QuickDraw 0 #76 February 25, 2005 Keep reminding them that a BJ is the male version of buying flowers. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeJD 0 #77 February 25, 2005 In my experience being the friend and wishing you were the boyfriend is a kind of torture. And if she's spent enough time with you and has any kind of intuition - and she must do, she's a woman! - she probably already suspects how you feel. How about doing something that doesn't put her on the spot? Send her a card or flowers, or both! That way, if you make her day she can get in touch straight away - and if not, she can think about how to let you down gently. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bouda 0 #78 February 25, 2005 act gay that seems to work then come out and let her know that your not ok a list of movies to watch anything with molly ringwal anything with freddy prince 10 things i hate about you try those out Look what i made at work today mom!! Put it on the fridge http://www.bouda.moonfruit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
akurtom 0 #79 February 25, 2005 these are the most interesting responses i have ever heard. you all are like a thread away from raping the girls by getting them loaded, using the girls by getting them pregnant, its crazy what im reading. i was going to try to approach them by having a civil conversation or watching a specific movie with them that portrayed exactly what is going on between us.... i'm just kidding, but very interesting responses! Blue Skies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #80 February 25, 2005 Anyone notice how the dz.com techie geeks aren't giving any advice on picking up women? It is because of the old rule of college selection "engineer = virgin". "So, you're an engineer. That must be fascinating. What do you do at work?" "I've been figuring out a way to use analog waveforms to..." "" "We should go to the Museum of Science and Industry some time. They are running a new show on nano technology and digital movie splicing..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #81 February 25, 2005 Hey now!!! I resemble that remark...all but one or two.... and I love the Museum of Science and Industry buddy....dont make me have to hurt you when i get down there in April She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #82 February 25, 2005 Honey....Bill wouldn't put up a fight if you turned him over your knee. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #83 February 25, 2005 QuoteHoney....Bill wouldn't put up a fight if you turned him over your knee. Who said anything about a spankin ? She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #84 February 25, 2005 I would venture to say you can't do anything about it...you can't force attraction or being more than friends, if it's not already naturally there. That being said, it's good to remain friends for awhile before you start dating each other, but then again....if you are both REALLY attracted to each other, it may be impossible to JUST stay friends Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #85 February 25, 2005 QuoteHoney....Bill wouldn't put up a fight if you turned him over your knee. An obvious spanking hijack. This is a relationship thread, don't try to redirect this into a 3-some spanking plan. It won't happen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #86 February 25, 2005 Back to the topic... (not that spankings aren't a good topic in and of themselves) You know what to do... tell her. Don't wait for the "right moment" or setting up subtle clues.... Let her know, because both you and her deserve that honesty. If it ends up being just a friendship, cherish that. Friendships can be the most important thing with the most heartfelt emotions. If it's more.... enjoy every second. Don't let the opportunity for happiness pass.... Karen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #87 February 25, 2005 Was somebody's ears burning there? "I was drawn to this thread by a movement in the Force..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #88 February 25, 2005 I've done that once. Had a friend...we decided to start dating...went back to being just friends. Let her know that you're interested in more but be willing to accept that she may not be. The friendship can still be maintained even if she says no. And if you do end up dating and for whatever reason break up, the friendship can still be enjoyed and maintained.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #89 February 25, 2005 QuoteWas somebody's ears burning there? "I was drawn to this thread by a movement in the Force..." Yea well, I added my .02 already on the specific topic. Been down that road not that long ago...have the t-shirt and the rejection slap to show (was not litterally slaped, though ego took a hit ) But still friends... You never ask you never know. They may have been wondering about it too...but assumed the same way. "Nah they just like me as a friend". Life is about taking risks....if you dont take them you will never proceed. Just imagine how boring life would be if ya didnt take them at all? Feelings will heal in time, you just never know unless you try. Oh and I cant hear the ringing in my ears as my headphones are on...and tunes blaring She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #90 February 25, 2005 I agree with everyone who says "just get it out there.' It's very possible to go back to being "just friends" but you may have to set some boundaries. I had a situation like this last year - I put myself out there and confessed my feelings; he didn't share them, but we managed to stay friends. I did, however, have to darw the line when he was asking me for advice on what to do about his feelings for my friend (basically said - don't fuck with my head and my friendship with her - that topic is off-limits.) It's worked out fine, we're good friends now, and my feelings have totally faded. But it can be awkward and you have to respect the boundaries if she lays them down for you."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dorbie 0 #91 February 25, 2005 Alcohol and a hot tub. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bouda 0 #92 February 25, 2005 QuoteAnyone notice how the dz.com techie geeks aren't giving any advice on picking up women? hey now i am one of those techie geeks. i am a computer tech i just happen to have a way with the ladies Look what i made at work today mom!! Put it on the fridge http://www.bouda.moonfruit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites gravityizsexy 0 #93 February 25, 2005 QuoteAnyone notice how the dz.com techie geeks aren't giving any advice on picking up women? It is because of the old rule of college selection "engineer = virgin". "So, you're an engineer. That must be fascinating. What do you do at work?" "I've been figuring out a way to use analog waveforms to..." "" "We should go to the Museum of Science and Industry some time. They are running a new show on nano technology and digital movie splicing..." HEY! Nanotech is where it's at... lots of girls dig it, engineer girls anyway. "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites fireflytx 0 #94 February 25, 2005 QuoteAlcohol and a hot tub. Alcohol and the pool at the DZ "Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #95 February 25, 2005 QuoteLife is about taking risks....if you dont take them you will never proceed. Just imagine how boring life would be if ya didnt take them at all? Feelings will heal in time, you just never know unless you try. CS majors: "Wanna dirty up the cleanroom?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #96 February 25, 2005 QuoteHEY! Nanotech is where it's at... lots of girls dig it, engineer girls anyway. Umm... yeah. Lots of girls. "Hey, what are you doing Friday night? I got a new version of Redhat. Want to help me install it? Then we can exchange bodily fluids." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites eeneR 3 #97 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuoteHEY! Nanotech is where it's at... lots of girls dig it, engineer girls anyway. Umm... yeah. Lots of girls. "Hey, what are you doing Friday night? I got a new version of Redhat. Want to help me install it? Then we can exchange bodily fluids." Are you making fun of geek girls again I happen to be one damnit. "No I dont wanna download your hard drive" She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Nightingale 0 #98 February 25, 2005 Pick up the phone and call her. Confessions/requests like that are easier over the phone because you don't have to look the person in the eye, so things can be less awkward. If she's uncomfortable, it'll be easier for her to make an excuse and end the conversation. If she says no, tell her the conversation never happened, and act like it. She'll be uncomfortable around you for a little while, but if you keep treating her strictly as a friend, eventually you'll get back to the comfortable friendship you have now. If you don't say anything, she'll eventually pick up on it, and things will get really uncomfortable. Also, consider that she might feel the same for you, but think that YOU just want a friend. You never know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Buried 0 #99 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuote Alcohol and the pool at the DZ I keep telling you that pool is for the kids Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #100 February 25, 2005 QuoteKeep reminding them that a BJ is the male version of buying flowers. No kidding, huh? ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 Next Page 4 of 5 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
gravityizsexy 0 #93 February 25, 2005 QuoteAnyone notice how the dz.com techie geeks aren't giving any advice on picking up women? It is because of the old rule of college selection "engineer = virgin". "So, you're an engineer. That must be fascinating. What do you do at work?" "I've been figuring out a way to use analog waveforms to..." "" "We should go to the Museum of Science and Industry some time. They are running a new show on nano technology and digital movie splicing..." HEY! Nanotech is where it's at... lots of girls dig it, engineer girls anyway. "'Someday is not a day in my week'" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireflytx 0 #94 February 25, 2005 QuoteAlcohol and a hot tub. Alcohol and the pool at the DZ "Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #95 February 25, 2005 QuoteLife is about taking risks....if you dont take them you will never proceed. Just imagine how boring life would be if ya didnt take them at all? Feelings will heal in time, you just never know unless you try. CS majors: "Wanna dirty up the cleanroom?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #96 February 25, 2005 QuoteHEY! Nanotech is where it's at... lots of girls dig it, engineer girls anyway. Umm... yeah. Lots of girls. "Hey, what are you doing Friday night? I got a new version of Redhat. Want to help me install it? Then we can exchange bodily fluids." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #97 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuoteHEY! Nanotech is where it's at... lots of girls dig it, engineer girls anyway. Umm... yeah. Lots of girls. "Hey, what are you doing Friday night? I got a new version of Redhat. Want to help me install it? Then we can exchange bodily fluids." Are you making fun of geek girls again I happen to be one damnit. "No I dont wanna download your hard drive" She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #98 February 25, 2005 Pick up the phone and call her. Confessions/requests like that are easier over the phone because you don't have to look the person in the eye, so things can be less awkward. If she's uncomfortable, it'll be easier for her to make an excuse and end the conversation. If she says no, tell her the conversation never happened, and act like it. She'll be uncomfortable around you for a little while, but if you keep treating her strictly as a friend, eventually you'll get back to the comfortable friendship you have now. If you don't say anything, she'll eventually pick up on it, and things will get really uncomfortable. Also, consider that she might feel the same for you, but think that YOU just want a friend. You never know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buried 0 #99 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuote Alcohol and the pool at the DZ I keep telling you that pool is for the kids Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #100 February 25, 2005 QuoteKeep reminding them that a BJ is the male version of buying flowers. No kidding, huh? ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 Next Page 4 of 5 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
ACMESkydiver 0 #100 February 25, 2005 QuoteKeep reminding them that a BJ is the male version of buying flowers. No kidding, huh? ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
