Ya know the movie Vanilla Sky? Well my roommate has a problem somewhat like that...
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kansasskydiver, in The Bonfire
tigra 0
I agree it sucks to have someone stalking you or flipping out on you, and yes, it CAN happen even if you've taken the time to get to know a person. But the odds of bringing home a freak/ stalker/ nut job increase when you invite strangers you met in a bar into your home.
MarkM 0
QuoteWow... You never got laid in college did you? This shit happens, it's funny is all.
It's not funny, it's pretty sad. And seriously dude, you can try for a better insult than "you never got laid".
QuoteAnd again, he didn't pick her up at the bar. We gave her our address for the party the next day and left.
She showed up and made it HER decission that she was going to sleep with him, before they even knew eachother. Yes I'm going to play the drunk card here. As for hey I do'nt like chicks who puke on me, you'd think ok, leave, no you can't have my number would sum it up... Nope she comes back the next night, uninvited, we're having a party so whatever. She doesn't leave that night, sleeps on the couch. Next morning, ok yeah, see you later goodbye. No hug, no kiss, no call me later etc etc etc. How she got his email address??? How she got mine??? Sounding a bit odd now?
Last but not least, when your doorbell rings, do you answer it? I thought so. If you have no idea who it is, you don't put yourself in that situation. So what's the best way to do it if you're trying to get her to get the hint. Not answer it when she can see you through the door OR just say, hey, he's not here, here's his number give him a call. And no that doesn't mean call from 11pm to 7am non stop...
Yes I answer my door and yet amazingly enough only the people I want inside my home actually get into it. But maybe I have a magic door. Or no, maybe I just have control of things and don't blame outside crap on stuff going on in my life that I have control over.
It's funny you title the thread after the Vanilla Sky movie, because ultimately the problems in the lead character's life where caused by himself. He poorly handled the crazy woman that messed up his life, he got into the car the morning when she drove it off a bridge. He even admited at the end of the movie that he never should've gotten into the car that morning, a final admission that the choices he made in life were poor ones. The entire theme of the movie, the events spinning out of control in his mind, were entirely in his control if only he would've taken lead of things. The IT guy in his mind told him as much over and over.
The only thing we really have in life is control of our lives and yet people piss it away with bad reasoning and excuses. "OMG, it's one of those crazy bitches, what can you do about it??" You don't see the connection between the guy's actions and why he has this crazy chick issue and what he could've done to avoid the issue at several steps. That's what makes the situation sad.
how about another e mail
Not only will you look better, feel better, and fuck better; you'll have significantly increased your life expectancy. --Douva
tigra 0
I'm glad you find the situation entertaining and the chick hasn't gone completely "fatal attraction" on your roomie.
And yes, I guess you could say I'm careful about who I invite into my home. Is that wrong?
wingnut 0
Quotethis thread needs to get back on track
how about another e mail
yeah, what he said!!!! we want some more drama and shit to laugh at...
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QuoteThey hooked up once, he ignored her ever since
QuoteWow... You never got laid in college did you? This shit happens, it's funny is all.
Actually, I got laid a TON in college, and I don't seem to remember it being an excuse to be disrepectful to anyone, no matter how "crazy" they were...
QuoteThis isn't about being social or meeting new people- this is about inviting a whack job into your home because your roomie wanted to get laid!
HE DIDN'T INVITE HER OVER!!! Lol that's the whole basis of this thread. She cam over like any other person for the party, that's fine.
As for answering the door, that was before we knew she had issues. Easy way to get rid of someone without having to call the cops is to simply just say they're not there. No comfortation, nothing. I already had to pull a weapon on someone in my house, and am damn ready to do it again if I have to.
As to vanillaskygirl, yes we have met. You just don't remember or choice not to. I'm sorry the rest of the people on here and trying to associate it with you. If they were smart, they'd figure out that KansasSkydiver lives in KS and not california.
To the rest, once again to clear this ALL up, SHE WANTED TO GET LAID I took her home because I'm nice and didn't want to throw her out on the street in the rain. It was never an issue of him inviting her over etc etc etc
And don't worry, I'll have more emails here shrotly, including the nasty poem!
ps Yes the movie Vanilla Sky he admits to the fault and should have never gotten in the car. My roommate knows he shouldn't have hooked up with her, but he didn't continue it on. When she wrote the nasty emails, he didn't reply, when she called him an ass, he admitted figuring it would be the easiest way out. Then she came over looking for a peice of ass after calling him a dick.
All in all again, I'm just going for the humor in all this. It's a small town, 40,000 people max when school is in. It's not like the big cities, people have house parties all the time. Everyone on here has been to a party i'm sure where you didn't know who was throwing it. We have enough people in the gorup that do know us that it's not a problem if strangers come over. Remember everyone is a stranger till you get to know them
QuoteQuotethis thread needs to get back on track
how about another e mail
yeah, what he said!!!! we want some more drama and shit to laugh at...
Hey he gets home from work at 430, I'll have some emails and hopeflly mp3's to share with you all. Until you hear the voice messages, you won't believe any of this is going on lol
scottbre 0
"Your mother's full of stupidjuice!"
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QuoteI was replying to your post, but my comments were about the situation this thread was about, not your personal life
Gotcha!
Because I've kissed quite a few boys who have acted up afterwards. It's kinda funny more than anything else.
QuoteI agree it sucks to have someone stalking you or flipping out on you, and yes, it CAN happen even if you've taken the time to get to know a person. But the odds of bringing home a freak/ stalker/ nut job increase when you invite strangers you met in a bar into your home.
I agree with that. I think the bar scene at college is very different than in a city, though. At least at Purdue, pretty much everyone in my classes/circle of friends all went to the same 2 or 3 bars every Friday night (Purdue has just a few bars that most frequent.) So, going to the bars was really just a way to hang out with the 50 people that you know!
Going to the bars now...everyone is a stranger. I'm not looking, but if I was, I would be more cautious now than I was in school.tigra 0
And I do agree, college bars in college towns are different.
champu 1
QuoteWhile we were out she kept on telling everyone that she liked anime porn and that she was a good catholic and that he'd be the 8th guy she's had premarital sex with.
...you know... ...ice breaker type shit.
Personally I just go for the "Hey, you wanna get some breakfast in the morning?"
-sure
"Cool then, do you want me to pick you up or roll you over"
Or the ever so classic "Hey nice shoes, wanna f*ck?"
champu 1
A guy and a girl are at a college party. Music is bumping, people are having a good time. But both of them are kinda shy, mostly looking down at their cups filled with whatever beer was in the cheapest keg the hosts could buy that week. Hers was free, because at real college parties, girls don't have to pay.
Suddenly the guy notices this girl leaning up against the same wall as he, just a few feet away, staring into the crowd, looking rather bored.
She catches him looking and he realizes it. He acts as though he was looking past her to see how long the line by the keg was, but he's not fooling anyone.
As he resumes his crowd watching, she wonders if he's interested in her. Not ready to find out the hard way, she waits, giving him a chance to strike up a conversation.
Five excruciating minutes pass.
Tired of spending so many parties this way, she can't take the akwardness anymore, and decides to make a move...
girl: "say... you ever watch those japanese cartoons where the school girls get raped by a giant octopus?"
OMG thanks for the freaking laugh. That's going down as one of the greatest posts I've ever seen
Now who wants to see the poem
kinney29 0
kelel01 1
like she did
Not only will you look better, feel better, and fuck better; you'll have significantly increased your life expectancy. --Douva
kinney29 0
bch7773 0
QuoteOk so this is the roommate, and I posting under Kansasskydivers name.
I was wondering why the letters looked so small
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Now who wants to see the poem
me!!!
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now if we could just get those crazy women to wear signs......
LMAO...because I know what (and who) you are referring to!