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Is it bad to be a rebound of a person that just came out of a long term relationship?????

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I vote no...

Reason being is that it may not be just about sex. My very good friend hooked up with someone on the rebound (out of a long term relationship) and they got married this past year. They're a very happy couple. And well... I hooked up with someone on the rebound and somehow even HE asked me to marry him. So maybe my friend and I both lucked out... as well as the subjects of our rebound ;)

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Some people don't rebound. Some people are healthier than that. They just love. What if you reject someone who you think is rebounding and they really like and connect with you?
Just don't f-it-up accidentally when it could be real. Real things can seem so good they seem unlikely. Don't overthink shit like that


Couldn't agree more with everything she said...
I wonder how many times people have missed amazing relationships and moments by overthinking that kind of stuff...:|

I agree with her too here. Each person is different. That's what makes getting to know new people so wonderful and exciting. :)

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It's like being in love with a ghost. They aren't really there. They were never yours.


That sucks regardless whether it's a rebound relationship or not. There are some very successful "rebound" stories. Better being hurt by giving it a chance than missing on an amazing relationship due to fear of being hurt...IMO.

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

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Well said. And he makes breakfast in the morning before you kick him out!



Even if you are breakfast?:)

Sparky



Then he can stay till lunch. :P:D Then he is out the door, well unless he also walks the dog and does dishes. :ph34r:
Fly it like you stole it!

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