livendive 8 #26 March 8, 2005 QuoteI am REALLY flattered when a chick shows interest. I usually don't do a lot of chasing until they give a little back. Plus.......more often than not.....when I DO chase....I just end up making an ass of myself. I have a TERRIBLE record on this one. Ditto. It makes me feel good when a chick's showing interest in me, but as I just explained in that other thread, my method of chasing is about as simple as telling her I'm interested. Her response will either be "cool", or she'll say "no". Either way, the chase pretty much ends there. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #27 March 8, 2005 I look at it like a rodeo - Chase - lasso - Hog Tie - I like the tying bit the best though - I think.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #28 March 8, 2005 turtle- pre-teen don't count and thats sick anywayMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #29 March 8, 2005 Quotewhich would you rather? why? what does it mean when someone who usually pounces suddenly feels skittish? ignore me... i'm all emotional.. it will pass.... I never chase. But being chased is okay.. if she is hot of course. Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boinky 0 #30 March 8, 2005 I enjoy being chased, but am old enough to know that if I see someone I'm interested in, I don't mind chasing THEM! Once I start chasing, I want the person I am chasing to chase back. I need positive reinforcement! If they tend to be wishy-washy, I start to think they aren't really THAT interested and I start to back off.Nina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pleifer 0 #31 March 8, 2005 What boinky said. Except that Old part, I'm old enough to know better, but too young to care _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #32 March 8, 2005 For me it has usually worked best when neither of us is chasing anyone, just running around like chickens with our heads cut off until we run into each other. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #33 March 8, 2005 Ya know....I think I'm too lazy for either.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boinky 0 #34 March 8, 2005 Hey...who ya' calling old! I'm betting that if you met me, you would never guess my age by how I look or how I act!!!! Nina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #35 March 8, 2005 QuoteHey...who ya' calling old! I'm betting that if you met me, you would never guess my age by what I do There I fixed it.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boinky 0 #36 March 8, 2005 QuoteI'm betting that if you met me, you would never guess my age by what I do Yeah...that, too! Thanks Turtle! But they'd STILL never guess how old I am! Nina Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz) Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #37 March 8, 2005 QuoteQuoteI am REALLY flattered when a chick shows interest. I usually don't do a lot of chasing until they give a little back. Plus.......more often than not.....when I DO chase....I just end up making an ass of myself. I have a TERRIBLE record on this one. Ditto. It makes me feel good when a chick's showing interest in me, but as I just explained in that other thread, my method of chasing is about as simple as telling her I'm interested. Her response will either be "cool", or she'll say "no". Either way, the chase pretty much ends there. Blues, Dave Me three - never very good at figuring out signals. I'm also a chicken-shit. I wouldn't mind some chasing, but really, it's as simple as saying "Hey, I dig you let's get to know each other better." If I'm into it, no games, I'll say "cool, let's roll" and if not, I'll say "Hey, I'm really flattered, but don't think so." Edit to clarify that although I'm also flattered when chicks are interested in me, my post is specifically addressed at guys who are interested in me. Although I suppose my response would be the same if a woman came on to me. Unless it's Kate Winslet, in which case I'm jumping that fence so fast it'll make your head spin. Stalkerish behavior? Not so attractive."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #38 March 8, 2005 Would standing behind the curtains in your living room be considered stalkerish? just asking. Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #39 March 8, 2005 QuoteWould standing behind the curtains in your living room be considered stalkerish? just asking. Depends on what kind of game we're playing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #40 March 8, 2005 I loved my boyfriend as a close friend right away, but he worked very, very hard to convince me to take it to another level because I am cautious and quite selective regarding love and relationships. In the past, if a guy shows no interest in me for whatever reason, then I am CERTAINLY NOT interested at all. However, if a man pursued me strongly enough and treated me very, very well, then that is when I have felt comfortable enough to begin to feel things in return. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #41 March 8, 2005 Quotenever very good at figuring out signals. I gotta agree with this one. I never realize who is actually interested, And the ones I am completely covinced that are Interested usually are not. I think we should all have big Green-Yellow-Red Lights on our foreheads to clear up misconceptions early. Look at the light and see where you stand. Green = Bring It!! Yellow = You Got a Chance but you going to have to work for it. Red = Not a Chance!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #42 March 8, 2005 QuoteHowever, if a man pursued me strongly enough and treated me very, very well, then that is when I have felt comfortable enough to begin to feel things in return. Hmmmm............let me go find my running shoes! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #43 March 8, 2005 QuoteFor me it has usually worked best when neither of us is chasing anyone, just running around like chickens with our heads cut off until we run into each other. I can actually see you doing this too.. That's the funny part. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #44 March 8, 2005 QuoteQuoteFor me it has usually worked best when neither of us is chasing anyone, just running around like chickens with our heads cut off until we run into each other. I can actually see you doing this too.. That's the funny part. Damn - so can I Fluffmeister!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #45 March 8, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuoteFor me it has usually worked best when neither of us is chasing anyone, just running around like chickens with our heads cut off until we run into each other. I can actually see you doing this too.. That's the funny part. Damn - so can I Fluffmeister! BWAHAHAHA!!! ROTFLMAO!!! Well, it is my MO, so.... Once a spaz, always a spaz. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites