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Oddly though he now loves the fact that I skydive and always wants to see the new videos and find out what Im doing


Hehehehe...>:(
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No way, people who don't skydive are shitheads. And ex-skydivers? Barely human.



What about ex-skydivers that are still riggers. That's gotta be right down there with algae....or fungus.:P



I think that depends on if they pack for you (for free) or not.



Hell, free repacks and shows up to the DZ to be your pack bitch. Damn X-skydiving riggers need to earn their keep. :P

(fyi...I'm dating an x-skydiving rigger so I can say that)
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Either you will become a whuffo OR she will become a jumper.:|
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My husband has only made 2 tandem jumps in the last 3 years, so far he is supportive of me jumping, but I know he gets bored when I'm away. I think dating a non-skydiver can be done, it just depends on the patience, trust and support from the wuffo. If they ever want you to choose, I don't know a single skydiver that would choose their rig over their SO:S

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What makes you think skydivers are any different than any other human beings?



Most skydivers have bigger egos.

DUH!

nuh uh!!! no. i don't believe that for a second!!!!

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I just have to chime in on this one. 2 marriages later and a number of LTR's I can state without a doubt jumpers and non-jumpers don't mix well. Something has to give. My 1st wife hated it so I cutaway. 2nd wife dreaded it so I stopped for 10 years...big mistake. In the end I ended up a divorce statistic anyways.

It scares the hell out of most non-jumpers and I have to believe its even harder for women jumpers because I think most guys can't handle that they're women do something that takes more balls than they have.
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I used to think anything was possible, relationship-wise.

Since Heather and I broke up, I've converted. [:/]

IMO, today there is barely a f*cking chance at a meaningful relationship between two people anyway. Add skydiver/whuffo tension into the blender? Next to impossible.

The whuffo has to become somewhat involved... at least educated to the point where he/she understands. The skydiver has to find out what makes the whuffo tick (if anything... It seems some people just simply... exist) and develop a slight interest... it's only natural, sh*t won't work unless you understand what drives your partner.

Of course you can't call 'em whuffos anymore if they don't ask the question "Whuffo you jump from dat der airplane fo?" right?



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I prefer dating whuffos.



Ditto. The whole "don't $h!t where you eat" thing. Best not to muddy the waters you play in with relationship wreckage.



By that rational, you would never do anything with your partner... that you enjoyed doing? [:/]

Do you not also "eat" at "home" ?



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Hey all ya'll is it possible for a skydiver to have a successful relationship with a non-skydiver?


Yes. It's like many other things in life...I dated someone who likes to ride motorcycles. I liked to tag along, but I don't ride them myself. I like to bellydance. It will be extremely difficult for me to find a guy that likes to do that. It's okay if you have a hobby that a significant other doesn't partake in.
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I prefer dating whuffos.



Ditto. The whole "don't $h!t where you eat" thing. Best not to muddy the waters you play in with relationship wreckage.



By that rational, you would never do anything with your partner... that you enjoyed doing? [:/]



Sounds like the definition of marriage to me - not ever doing that again!
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Apples and oranges.

The difference is that if you spend a lot of time at a DZ, date a jumper, and the shit hits the fan, you're stuck hanging around them afterwards.

Jumping is usually location dependent (DZ). This forces you to be around them if you want to keep jumping. Not so with most other activities.

I don't know many non-jumpers that hang around DZs after breaking up with a jumper they were dating.

It's the difference between being forced to be around the person if you want to continue your hobby, versus having freedom from them.

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Apples and oranges



Uh-huh. If you had an Apple Orchard and an Orange Orchard seperated only by a fence, this thread basically demostrates that the one performing best will be the one you are not currently standing in. :D

"The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." They say. Since we are talking about relationships here, I'd have to elaborate on that and say:

"The grass is always greener, where the dogs have been shitting."



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I like to bellydance. It will be extremely difficult for me to find a guy that likes to do that.



how about a guy who just likes to watch:$;)



Watching comes along with having to listen to me talk about bellydance, listening to me clank my zills, wanting to eat at only Middle Eastern restaurants, and being forced to watch me practice and asking for honest feedback!
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not exactly Middle Eastern, but you like Ethiopian? there is a place near by :)



I've never tried it!



There's an Ethiopian restaurant over by your new place by Wrigley. eeneR took me there last year and it was great!
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not exactly Middle Eastern, but you like Ethiopian? there is a place near by :)



I've never tried it!



There's an Ethiopian restaurant over by your new place by Wrigley. eeneR took me there last year and it was great!



there were two.. you know which one? The one was the East side of the street closed in January and moved to ~6800N on sheridan. Personally i thought that was the better place. The other one is still good tho just not a easy to get to for me

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there were two.. you know which one? The one was the East side of the street closed in January and moved to ~6800N on sheridan. Personally i thought that was the better place. The other one is still good tho just not a easy to get to for me



Umm....errr...it was dark, and snowing, and I just followed eeneR's directions.[:/]

All I can tell you was that when we were there Feb of last year, it had a narrow doorway, one window overlooking the street, a bar to the right of the dining area in a separate room, and I recally it being decorated mostly in muted reds and yellows.

*hoping eeneR pops in here soon with details*
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