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[antifnsocial 0]

Am I weird or is it just a little bit easier to bounce back after a break-up as I get older? Does anyone else notice that? I used to pine and cry and drink and rage. It would take weeks to lift the cloud. Now I notice myself within a few days humming and not thinking about it at all. Wth is with that? I mean, these are people I thought I'd be serious with too. Am I becoming cold? Or old?

Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean.

[VanillaSkyGirl 6]

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Am I weird or is it just a little bit easier to bounce back after a break-up as I get older? Does anyone else notice that?

I completely understand. It may just be that life's experiences have changed you and made you stronger.

[cocheese 0]

Sounds like you're getting smarter and better with age.
Knowing someone doesn't deserve your time anymore is an asset allowing you more time to be with someone who does deserve your love.

[bobsled92 0]

i FOUND THE HURT i'V EXPERIENCED IN THE PAST 12 YEARS..... i CAN'T POSSIBLY BE really HURT AGAIN. (bruised for a moment but, not injured)

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[JohnMitchell 16]

You mean you're single now and Frenchy's not in here?

Now that's weird.

Glad ya bounced back quick. Better luck next time.

[Girlfalldown 0]

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Am I weird or is it just a little bit easier to bounce back after a break-up as I get older? Does anyone else notice that? I used to pine and cry and drink and rage. It would take weeks to lift the cloud. Now I notice myself within a few days humming and not thinking about it at all. Wth is with that? I mean, these are people I thought I'd be serious with too. Am I becoming cold? Or old?

I'm not really sure. I just break it off with a guy within 1-2 weeks so as to avoid any chance of heartbreak on my part. I can teach you my technique if you like. I like to call it the "Get the fuck away from me" technique.

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(Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.)

[Frenchy68 0]

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You mean you're single now and Frenchy's not in here?

Now that's weird.

Glad ya bounced back quick. Better luck next time.

Nice try!



Ella, maybe it has to do with the fact that maybe you're not that attached to him/them in the first place?

"For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return."

[swedishcelt 0]

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Am I weird or is it just a little bit easier to bounce back after a break-up as I get older? Does anyone else notice that? I used to pine and cry and drink and rage. It would take weeks to lift the cloud. Now I notice myself within a few days humming and not thinking about it at all. Wth is with that? I mean, these are people I thought I'd be serious with too. Am I becoming cold? Or old?

Neither, you're just getting stronger. It's a good thing. Remember Ella, you're a woman.
You have power. There is an unlimited number of handsome and fascinating men probably
already waiting to step in and take his place. Start getting to know one, have fun and just learn from the last. The new one will help you forget about the one that hurt you. If he let you go then it's definitely his loss. From experience, it's easier than you think.