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DaGimp

My family gets their wish

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Im leaving home for ohio tomorrow, but not for a regular visit.

I will be waering my dress blues, tapps will be played, and a folded american flag will be given to my grandmother, for my grandfather a Vet from the vietnam war has passed away tonight. Sadly enough i feel more for my younger cusins who have never gone through losing someone close to them.

And this comes when i am having so many other problems in my life.....:(:(
"Professor of Pimpology"~~~Bolas

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My grandfather was a WWII vet... He never fought overseas, but paid his time as a scientist making a certain bomb, if ya know what I mean... So I never thought of him as an Army man, so the Army being there was out of place to me at first. He died when I was 12. (I just turned 30, so that is a while back.)

I will remember a few things for the rest of my life - with picture perfect memory.

1) The folding of the flag and being handed to my grandmother.

2) The sound of the guns.

3) He had a long struggle with death, so I was almost happy it finally came. I did not cry at first, because, well, it was time... Or so I thought... Then, one of the flag folding officers (forgive me for not knowing their official name) shed a tear and could not wipe it for the whole service while holding the flag. I lost it seeing the tear. How could a guy who never knew my grandfather shed a tear, so I thought?

I can't say I know what you are going thru, but I can say I have been there. I wish you and your family well, and I am sure the experience will be as positive as it can be, perhaps, you will even have fond memories like I do many years after.

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You have my condolences also. If you can, tell them stories about him that they may not have heard yet. It is a good thing to share stores from a life well lived.

You can have it good, fast, or cheap: pick two.

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Hey golf cart brother, sorry to hear that.

Keep your pecker up and if you want to chat, just call, any time dude, day or night. No worries.
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:([:/]dammit Jake...that's been the pain in my heart for the past month...I feel for ya. All I can say is not to say "goodbye"...just say "see ya later"..[:/] you know where to find me if you need a shoulder...I'm always here.





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Hugs to you and your family, Jake. I know things are piling up on you but remember to take it all a moment at a time. Call me if you need to vent.

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At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit.

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Sorry to hear of your loss dude. Taps and the folding of the flag have always been the hardest thing for me to handle at a funeral. My best wishes go to you and your family, and my thanks goes to your grandfather for serving. -LD

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