need a little advice

[outlawhottie 0]

I have a friend that i've known for a while now. He's a really great guy. I'm pretty sure he's interested. i'm not wanting a realtionship at the moment, but should I atleast drop a hint that eventually i'd like to be more than friends if that happens? he's busy with school right now and i ahve my own stuff too. but if he is interested i like for him toknow i am to so he doesn't give up. i guess you could say that.

i've already one persons advice on it any other input would be appreciated***

i like simple, not complicated

[freeflir29 0]

If you like him...........tell him. If he's anything like me "Dropping Hints" won't work. I'm stupid........just say it!

[outlawhottie 0]

that's one thing i didn't think about. he may not take a hint too well.

i'm sure you're not stupid

[freeflir29 0]

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i'm sure you're not stupid

I'm smart with most things........except women.

[outlawhottie 0]

that's cool. i didn't mean stupid in everything.

[Frenchy68 0]

Directing him to your own personnal nude website is usualy a good subtle way to test the waters. A more refined approach would be to hit him in the kneecap with a crowbar. If you haven't heard from his lawyer within 48 hours, he's a go!
I hope the above was helpful. Don't hesitate to ask me anytime you have heart related questions.

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[outlawhottie 0]

i don't have a nude website but i'm sure that would work. i don't see him enough to him with a crowbar. but then again i wouldn't need a crowbar. i'd just tackle him and pin hime down.

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[windcatcher 0]

Frenchy

back away slowly

edit to add: Sherri DAHling, pay no attention to Frenchy

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[Frenchy68 0]

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Frenchy

back away slowly

OK. I'll go take my meds now.

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[windcatcher 0]

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[Frenchy68 0]

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[outlawhottie 0]

what's the deal with ?

[windcatcher 0]

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[Frenchy68 0]

DON'T YOU DARE!

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[windcatcher 0]

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[Frenchy68 0]

You need a man. Badly. Now.

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[windcatcher 0]

I have one!!! AND he's HOOOOOTTTTT too!!!
I am just too lazy to do anything right now, and he's calling me soon anyway.

Besides, why would I need a man when I've got you.

Mother to the cutest little thing in the world...

[Frenchy68 0]

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and he's calling me soon anyway.

The famous: "Don't call me, I'll call you. Soon"

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Besides, why would I need a man when I've got you

I was thinking the same thing about you. But then again, I don't need a man.

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[windcatcher 0]

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[skylord 1]

I'm going to give it to you straight. Men are supposed to be the initiators. But this is real.

We men get so confused by the signals women send. Sometimes you seem so interested in us, we take it for granted. But we are scared. We are afraid that if we show interest it will be met by:

-rejection
-disgust
-a harassment lawsuit

I'm sitting here with two prime tickets to the U2 concert at Anaheim. I asked someone I really like to go with me, and I received a reply. "Thanks, can you sell me the other ticket and I'll buy both off of you?"

I feel like I will NEVER offer a date again like this. That really hurt, and please understand I bear no ill will toward anyone, but this hurt. I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm not chopped liver either. My advice is to drop the hint point blank. Life is too short for misunderstandings. If a woman walked up to me and told me what you feel, that would make the difference to me.

Bob

Bob Marks

"-when you leave the airplane its all wrong til it goes right, its a whole different mindset, this is why you have system redundancy." Mattaman

[windcatcher 0]

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Men are supposed to be the initiators.

yum!

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[outlawhottie 0]

I appreciate the up frontness. i'm sorry that happened to you. that really sucks. i'll give it a few days and see how i feel and tell him. thanks for the advice.

[jtval 0]

hey chances are if you are frineds he may feel that the signals you are giving him are being sent b/c he is your COMFORT friend.


if you treat a straight man like your gay friend he will eventually be backed into the corner of hiding the way he feels. SOoo, If you think he's interested then let him know. he's probably already tired of guessing. but I bet he's getting better at hiding it. once he gets too good at it you wont be aboe to remind him. YOU"LL jsut be the FRIEND at that point.

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[outlawhottie 0]

i'm not around him that much tath's why i don't know. it's something i kinda feel so i'm guessing mostly. it's one of those things where you meet someone and you know you're attracted, but you only see each other and talk on occasion or every now and then.