akurtom 0 #1 February 25, 2005 Fellaz- Help me out here.... How do you go from being that guy the girl loves as a friend to dating? Does anyone else have this problem? Blue Skies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #2 February 25, 2005 ...where is that popcorn? ...ahhh, and my comfy chair. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #3 February 25, 2005 Well, its a gamble. If she wants to, then you've got a fun deal unless it falls apart then you just lost your friend too. If you try and she doesn't then your friendship is tainted forever. Is it worth loosing a good friend to become more that may or may not last?--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #4 February 25, 2005 Well... make up your mind! Which do you want? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #5 February 25, 2005 QuoteWell, its a gamble. If she wants to, then you've got a fun deal unless it falls apart then you just lost your friend too. If both parties are mature you will not loose a friend It will be akward for a lil bit, but if that person was truly your freind...they will not be gone. She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #6 February 25, 2005 QuoteIf both parties are mature you will not loose a friend Yes, but I was giving genic advice to a skydiver...--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slowfaller 0 #7 February 25, 2005 Start dating a different girl. She'll want you after that. --"Someday you will die and somehow somethings going to steal your carbon" -MM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #8 February 25, 2005 Take her on a trip...trust me...speaking from experience here... _____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #9 February 25, 2005 Just ask her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #10 February 25, 2005 Quote...ahhh, and my comfy chair. You can snuggle up with me!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #11 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuote...ahhh, and my comfy chair. You can snuggle up with me!! Can we talk about how he's already in the "friend zone" ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #12 February 25, 2005 OK someone shoot me.. I actually agree with cocheese! Just ask her. And be prepared for an answer one way or another. Hopefully she is single. I can think of twice when this has happened to me. Once we dated for a long time, and the second time I just told him that my feelings for him were not romantic. We're still very good friends and talk all the time. Thats because he was cool with it and still wanted to be my friend even though it didnt go exactly the way he wanted. You wont know until you find out, right? Theres always the possibility she feels the same about you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bob.dino 1 #13 February 25, 2005 Well said. Or take the Irish approach by getting drunk and making a pass at her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #14 February 25, 2005 Start treating her like crap, chicks seem to dig that "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #15 February 25, 2005 Quote Start treating her like crap, chicks seem to dig that Actually..... no. They dont. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #16 February 25, 2005 Ask her? If you start out by establishing honesty and open communication in the relationship, it is doomed to failure. He should work on rock-hard abs to provide a superficial reason for her interest. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #17 February 25, 2005 Happythoughts, lets go out back, its time for your beating. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #18 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuote Start treating her like crap, chicks seem to dig that Actually..... no. They dont. Yeah whatever dont make me choke you.......heh heh just kidding :P ....I was being some sarcastic "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
br0k3n 0 #19 February 25, 2005 QuoteWell said. Or take the Irish approach by getting drunk and making a pass at her. or both get drunk, make a pass at her, get her in the sack. Next thing she bearing your child and has no choice but to stay with you.... obviously she might not be too happy with this approach, but what the heck... you only live once ----------------------------------------------------------- --+ There are 10 types of people in the world: Those who understand binary, and those who don't.. --+ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #20 February 25, 2005 QuoteHappythoughts, lets go out back, its time for your beating. Beating? So now you think we're dating? You are not nearly dysfunctional enough for that. Usually women come up to me and ask, "Do women really come up to you?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #21 February 25, 2005 No we're not dating, I just need a workout. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #22 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuote Start treating her like crap, chicks seem to dig that Actually..... no. They dont. evidence suggests otherwise... the more of a bastard i am the more attention i get from the opposite sex..... dont blame me its YOUR sex that seems to be more attracted to 'asshole' than 'nice guy' and honestly i'd rather be the later... its actually less work... ____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #23 February 25, 2005 QuoteNo we're not dating, I just need a workout. A workout it would be. As I always say, "by the time you catch me, you'll be too tired to beat me". However, this internet stuff is cool. I'm communicating with a woman that I didn't give my credit card nbr to first. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Superman32 0 #24 February 25, 2005 Alcohol, alcohol, alcohol Or you can wait for her to break up with someone else, then you ger her drunk and POUNCE Inveniam Viam aut Faciam I'm back biatches! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #25 February 25, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuote Start treating her like crap, chicks seem to dig that Actually..... no. They dont. evidence suggests otherwise... the more of a bastard i am the more attention i get from the opposite sex..... dont blame me its YOUR sex that seems to be more attracted to 'asshole' than 'nice guy' and honestly i'd rather be the later... its actually less work... Quit going for the bitchy little babies. There are a few non-psycho bitches out there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
