girlygirl 0 #1 March 23, 2005 What have YOU learned from it all? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #2 March 23, 2005 Divorced..... Learned ALOT about myself...and what I need from life. I also learned more so what I can and cannot handle in a significant other. I could go on and on Oh and one more thing...Divorce is expensive She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #3 March 23, 2005 was engaged when i was 19.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #4 March 23, 2005 Engaged 4X. Married 1X- ( it was anulled though, mess free over.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkiD_PL8 0 #5 March 23, 2005 I was engaged and allmost got married before everything went to shit. I learned that it is not worth it to lose all of your friends just because you have a jealous fiance. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #6 March 23, 2005 Never engaged, married twice. QuoteWhat have YOU learned from it all? Some things that I would discuss on a public forum. No regrets though. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #7 March 23, 2005 nope, never. and i'll only get married once. so if it doesn't work out, i'll be single for the rest of forever. guess i need to wait for mr. right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites girlygirl 0 #8 March 23, 2005 How do you get married without an engagement? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skycat 0 #9 March 23, 2005 hahaha....well to start off with it should be illeagle get married before you are 25. Around 25 you start figuring out what the hand in life you were dealt looks like, and start figuring out how you are going to play it. Married at 21 divorced at 25, no other engagements or marriages, only one other relationship that lasted more than 3 months. By 3 months I know if you annoy me or not....most people annoy me. Fly it like you stole it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites crutch 0 #10 March 23, 2005 Married twice, divorced twice, what have I learned? When I figure it out I will right a book and makes lots of money. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wmw999 2,555 #11 March 23, 2005 Married once, engaged never. I learned that my happiness is my problem, not someone else's. If I put someone else in charge of my happiness, I give them incentive to be manipulative and selfish, and myself to see them that way, even if they aren't. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Frenchy68 0 #12 March 23, 2005 QuoteHow do you get married without an engagement? Don't propose. Just go straight to the chapel... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites girlygirl 0 #13 March 23, 2005 You met and then just got married?!!! Did you even get to know them first? How did you even know if they were good in bed or not? Or had no nasty little secrets you hated about them? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Frenchy68 0 #14 March 23, 2005 Quote You met and then just got married?!!! First time, we were not even dating... QuoteHow did you even know if they were good in bed or not? I didn't know the first time; I knew the second time QuoteOr had no nasty little secrets you hated about them? I took my chances. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites eeneR 3 #15 March 23, 2005 Quotehahaha....well to start off with it should be illeagle get married before you are 25. I agree 100% on this...Married 22...divorced 26 She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites antifnsocial 0 #16 March 23, 2005 I knew you were weird. Have you learned anything from it? Would you do it again if you met Mrs. Right next?Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Frenchy68 0 #17 March 23, 2005 QuoteHave you learned anything from it? Of course I have. QuoteWould you do it again if you met Mrs. Right next? Probably. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Beeron 0 #18 March 23, 2005 Was married for about 6 months. What did I learn?......That I'll never comprehend women's thought processes or reasoning. Plus, I know that I can sometimes be self-centered and am probably not well suited for marriage. Hence, I'm just gonna be a self sufficient solo artist! B~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites cbain 0 #19 March 23, 2005 Quotehahaha....well to start off with it should be illeagle get married before you are 25. Agree with that as well, at least for the majority of people. Married at 21 divorce at 23. I hadn't even figured out who I was yet let alone what I wanted in another person. He also really needed to get himself figured out. No kids, thank goodness! I'm remarried now though. Much improved this time around. Christina Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites antifnsocial 0 #20 March 23, 2005 I do. Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Frenchy68 0 #21 March 23, 2005 QuoteI do. Again? "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites IanHarrop 42 #22 March 23, 2005 QuoteWhat have YOU learned from it all? That's easy, I was married for 16 years, got custody of my son and this is what I learned: - NEVER get married again! In the words of Tom Waits: All my friends are married, every Tom and Dick and Harry You must be strong if you're to go it alone Here's to the bachelors and the bowry bums And those that think that they're the ones who are better off without a wife I been sleepin' until the crack of noon Midnight howlin' at the moon Goin' out when I want to, and I'm comin' home when I please Don't have to ask permission I wanna go out fishin' Never have to ask for the keys... I don't mind going to weddings as long as they're not my own."Where troubles melt like lemon drops, away above the chimney tops, that's where you'll find me" Dorothy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites GiaKrembs 0 #23 March 23, 2005 Married once... lasted 10 years. Lost my identity by being the "perfect" wife (as he saw it). Would I do it again??? YES, with someone who truly loves me for me, and has the same goals for a life together. Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites girlygirl 0 #24 March 23, 2005 Where the minister? Frenchy wants to get married again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Frenchy68 0 #25 March 23, 2005 QuoteFrenchy wants to get married again. I'm going into withdrawl... 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girlygirl 0 #8 March 23, 2005 How do you get married without an engagement? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skycat 0 #9 March 23, 2005 hahaha....well to start off with it should be illeagle get married before you are 25. Around 25 you start figuring out what the hand in life you were dealt looks like, and start figuring out how you are going to play it. Married at 21 divorced at 25, no other engagements or marriages, only one other relationship that lasted more than 3 months. By 3 months I know if you annoy me or not....most people annoy me. Fly it like you stole it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crutch 0 #10 March 23, 2005 Married twice, divorced twice, what have I learned? When I figure it out I will right a book and makes lots of money. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,555 #11 March 23, 2005 Married once, engaged never. I learned that my happiness is my problem, not someone else's. If I put someone else in charge of my happiness, I give them incentive to be manipulative and selfish, and myself to see them that way, even if they aren't. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #12 March 23, 2005 QuoteHow do you get married without an engagement? Don't propose. Just go straight to the chapel... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #13 March 23, 2005 You met and then just got married?!!! Did you even get to know them first? How did you even know if they were good in bed or not? Or had no nasty little secrets you hated about them? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #14 March 23, 2005 Quote You met and then just got married?!!! First time, we were not even dating... QuoteHow did you even know if they were good in bed or not? I didn't know the first time; I knew the second time QuoteOr had no nasty little secrets you hated about them? I took my chances. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #15 March 23, 2005 Quotehahaha....well to start off with it should be illeagle get married before you are 25. I agree 100% on this...Married 22...divorced 26 She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antifnsocial 0 #16 March 23, 2005 I knew you were weird. Have you learned anything from it? Would you do it again if you met Mrs. Right next?Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #17 March 23, 2005 QuoteHave you learned anything from it? Of course I have. QuoteWould you do it again if you met Mrs. Right next? Probably. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beeron 0 #18 March 23, 2005 Was married for about 6 months. What did I learn?......That I'll never comprehend women's thought processes or reasoning. Plus, I know that I can sometimes be self-centered and am probably not well suited for marriage. Hence, I'm just gonna be a self sufficient solo artist! B~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cbain 0 #19 March 23, 2005 Quotehahaha....well to start off with it should be illeagle get married before you are 25. Agree with that as well, at least for the majority of people. Married at 21 divorce at 23. I hadn't even figured out who I was yet let alone what I wanted in another person. He also really needed to get himself figured out. No kids, thank goodness! I'm remarried now though. Much improved this time around. Christina Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antifnsocial 0 #20 March 23, 2005 I do. Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #21 March 23, 2005 QuoteI do. Again? "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IanHarrop 42 #22 March 23, 2005 QuoteWhat have YOU learned from it all? That's easy, I was married for 16 years, got custody of my son and this is what I learned: - NEVER get married again! In the words of Tom Waits: All my friends are married, every Tom and Dick and Harry You must be strong if you're to go it alone Here's to the bachelors and the bowry bums And those that think that they're the ones who are better off without a wife I been sleepin' until the crack of noon Midnight howlin' at the moon Goin' out when I want to, and I'm comin' home when I please Don't have to ask permission I wanna go out fishin' Never have to ask for the keys... I don't mind going to weddings as long as they're not my own."Where troubles melt like lemon drops, away above the chimney tops, that's where you'll find me" Dorothy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GiaKrembs 0 #23 March 23, 2005 Married once... lasted 10 years. Lost my identity by being the "perfect" wife (as he saw it). Would I do it again??? YES, with someone who truly loves me for me, and has the same goals for a life together. Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #24 March 23, 2005 Where the minister? Frenchy wants to get married again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #25 March 23, 2005 QuoteFrenchy wants to get married again. I'm going into withdrawl... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
