SarahC07 0 #1 April 11, 2005 In a relationship, is it okay or is it not okay to call your SO a 'bitch'? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeForsythe 0 #2 April 11, 2005 No it is not okay!Time and pressure will always show you who a person really is! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #3 April 11, 2005 QuoteIn a relationship, is it okay or is it not okay to call your SO a 'bitch'? Wierd options, there's no option for not it's not Ok to call your SO (or anyone esle for that matter) a bitchYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aggie04 0 #4 April 11, 2005 sarah...no...so call him a bitch back right before jacking him in the balls ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ A life without a cause is a life without an effect Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peej 0 #5 April 11, 2005 If it's meant to be hurtful, then absolutely no way is it cool. As i joke i can take it and so can my girlfriend, we're both pretty witty people and i can remember a few times when either of us has made a playful joke about the other one in front of friends and the only response we could come up with is: "bitch". Advertisio Rodriguez / Sky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #6 April 11, 2005 If we were totally joking around, and it was very obvious that we were not serious, then sure, okay. BUT... if my man ever called me that in a serious way, there would be some issues. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #7 April 11, 2005 Depends on the situation...scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #8 April 11, 2005 Nope. Not even when joking. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #9 April 11, 2005 Haha that's great.... This poll is really about an argument me a few of my friends and I were having... and it appeared that gender was a key factor.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #10 April 11, 2005 Guys I've dated have called me "Beer Bitch," so I guess that makes it okay.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buried 0 #11 April 11, 2005 it depends on how often and if it was due to a fight or just playing around . Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyingferret 0 #12 April 11, 2005 Really hard to reply without context. Guys call each other bitches all the time. That said, yeah I know you said by your SO. Is it ok? No. Does it happen? yeah. Fighting is not ok, screaming is not ok, any other cursing probably not good either. BUT...it happens...sooner or later, that person in the world that can hit all your right buttons, will hit a wrong one and frustration or anger will take over and you will say things you regret. The question is how you respond as a couple after that. Can you come to grips with how you feel, make apologies, offer forgiveness, and clarify what you think the severity level will be next time it happens? That it is the difference....IMO Anyone who summarily makes something unforgivable on first occurence is incredibly hard to deal with. On the flipside, anyone who does not give credence to a heartfelt concern or heart when felt the first time, is hurting the relationship and themselves as much as anything. So, I guess, my take is that there is a lot that is 'ok' if you recover from it together and modify expectations in the future as a couple.-- All the flaming and trolls of wreck dot with a pretty GUI. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #13 April 11, 2005 I've been called a pack bitch. I'm perfectly fine with that. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #14 April 12, 2005 "bitch is no insult from the mouth of a wolf" depends on context and intent...____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pleifer 0 #15 April 12, 2005 At the shop I am doing my Divemaster (SCUBA) stuff through I am known as T.B. Tank Bitch, bastard, boy whatever starts with 'b' evidently I may be a bitch, but I ain't your bitch is my normal response _________________________________________ The Angel of Duh has spoke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #16 April 12, 2005 Quotedepends on context and intent... Exactly. I have never once called Morgan a bitch in hate or anger, however, I have on occasion called her a bitch jokingly. Although, she knew that I was joking and it doesn't offend her when I say it jokingly. Having an open dialogue is really the most important thing. You'll learn what is ok and not ok in a relationship.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
