jumper03 0 #51 June 9, 2005 QuoteBottom line: we're all shitheads. on this we agree. Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #52 June 9, 2005 QuoteGirl, you ain't lyin'. A buddy of mine never broke up until he had Ms. Next-in-line ready. He's NEVER been alone. Sad, really... Shit! Thats terrible.Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #53 June 9, 2005 Yeah, my ex was like that, too. He dumped me AFTER he met the woman I refer to as "the other Kelly". Couldn't sac up and do it until he had his next piece of ass waiting in the wings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #54 June 9, 2005 I recommend communial ass kickings of all people of this nature. Male or female.Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #55 June 9, 2005 QuoteQuoteGirl, you ain't lyin'. A buddy of mine never broke up until he had Ms. Next-in-line ready. He's NEVER been alone. Sad, really... Shit! Thats terrible. That is terrible... not only is that guy doing the girl a disservice but he is shooting himself in his own foot. People need time to be alone and learn to live by themselves... If they can't or don't do that, they can never truly give of themselves or appreciate the relationships they do have. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #56 June 9, 2005 QuoteCouldn't sac up and do it until he had his next piece of ass waiting in the wings. Could it be that sometimes one leaves a man/woman FOR another man/woman? What do I know anyway... "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #57 June 9, 2005 Quote Girl, you ain't lyin'. A buddy of mine never broke up until he had Ms. Next-in-line ready. He's NEVER been alone. Sad, really... Sad part is that him being unavailable and taken makes him more attractive to the next woman. Definitive proof women always want what they can't haveStupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #58 June 9, 2005 Could be . . . but we were having insane amounts of problems. Eh, they broke up a month later anyway. Sucker! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chrissay 0 #59 June 9, 2005 Quote Girl, you ain't lyin'. A buddy of mine never broke up until he had Ms. Next-in-line ready. He's NEVER been alone. Sad, really... I know many girls like this also...can't be alone. Definately sad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #60 June 9, 2005 Quote Sad part is that him being unavailable and taken makes him more attractive to the next woman. So to solve this problem, we all need to walk around and act like we've got someone and that will make us more attractive to the opposite sex... Yeah, I'm going to tell everyone I have a "boyfriend" at home, maybe that'll bring em all to me... Or does this theory only apply to women? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #61 June 9, 2005 Don't know what works for women, but borrowing friends' babies or puppies and strolling around at the beach is a sure winner for men. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #62 June 9, 2005 QuoteDon't know what works for women, but borrowing friends' babies or puppies and strolling around at the beach is a sure winner for men. You wanna watch yourself there, thats how MJ got started...Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #63 June 9, 2005 QuoteDon't know what works for women, but borrowing friends' babies or puppies and strolling around at the beach is a sure winner for men. Puppies maybe... babies a big definite NO... Large sums of cash thrown at me as we are strolling around the beach... okay then we are talkin' Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Douva 0 #64 June 9, 2005 QuoteDating a skydiver was not a great idea, so no, I think you guys know what my vote is...like it was said on a previous post, you don't break up, you lose your turn Gives new meaning to "Don't shit where you eat," doesn't it?I don't have an M.D. or a law degree. I have bachelor's in kicking ass and taking names. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #65 June 9, 2005 QuoteQuoteDon't know what works for women, but borrowing friends' babies or puppies and strolling around at the beach is a sure winner for men. Puppies maybe... babies a big definite NO... Large sums of cash thrown at me as we are strolling around the beach... okay then we are talkin' babies dont work the way they do for men. Mebby cuz the majority of the male population attaches some type of sygma to single moms. ( not me of course )Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #66 June 9, 2005 QuoteSo to solve this problem, we all need to walk around and act like we've got someone and that will make us more attractive to the opposite sex... Yeah, I'm going to tell everyone I have a "boyfriend" at home, maybe that'll bring em all to me... Or does this theory only apply to women? It works both ways. Of course no one believed me when I told them my girlfriend lived in "Canada." Someone needs to try a social experiment at the DZ one weekend: Go as a "couple" scope out the playa's and then "break up" and grab them on the "rebound." Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #67 June 9, 2005 Ok, I don't get the metaphorical meaning to this one. Why? Because you have to meet people somewhere. Get introduced by a mutual friend, and it doesn't work out? Could put a strain on the friendship. Meet at work, and it doesn't work out? Your work environment will feel the strain. DZ? Same thing. But beyond these types of places/interactions, what do we have? The grocery store or a bar? Thanks very much, but I'll stick with getting to know someone FIRST, then dating them, not the other way around. There are some psychos out there, AND I'm just more comfortable with people I know. The possibility of drama is a small price to pay for something that could be really good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #68 June 9, 2005 QuoteBut beyond these types of places/interactions, what do we have? The grocery store or a bar? Bingo halls are also a viable option. Locals tend to be less inclined to drama. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #69 June 9, 2005 QuoteQuoteCouldn't sac up and do it until he had his next piece of ass waiting in the wings. Could it be that sometimes one leaves a man/woman FOR another man/woman? What do I know anyway...Which is also very wrong. It's all the same thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #70 June 9, 2005 QuoteWhich is also very wrong. It's all the same thing. The alternative would be to stay with the person, even though the feelings are gone? Even though you spend your time thinking about someone else's? That seems more bigger wrongger to me. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #71 June 9, 2005 QuoteThe alternative would be to stay with the person, even though the feelings are gone? Even though you spend your time thinking about someone else's? That seems more bigger wrongger to me. BINGO! I think we have a winner! Did you learn this in the bingo hall Frenchy? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #72 June 9, 2005 Let me clarify, because I see your point: But in our case, we'd been having problems for a LONG TIME, but I think he purposely strung me along until he found someone else. Is that more clear? He wouldn't let go of the one unstable branch until he had another one to grab onto. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #73 June 9, 2005 Quotethe one unstable branch Maybe this should be your nickname from now on? Good point though.Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #74 June 9, 2005 Quotebut I think he purposely strung me along until he found someone else. I will NEVER understand people who do that. It just seems like a BIG waste of time. Do they really plan on just staying in a situation they don't really want to be in FOREVER if they don't find someone else? I also never understood needing to have someone (but, I also rarely dated in high school or college. It seemed like a waste of time back then.)There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #75 June 9, 2005 QuoteLet me clarify, because I see your point: But in our case, we'd been having problems for a LONG TIME, but I think he purposely strung me along until he found someone else. Is that more clear? He wouldn't let go of the one unstable branch until he had another one to grab onto. And in your case, you are totally right to be bitter at him. What he did was low. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
