Let's say after getting married, or being in a relationship for awhile, she asked you to start working out/lifting weights because she wanted to see you with a little more muscle...would do it for her? you'd have to assume I stopped working out first. I don't think that's gonna happen. Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #3 February 10, 2005 No... "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #4 February 10, 2005 Uh...No! Not pumping iron. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #5 February 10, 2005 No Slappie? You wouldn't work hard so your girl found you *ahem* more appealing??? Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #6 February 10, 2005 Quotewell? Let's say after getting married, or being in a relationship for awhile, she asked you to start working out/lifting weights because she wanted to see you with a little more muscle...would do it for her? I've never met her. whats she look like? HAHAHMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buried 0 #7 February 10, 2005 i do enought to stay fit that would require more effort than its worth, but i would take a buff pic and paste my head on him and give it g/f Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccowden 0 #8 February 10, 2005 No, and it would certainly put our relationship on a downhill slide. Imagine if I asked my wife to start working out cuz I wanted to see her slim down a bit! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #9 February 10, 2005 QuoteNo, and it would certainly put our relationship on a downhill slide. Imagine if I asked my wife to start working out cuz I wanted to see her slim down a bit! hell hath no fury......Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #10 February 10, 2005 I quit lifting heavy weights.............but I DO have a Bowflex now. I don't want to get any bigger...........just keep in good shape and tone up a little. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #11 February 10, 2005 I think that would be an awful thing to ask (unless it was a health issue, and then I'd make it clear that health is what was concerning me). If you don't like your partner for who they are at that point in time, then they're not the person you should be with. Trying to change someone to meet your expectations never works. Date someone who is what you want to begin with. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #12 February 10, 2005 well jtval, obviously if you were with her, you'd find her attractive right??? Now, I'm NOT asking if you guys would become Mr.Fitness because of her; but if you knew more muscles would turn her on more, wouldn't you try and get a little more toned? Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #13 February 10, 2005 for real though, I think it would be more like stop drinking beer b/c youre getting to look FAT!! (which is just about what Im about to do) I do work out(well just getting back into my exercise routine), but not enough to be a musclehead. the problem is, when I stopped exercising I didnt stop drinking at the dz...PROBLEM BEGINSMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #14 February 10, 2005 Quotehell hath no fury...... Ain't that the truth Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyingferret 0 #15 February 10, 2005 It would depend to a huge degree on how the question was asked. If it just came out of the blue and that was it, regardless of my answer I would be doing some reevaluating of what she put value on. If it was lets work out together? Absolutely would.-- All the flaming and trolls of wreck dot with a pretty GUI. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #16 February 10, 2005 QuoteNo Slappie? You wouldn't work hard so your girl found you *ahem* more appealing??? No way.. if she doesn't like me the way I am, then she can hit the front door. I'm not an unatractive man and I don't work out. I plan to loose some weight and quit smoking in the future. But I'm doing these things for me, not for my GF. Granted she'll be a bit more happy that I've decided to quit smoking. She just doesn't know what it's going to be like to live with me without smokes, let alone listen to me whine about wanting some huge steak wrapped in bacon smothered in melted lard with lots of salt!! Your question is asking if I would work our just because she asked. My answer is NO. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #17 February 10, 2005 I assume this question has some purpose to it. but if Im with her, she's with me. my answer simply is YES! but the long answer is..I think My standard of my personal being is a little more strict then hers is for me. so if she asked me to then I would know I am way out of shape and would probably start that minute LOLMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccowden 0 #18 February 10, 2005 I would do it for ME, but that wasn't your question. You asked if we would do it cuz SHE asked us to. THAT would just piss me off. "No, no, sweetie, I am not saying you are fat, I just thought if you knew slimming down would turn me on more, you would want to do it. Plus, I would find you more appealing." That would go over like a lead balloon! Plus, to me it just seems shallow. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyingferret 0 #19 February 10, 2005 Yeah, exactly, and what nightingale said. Unles physical health is involved, or activity together, it is a pretty shitty question to ask.-- All the flaming and trolls of wreck dot with a pretty GUI. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #20 February 10, 2005 hmm, that's interesting. I've heard of these guys, who complain they don't get enough sex, right? So if their S.O. would happen to like muscular arms or something,,,direct result =more sex, still no? Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #21 February 10, 2005 sex as a weapon will destroy anyrelationship! there are better MORE respectful way to compromiseMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccowden 0 #22 February 10, 2005 Quotehmm, that's interesting. I've heard of these guys, who complain they don't get enough sex, right? So if their S.O. would happen to like muscular arms or something,,,direct result =more sex, still no? Wow! That is REALLY shallow! If a girl would give her S.O. more sex because he had more muscles, she isn't any girl I would be with! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buried 0 #23 February 10, 2005 i think windcatcher just want to hear - for your baby, anything Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #24 February 10, 2005 I'm not saying it as using it; I guess I just find it hard when someone would complain about not enough sex, but if their partner was more turned on...? I've never asked any of my guys to work out for me, however, when they DID do it to "impress" me or whatever, I thought it was a nice gesture. I've actually never been w/ someone really fit, so I'm not being shallow; just thought I'd ask what your guys' perspective comes from. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TALONSKY 0 #25 February 10, 2005 I think this is right up there with if your boyfriend or husband asked you to loose weight would you? These things are only things the person can make a choice on. It would be very superficial of someone to ask that. Kirk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
