pop 0 #1 February 28, 2005 What do you think? If this is a repost - FUCK OFF!!!7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #2 February 28, 2005 I wouldn't sign one, seeing as how I don't go into a marriage thinking it's going to go bad (yeah I know, ya'll are gonna disagree with me) Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blitzkrieg 0 #3 February 28, 2005 it doesn't matter to me, i already pissed away everything on drugs and booze. but there's no button for man won't sign. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #4 February 28, 2005 Yeah you are right....I made a typo but I can go back to edit it....so oh well 7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #5 February 28, 2005 You put "on" instead of "one" on one of the choices, and on another you put "Woman" instead of "Man" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #6 February 28, 2005 Not doing it. The only "prenupt" that Morgan and I have is a verbal and physical promise that I love her and she loves me. The physical promise is that diamond ring on her finger and the fact she wears it and is proud of it.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #7 February 28, 2005 I don't disagree with you. The idea of a "PREnup" is that you are NOT coming into the marriage with the idea to collect by cleaning him out just because you said "I DO". It only keeps the honest....honest._______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #8 March 1, 2005 Yes... I agree also... I mean In most cases people would want an Prenuptual Agreement because they are afraid they would get Screwed in the case of a divorce... but I wouldn't marry someone I believe would ever screw me.... and I certainly wouldn't want someone to marry me that thought I would ever do that to them. Edited to say: I was trying to reply to Windcatcher... ooops. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #9 March 1, 2005 I say hell yes! If I was ever to get married he better sign a prenup! Otherwise I'd think he was an idiot and I'd never marry an idiot. Plus I am NOT giving half my stuff to anyone EVER! I have more cool stuff than any guy I've dated anyway. Maybe living in California and seeing my friends get fucked over by ex wives and husbands has made me bitter but I do think the prenup is a wonderful thing. If someone refused to sign one I'd question the relationship but that's just me. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ianmdrennan 2 #10 March 1, 2005 QuoteIf someone refused to sign one I'd question the relationship but that's just me. Likewise if someone asked me to sign one, I'd question the relationship.Performance Designs Factory Team Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #11 March 1, 2005 I would sign it. What's his is his and mine is mine. We should have a shared account only if babies come in the picture. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #12 March 1, 2005 Sure i would. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soulshine 0 #13 March 1, 2005 I have no problem signing a prenup. No one wants to think of divorce but with over 50% of marriages ending that way it is something that you should prepare for. Basically, for me, I don't have shit so any man that has the balls to marry me wouldn't get anything anyway! Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity! ~DEVIOUS BEEF~~FGF #69~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #14 March 1, 2005 QuoteI have no problem signing a prenup. No one wants to think of divorce but with over 50% of marriages ending that way it is something that you should prepare for. Basically, for me, I don't have shit so any man that has the balls to marry me wouldn't get anything anyway! At this point I don't plan on ever marrying but I agree with everything you say 100%. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #15 March 1, 2005 I'd like to hijack my own thread by just leetting you know that good Tequila is GOOOD!!! And I like the cookie monster7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soulshine 0 #16 March 1, 2005 Bah! Go away you smelly pop! Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity! ~DEVIOUS BEEF~~FGF #69~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kansasskydiver 0 #17 March 1, 2005 I'm probably going to get shit for this one but, I think it should be mandatory and in some instances a good idea. Not saying that I ever intend on getting into a marriage that won't last but what is it, more than 50% of marriages fail in the USA alone? Also to some people, family businesses, assets etc are in their name so it's almost a must... I'm all for it in my opinion, but only to protect one another. No one should make any gain off the deal. In the end, if you love eachother anyways, then it won't matter if you have it signed, it's just a what if, kinda like a cypres and airbags. Ya know, just in case<--- See look, pink dolphins DO exist! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soulshine 0 #18 March 1, 2005 QuoteIn the end, if you love eachother anyways, then it won't matter if you have it signed, it's just a what if, kinda like a cypres and airbags. Ya know, just in case Exactly. I'm always amused by the people that say "We don't need a prenup". Ya never know. Times change, people change, shit just happens sometimes. It is always good to have it and hope you never need it. Just my opinion, flame if you want to. Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity! ~DEVIOUS BEEF~~FGF #69~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #19 March 1, 2005 I would insist on getting one.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveNFlorida 0 #20 March 1, 2005 I think not. I think if you go into it thinking about what precautions need to be taken if it should end.. then, you might as well just end it then because it won't last. jmo, i'm sure many have proven me wrong, but I don't feel a prenup is necessary unless you're a movie star or something, and even then if you aren't sure if you can trust someone, or if they will fuck you in the end, why get married? -A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #21 March 1, 2005 QuoteI'd like to hijack my own thread by just leetting you know that good Tequila is GOOOD!!! And I like the cookie monster Did you give up the ritalin and somas? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #22 March 1, 2005 I think the point is moot if you are preparing for the end of a marriage before it even starts. Keith Don't Fuck with me Keith - J. Mandeville Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kansasskydiver 0 #23 March 1, 2005 QuoteI think not. I think if you go into it thinking about what precautions need to be taken if it should end.. then, you might as well just end it then because it won't last. Here's another way to look at it. When you were a teen you wore a condom when you had sex right? I mean just to be sure cause, well, you never know. Even once you were in a lasting relationship, still, just because, shit happens right? I mean you're having sex but you're being careful. You were taking precautions right? Then you're saying you should either go all the way and accept the consequences or not do it at all? Now I understand marriage is different than sex, but is it really in the end?<--- See look, pink dolphins DO exist! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #24 March 1, 2005 QuoteI think the point is moot if you are preparing for the end of a marriage before it even starts. I've seen people flip out for no reason. I've seen normal people just up and leave their families out of the blue. No one in the family had much warning. It's not planning for the end. It's protecting yourself. You can never be 100% sure on anything.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #25 March 1, 2005 I voted yes I'd sign one. But in reality, I'll probably never get to the stage of signing anything, cause I'd likely say NO to the proposal in the first place. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites