OrangeJumper 0 #1 March 23, 2005 looks or personality when finding a significant other, which would you choose?.......explain. Edit: I'm smart, smrt! I can't spell today. The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #3 March 23, 2005 Well, I chose personality, but my bf is hot. Does that count? you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #4 March 23, 2005 Quoteduh #3 of course Awesome!!!! The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #5 March 23, 2005 Looks are what first draws someone to another. Then they learna about the personality. If the person is a dog then it doesn't really matter what they are like "inside." If they are a hottie but have a terrible personality then that's a strike, too. I'd rather have neither and just take care of it myself! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #6 March 23, 2005 If he can't keep me laughing... I feed him to the dogs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #7 March 23, 2005 QuoteLooks are what first draws someone to another. Then they learna about the personality. If the person is a dog then it doesn't really matter what they are like "inside." If they are a hottie but have a terrible personality then that's a strike, too. I'd rather have neither and just take care of it myself! Good point! I know for myself, I'm a very visual person. I think I could deal with a hot chick with a rotten personality much longer than the vice versa. The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #8 March 23, 2005 QuoteGood point! I know for myself, I'm a very visual person. I think I could deal with a hot chick with a rotten personality much longer than the vice versa. you mean you'd much rather have an unkind, selfish girlfriend, who was hot, rather than a plain, but sweet, admirable, loving girl??? edit to add: I chose personality, because everyone's looks fade...you ain't gonna look HOT when you're dead Someone who lives a passionate, loving and giving life, is much more attractive to me, than some "HOT STUD" who thinks he's all that. Actually, most guys who think they are the s*** are ugly to me, because of their arrogance. Now, having said all that, my bf has the looks AND the personality Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #9 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuoteGood point! I know for myself, I'm a very visual person. I think I could deal with a hot chick with a rotten personality much longer than the vice versa. you mean you'd much rather have an unkind, selfish girlfriend, who was hot, rather than a plain, but sweet, admirable, loving girl??? Uh oh, I feel trouble coming Obviously this is a fictional pole. I'm just saying if I had to choose, I would prefer looks. That's my opinion. Realistically, I prefer a mixture of both. The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 1 #10 March 23, 2005 don't choose. just don't have a signif. other. PERIOD. save ya a lot of grief in the long (and short) run! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #11 March 23, 2005 no OrangeJumper, it's too late this where we all jump on you, tie you up, and start you on fire for that statement!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr RUNAWAY!!!! [windcatcher chases OrangeJumper with lighter fluid and a blow torch] Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dmetz 0 #12 March 23, 2005 Looks can get you there, but substance and personality will keep you there. It all depends on whether you're looking for a fling or a wife. And hot chicks don't stay hot forever._________________________________________ "If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #13 March 23, 2005 Quoteno OrangeJumper, it's too late this where we all jump on you, tie you up, and start you on fire for that statement!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr RUNAWAY!!!! [windcatcher chases OrangeJumper with lighter fluid and a blow torch] pirate] You would think I would have learned my lesson last time The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #14 March 23, 2005 Quotedon't choose. just don't have a signif. other. PERIOD. save ya a lot of grief in the long (and short) run! I can't go the rest of my life having flings. Honestly, that shit gets old after a while. On the other hand, I don't know about a significant other........scary! The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daizey 0 #15 March 23, 2005 QuoteLooks are what first draws someone to another. Then they learna about the personality. I don't find this to be completely true. Look at couples who meet online. Personality is typically what draws these couples together....And what about couples who were never drawn to one another until they had a long conversation with one another? Personality in a lot of cases determines everything before looks do. QuoteIf the person is a dog then it doesn't really matter what they are like "inside." I completely disagree. Everyone deserves a chance. So what if they're not gorgeous and they have flaws. Personality is one of the most beautiful things out there. Saying that it doesnt matter what a person is like if they're not attractive is well...kinda low... *daizey* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChrisL 2 #16 March 23, 2005 You know what they say... No matter how hot she is, somewhere someone is sick of her shit __ My mighty steed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #17 March 23, 2005 Even though I'm a girl and girl's are "less visual" than men, I'm more visual. I wouldn't be with a "great personality" unless there was a "great package" with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #18 March 23, 2005 QuoteSaying that it doesnt matter what a person is like if they're not attractive is well...kinda low... No, it's honest. It is much easier to find dates if you are more attractive. Looks matter on some level to most people.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dmetz 0 #19 March 23, 2005 right on!_________________________________________ "If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #20 March 23, 2005 QuoteI can't go the rest of my life having flings. Honestly, that shit gets old after a while. I agree. Besides, you can't do all the really fun stuff the first few times anyways! (Well, you could, maybe, but I wouldn't feel comfortable in doing so!)There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OrangeJumper 0 #21 March 23, 2005 QuoteEven though I'm a girl and girl's are "less visual" than men, I'm more visual. I wouldn't be with a "great personality" unless there was a "great package" with it. Well said BRAVO! The Original Cabana Boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #22 March 23, 2005 I meant that as a general statement. In no way is it true 100% of the time. I would think you'd know me better than that. Like I said, in no way do I think that is true 100%. Just in general. Luv ya Kris!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GTAVercetti 0 #23 March 23, 2005 QuoteQuoteLooks are what first draws someone to another. Then they learna about the personality. If the person is a dog then it doesn't really matter what they are like "inside." If they are a hottie but have a terrible personality then that's a strike, too. I'd rather have neither and just take care of it myself! Good point! I know for myself, I'm a very visual shallow person. I think I could deal with a hot chick with a rotten personality much longer than the vice versa. There, I fixed it. And I voted #3. I have said goodbye to HOT HOT HOT chicks very quickly cause they sucked ass in the personality department.Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daizey 0 #24 March 23, 2005 Yes I'm sure looks do matter to a lot of people and you're right, it is true that if someone is attractive they may have an easier time finding dates. But that wasn't my point. Not giving someone the time of day and saying that it doesnt matter what they are like on the inside if they arent attractive jsut seems so wrong to me. Everyone deserves a chance. *daizey* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #25 March 23, 2005 Thank you! Thank you VERY much! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
