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JumpNFly

is it me?

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Alas, there is no simple answer to the quandry you have found yourself in... and at one time or another... those of us that have a heart find ourselves in this type of situation...

try and keep your chin up... if its meant to be it will be...

at least that's what everyone keeps telling me... :P
Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

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What's up D? now all the Oprahs have joined in....Best advice would be go to the local DZ. There's always some drunk bastard that will give you a good seeing to. Times are hard take what you can:)
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do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?

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I said to get a target and get angry. I think you have your target right here :ph34r::ph34r::ph34r:

Shrek -- you a hardbody? Bottles break against your rocklike chest :ph34r: Strut yo' stuff

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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No i am a fat bastard who has nothing better to do. Come on posting on the bonfire looking for sympathy. You have more chance talking to Billy Vance with his back to you!!!:P:P
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do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?

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wendy I honestly don't think any of them could handle me....



Not at the moment. Actually, there's nothing better than an emotional low self esteem chick:)
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do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?

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there's not really low self esteem going on here... just hurts when someone you love isnt sure if they feel the same way... I see you've got a really good grasp on women... especially their needs

The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are

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Needs, Needs what about our needs you sellfish individual. Gees, now the woman wants needs. What next?????
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do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?

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Alright.....

This thread is getting old....

I'm sick of your incessant rambling...

--SO---

Take a hint from Arnold and........
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do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?

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there's not really low self esteem going on here... just hurts when someone you love isnt sure if they feel the same way... I see you've got a really good grasp on women... especially their needs



you do realize this can be a two way street... women don't have exclusive rights on that sort of feeling... But it still sucks when this is the case...[:/]
Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

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You're asking for relationship advice from skydivers on the interent:o:o:D:D

Go eat Pizza with Grue and bitch about men to him:)
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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I'm very sorry for your pain. Others have given you awesome advice.

My only other advice would be to get laid. Nothing beats a breakup better then some massive amounts of tequila and some rebound sex. Seriously it gives you back the confidence the other has taken.



I think that this would be a mistake and would bring with it a new set of potential problems.

I think that what JumpNFly should do is concentrate on being herself, and doing things in her life that are about HER. One has to be a whole person independent of anyone else before one can really be a proper love partner for another person. It does not sound like she is there yet. I don't mean to sound derogatory in the slightest, because I myself was at one time hampered pretty bad by "needing" someone so much. I was full-on in love with a girl who really put me through the emotional wringer. You just gotta pick yourself up and keep going on with your day-to-day living. It's important to keep momentum -- keep buying groceries, cooking meals, reading books, playing games, paying bills. Above all, try hardest to NOT allow yourself to sleep the day away pining for him in bed.

I'm sorry you're in emotional pain, hon. This is part of the armoring of the heart that pretty much everyone has to do in their life to some extent. Good luck.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey
-Jeffrey
"With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

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