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kelel01

Saying how you feel: maturity, or desperation?

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I'm ready for Dublin to come, b/c I'm about sick of reading the threads on it. :D



mmmmm hmmmmm....

Desperation when it involves nothing other than the 'other sex' and maturity for everything else...;)
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Alcohol is your answer. When you introduce alcohol everyone is in the same league.:D

Now my serious answer: When you say 'out of your league', I don't know if you are referring to looks, social economic status or any number of things. You'd be surprised how many 'out of my league' people are sitting home alone on a Saturday night because they are not approached by people who put them on the pedestal.

I have a niece who is a senior in high school who is drop dead gorgeous, straight A student, talented, funny, sweet and not stuck up at all. She is perceived by many to be the girl who has everything. She is in tears many times because girls shy away from her and guys do not ask her out. I guess they perceive her to be 'out of their league'. Of course this is high school, so the maturity level is a bit low.

My point is, everyone has something great about them. You personally have a great sense of humor and judging your avatar, you have nothing to worry about in the looks department. I'm sure you have many more attributes. Saying nothing to this person...well...accomplishes nothing. You're left wondering. Saying something gives you a clear answer. Like BillV said, it is honesty. Throw the 'out of my league' thoughts out of your head. If you get a negative, brush it off and move on. If you get an affirmative...well B|!

BTW, I'm totally out of your league.:ph34r:

Chris



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BTW, I'm totally out of your league.

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Well, thread's over guys. He's not interested.

I'm taking my toys and going home now.




:D:D:D

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I have a niece who is a senior in high school who is drop dead gorgeous, straight A student, talented, funny, sweet and not stuck up at all. She is perceived by many to be the girl who has everything. She is in tears many times because girls shy away from her and guys do not ask her out. I guess they perceive her to be 'out of their league'.




Yeah, one thing I recently figured out is that a lot of people think they're "out of the league" for other people. There was this girl that was smokin hot that I had a crush on for a while, but never had the balls to do anything about it. Well, I see her one day and stop to say 'hi' and within seconds, she says "here is my number, give me a call". turns out for four years she had the biggest crush on me, and thought i was "out of her league." ... it's all in your head, just f'n go for it.
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damn excuse me i am still lmao...Blaine giving advice on this....The world is coming to an end :)
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I guess Muenkel and I are the only ones who got that. :D

I was just pretending like Muenkel was the guy. I haven't spoken to "him" (not Tom Hayden) :D and probably won't for a little while. [:/]

But for real . . . I was bummin' about it this morning, but all the laughs in this thread have cheered me up, so now I'm in no hurry to discuss this with "him" (again, not Tom Hayden). :D:D:D

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I actually completely agree with the people who are saying that there should be not such thing as social divisions and "leagues". I highly doubt that the person who may be considered in a "higher" league wants to be thought of that way. It would be extremely difficult to live up to such high standards/expectations, which is one of the reasons why high-profile people (such as celebrities) have so many personal difficulties within their relationships.

If he/she puts him/herself on a pedestal, then this person needs a reality check because there is a lot to be said for being down-to-earth and/or being humble. If you put someone else on a pedestal, he/she will ALWAYS end up disappointing you.

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I was just pretending like Muenkel was the guy. I haven't spoken to "him" (not Tom Hayden) :D and probably won't for a little while. [:/]

But for real . . . I was bummin' about it this morning, but all the laughs in this thread have cheered me up, so now I'm in no hurry to discuss this with "him" (again, not Tom Hayden). :D:D:D



Jeezy-Chreezy, Kel...

Just tell him already...they say the first step is denial!!

[robert palmer tune]"might as well face it, you're addicted to [TOM]"[/robert palmer tune]

:D:D

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damn excuse me i am still lmao...Blaine giving advice on this....The world is coming to an end :)




If I've told you once...I've told you a hundred times....


Piss Off, wanker!!
:ph34r:

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And its not you, either Blaine!



You didn't have to say that - I knew it already...

...because everybody's in my league...


...if you're younger than 20....so it seems![:/]:S

Kahurangi e Mahearangi,
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Leauges exist to some extent let's face it.
But love can be stronger than minor social status differences.



Why do they exist? It's because we let them. We as a society let them exist.



Naw, it's biology, not socialogy. Guys look for certain qualities in a mate, girls have their own set of wanted traits, and that sets the "leagues" up. The tricky part is that to traits aren't set in stone. So you could be exactly the kind of person some really hot girl or guy is looking for.

But in general, if I went out partying with Harrison Ford, he'd likely be getting all the action.

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