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kelel01

How's your self-esteem?

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Ever see a pic of yourself and think:

A). DAMN! I thought I was a lot cuter than that! :D
B). Yeah, that's what I thought I looked like. :|
C). GOD DAMN, I'm a sexy bitch! I had no idea! B|

(In order of how they roughly correspond to the poll).

Somehow, I look very different in pictures than I do in the mirror. Anyone else?

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Ever see a pic of yourself and think:

A). DAMN! I thought I was a lot cuter than that! :D
B). Yeah, that's what I thought I looked like. :|
C). GOD DAMN, I'm a sexy bitch! I had no idea! B|

(In order of how they roughly correspond to the poll).

Somehow, I look very different in pictures than I do in the mirror. Anyone else?



That's in Reverse order, Kel.

I have, and have always had, low self esteem. It's part of being me, I guess. [:/]
It's your life, live it!
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Mine is low. [:/]

I'm super confident around others and project good self-esteem, but in some areas I'm really hard on myself, and have a hard believing I deserve what I deserve. Like I'm less important. I'd make a terrible celebrity.

you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk?

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In my mind, I believe my self-esteem is where it should be, but to other people, they think my self-esteem is really low. They say I don't think very highly of myself, but when I see myself in the mirror I see what I see and accept it.
I'm so funny I crack my head open!

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Mine is low.





I'll NEVER understand that one. :S There is CERTAINLY no reason for it.



Yeah, I know, but knowing doesn't always help. I don't have any problem with how I look or my mad social skillz, I just wish that (superficial) confidence would translate better into other areas, like my professional life, and my personal sense of worth.

Make sense? Hey, it's all good - at least I can be honest with myself.

Having higher self-esteem than you really rate is always better. Even if some people try to knock you down, more people than that will believe you're right to think highly of yourself.

you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk?

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Ever see a pic of yourself and think:

A). DAMN! I thought I was a lot cuter than that! :D
B). Yeah, that's what I thought I looked like. :|
C). GOD DAMN, I'm a sexy bitch! I had no idea! B|

(In order of how they roughly correspond to the poll).

Somehow, I look very different in pictures than I do in the mirror. Anyone else?



I think I have pretty decent self-esteem, but I can get a little cocky to offset any weaknesses. It gets me a big head, but i try to make fun of myself to keep it from toppling me over! :ph34r:
Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing.

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I agree, the poll is a little confusing...

Better than it should be = overly confident (high self esteem)
Where it should be = just right/normal
Worse than it should be = overly critical (low self esteem)

That is how I would of understood the poll... :P:S oh well...

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Yeah . . . what I was kind of getting at is that I think mine's too high. I'm gonna have to work on beating myself down into reality. :D

Ah, sick jokes based on truth are awesome.



your head is squashed. ;)

Cutting ya down to balance your self-esteem. Its what I do. :ph34r:
Why yes, my license number is a palindrome. Thank you for noticing.

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No it's not. If you thought you were cuter than you are, then your self-esteem is better than it should be.

And to your post . . . :(



Mine will get better when I get a good dental plan. 15 years ago I opened a bottle with my teeth, and created a chip-gap. I stopped smiling with my teeth. About 5 years ago I got in a fight with a baseball bat (don't do it, you'll lose every time.) I pretty much stopped smiling. To me, my appearance is almost everything. It's hard to make a good first impression when you look like "Those farmers". B|[:/]

EDIT: 4 years ago, just before I came back to the sport. I got re-current and my A signed with stitches in my mouth. [:/]
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I'm not a good looking dude. Pink skin, bad skin, spare tire. Tending more towards skinny or fat, but never the ideal medium.

Personality wise, I'm not to engaging. A loner. I think I'm ugly and unsophisticated.

And I still think I have a highly elevated sense of self esteem. ;) So I picked "Better than it should be.":P


My wife is hotter than your wife.

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Mine is low. [:/]

I'm super confident around others and project good self-esteem, but in some areas I'm really hard on myself, and have a hard believing I deserve what I deserve. Like I'm less important. I'd make a terrible celebrity.



Ah, are you a virgo I assume? Me too. I have to say my self-esteem is all kosher, but we virgos are a little too much the perfectionist type and can be too hard on ourselves compared to the next person I believe. Don't sweat it so much, and just blame your birth-sign! ;) Cheers!:)

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Ah yes I am, and as such I can't blame anything but myself for not being perfect. It doesn't even matter than NO ONE is perfect. If I'm not perfect, I am less than what I should be. :S:S:D

It's retarded, but more true than I'd like it be.

you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk?

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I've got my problem spots. My selfesteme is so-so. I'm with Rev I need alot of dental work so smiling is very hard for me to do. I have some personal health issues (I smoke) I'd like to fix. Plus there is the beer-tire around my waiste I'll probably never loose. I just love dark heavy beers to much to give them up. I kick myself in the head everyday the alarm goes off for not finishing college.. just normal bs I think we all have, just different catagories.

I'm a pretty positive person and pretty confident, so I'm just normal I guess.



"Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them."

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Most of the time when I see a picture of myself I think I'm one ugly bastard (not the worst in the world, but ugly nonetheless). And then a good picture would come out to make me think otherewise. So I don't know. I'm just an ugly duckling. It's all good. How's that for a less than ideal self-esteem. :ph34r:


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I'm happy with myself. I yam whats I yam. Can't catch me, I'm the gingerbread man. :P

I'm not very photogenic at all. Occasionally I get a picture I totally love, and sometimes I'm like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. But I'm happy with myself. :)



The pic you have with your name is pretty photogenic ;)

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"I don't have low self-esteem. I have low esteem for everyone else." :D

I'm probably about average when it comes to my self-esteem. I'm not too shabby. I have my positive and negative attributes just like anyone else.
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I voted worse than it should be, because I wish I was less self-centered, more loving,etc. Sometimes I see myself as not being those things, and it sucks[:/]

and, most pictures I do not like of myself, but every once in a great moon I'll like oneB|


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