OrangeJumper 0 #26 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuoteLooks are what first draws someone to another. Then they learna about the personality. If the person is a dog then it doesn't really matter what they are like "inside." If they are a hottie but have a terrible personality then that's a strike, too. I'd rather have neither and just take care of it myself! Good point! I know for myself, I'm a very visual shallow person. I think I could deal with a hot chick with a rotten personality much longer than the vice versa. There, I fixed it. And I voted #3. I have said goodbye to HOT HOT HOT chicks cause they sucked ass in the personality department. Rob, that's beat up. Your supposed to be on my side........traitor I'm not shallow, I swear. Like I said, I just happen to be a visual person. Remember, this is only if I had to choose, this isn't reality The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #27 March 23, 2005 Quote Thank you! Thank you VERY much! LMAO.... The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #28 March 23, 2005 QuoteNot giving someone the time of day and saying that it doesnt matter what they are like on the inside if they arent attractive jsut seems so wrong to me. Everyone deserves a chance. How many decent looking guys do you know that have dated a woman who has an overwhelming amount of "bad" features? That goes vice versa...how many decent looking women do you know that have dated men with an overwhelming amount of "bad" features. Yes, it would be great if everyone was open dating anyone else regardless of weight/skin/hair/other superficial features. Very few people are that "good," though.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #29 March 23, 2005 well, physical attraction is necessarily to make a relationship work...but it shouldn't be the main factor that sustains it either. I for one, am happy to be dating a man who is very visually appealing...but he also makes me laugh, smile, giggle and play Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #30 March 23, 2005 Quotewell, physical attraction is necessarily to make a relationship work...but it shouldn't be the main factor that sustains it either. I for one, am happy to be dating a man who is very visually appealing...but he also makes me laugh, smile, giggle and play I didn't know people like that even existed? The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daizey 0 #31 March 23, 2005 QuoteVery few people are that "good," though. Very true. I agree completely. I do think its natural to go for the looks. Especially cause when you do see a couple that consists of one really attractive person and one not so attractive person you can't help but wonder how they got together sometimes. But. I do see it...and I dont think it's too rare. Of course I people watch a lot in NYC and you should see the odd matches you see there Maybe I'm just unique. I don't know but I don't judge on the outer look. I have pursued and dated guys that I had absolutely zero attraction to. But that never stopped me from giving them a chance. Attraction can only last so long. A good personality can last forever. *daizey* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #32 March 23, 2005 Quote I'm not shallow, I swear. Like I said, I just happen to be a visual person. Remember, this is only if I had to choose, this isn't reality I don't have a tan. Cause it is March. You know I only give ya a hard time cause I love. Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #33 March 23, 2005 Quotebut it shouldn't be the main factor that sustains it either. I completely agree. Looks don't play much of a part in deciding who I date (really, just because weildbblblue has the best ass ever doesn't mean that's why I dated him! ) However, it's just unrealistic to expect that everyone gives everyone with a good personality a chance no matter how they look. Maybe that makes the world a worse place (hence all the surgeries to make oneself look better), but I don't look down (npi) on my six foot girlfriends who won't date guys that are 5'6".There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #34 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuote I'm not shallow, I swear. Like I said, I just happen to be a visual person. Remember, this is only if I had to choose, this isn't reality I don't have a tan. Cause it is March. You know I only give ya a hard time cause I love. Bwahahahaha......What ever do you mean The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #35 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuotebut it shouldn't be the main factor that sustains it either. I completely agree. Looks don't play much of a part in deciding who I date (really, just because weildbblblue has the best ass ever doesn't mean that's why I dated him! ) However, it's just unrealistic to expect that everyone gives everyone with a good personality a chance no matter how they look. Maybe that makes the world a worse place (hence all the surgeries to make oneself look better), but I don't look down (npi) on my six foot girlfriends who won't date guys that are 5'6". I definitely agree. Looks are fist in my book. Then personality AND looks sustain things. I probably will not give much thought to an ugly girl who is really nice. Just the way it is. However, my dad is 5'2" and my mom is 5'6" so that short guy stuff offends me! Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #36 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuoteQuote I'm not shallow, I swear. Like I said, I just happen to be a visual person. Remember, this is only if I had to choose, this isn't reality I don't have a tan. Cause it is March. You know I only give ya a hard time cause I love. Bwahahahaha......What ever do you mean Just saying I am not shallow. Cause I don't have a tan in March. Or highlights for that matter. Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #37 March 23, 2005 Geez, look what you've started here!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #38 March 23, 2005 QuoteEspecially cause when you do see a couple that consists of one really attractive person and one not so attractive person you can't help but wonder how they got together sometimes. Because what one person finds 'attractive' another may find revolting. QuoteI have pursued and dated guys that I had absolutely zero attraction to. I'm sure there's an Eric joke there just waiting to happen.... I don't judge people based on what they look like... but I couldn't seriously date someone I wasn't physcially attracted too. There's plenty of people out there with good personalities... I want one that look good too! it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #39 March 23, 2005 QuoteGeez, look what you've started here!!! I know, my posts seem to do that. I don't know if you remember the post I made a few months ago when I first registered. It was about women farting. Let me tell ya, I made a lot of friends from that post The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #40 March 23, 2005 I do remember that post and I thought it was FREAKING hilarious!!!!!!!! I'm TOTALLY with you on that one!! LMAO!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #41 March 23, 2005 QuoteI do remember that post and I thought it was FREAKING hilarious!!!!!!!! I'm TOTALLY with you on that one!! LMAO!! OMG, you've just made my day. I thought all of you were extinct, God bless you!!!! The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #42 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuotewell, physical attraction is necessarily to make a relationship work...but it shouldn't be the main factor that sustains it either. I for one, am happy to be dating a man who is very visually appealing...but he also makes me laugh, smile, giggle and play I didn't know people like that even existed? I know of ONE Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #43 March 23, 2005 If a guy does it, ok, fine, he's a guy, that's what they do. But for a girl to do it, YUCK! That's just gross. I don't care what the situation, in what company, where, anything. Girl's don't do that. Period. Sure, everyone does it, but for girls it should be done privately. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #44 March 23, 2005 QuoteIf a guy does it, ok, fine, he's a guy, that's what they do. But for a girl to do it, YUCK! That's just gross. I don't care what the situation, in what company, where, anything. Girl's don't do that. Period. Sure, everyone does it, but for girls it should be done privately. Psssst jumpergirl, come here for second. Don't talk bad about women farting on dz.com or you will be attacked from all directions. Oh shit, to late, ruuuuuunnnnnnn!!!!!!! It wasn't me this time, I swear!!!! The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #45 March 23, 2005 too late hey OJ, mind if I bump your thread? Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #46 March 23, 2005 Quotetoo late hey OJ, mind if I bump your thread? You can bump anything of mine The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #47 March 23, 2005 It's just my thought on the subject. It can be taken however anyone else wants. HEY!! OrangeJumper!! Wait for me!! I can't run that fast!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #48 March 23, 2005 QuoteIt's just my thought on the subject. It can be taken however anyone else wants. HEY!! OrangeJumper!! Wait for me!! I can't run that fast!!! ROFLMAO.... I guess it's different coming from you, considering you are a woman. I am very careful about what I post about now-a-days. I almost hired body guards The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #49 March 23, 2005 okay, I bump you Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #50 March 23, 2005 QuoteI'm sure there's an Eric joke there just waiting to happen.... I was thinking the same thing, but figured you or Val would beat me to it. What took you so long? It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
