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Most courageous act of willpower

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Drunken talking a couple weeks ago with a buddy of mine at the bars, as we exchanged our war stories and what not, he asks the question

"What's the most courageous thing that you've ever done. That required the most willpower and restraint."

I had no response at the time though now thinking back on my life and things I've done, I called him back with my answer "Willingly watching and letting someone you love leave because it had to be."

To me, that was the hardest and most courageous act of willpower I've ever displayed.

Anyway, if you care to share, go for it, should be an interesting topic
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I live next door to a woman i was sort of engaged to marry. Her/our dog still comes over to visit. I love this yellow lab that i helped raise.
The new husband over there doesn't like me to even pet the dog, let alone take Maddy for a boat ride. This has been going on for 8 years. Just a little will power to not get mad about this.
She is fine but everyone i know, can't stand this guy.
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Most courageous act of willpower

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I don't know if it qualifies as 'will power' or not...

But the most Courageous thing I've EVER seen was:

6 years ago in Russia when we were getting ready to drive off from the orphanage with our new sons...
the youngest, who was 6 at the time stood for a moment looking at the building that had been his home for the past 4 years...

To no one, under his breath he said to himself...
"I'll be okay"


Here's a kid leaving everything he's ever known, going off to who knows where, with some people he doesn't even know...that don't speak his language and wear funny clothes...

And this brave little guy is secure enough in himself to...Be Okay!

Nothing I've ever done or will ever do could hold a candle to that kind of courage!










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I think I have seen kids display more courage over the years than any adult I have ever met. Cute guys BTW.
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Letting my teens make mistakes and live with the consequences and not try to "fix" everything for them like I did when they were little. It's hard, but I know they'll be better off in the long run when they become adults.
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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I Climbed 2000' up 60 degree rocky slope with multiple shear sections on my hands and knees because I injured both of my ankles and both of my feet. It took 8 and a half hours to complete the climb
I got to know my self pretty well that day
Oh yea, I Also quit drinking using and smoking

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I don't know if it qualifies as 'will power' or not...
But the most Courageous thing I've EVER seen was:6 years ago in Russia when we were getting ready to drive off from the orphanage with our new sons...
the youngest, who was 6 at the time stood for a moment looking at the building that had been his home for the past 4 years...
To no one, under his breath he said to himself..."I'll be okay"
Here's a kid leaving everything he's ever known, going off to who knows where, with some people he doesn't even know...that don't speak his language and wear funny clothes...
And this brave little guy is secure enough in himself to...Be Okay!
Nothing I've ever done or will ever do could hold a candle to that kind of courage!



that's fucking cool.

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Letting my teens make mistakes and live with the consequences and not try to "fix" everything for them like I did when they were little. It's hard, but I know they'll be better off in the long run when they become adults.



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Learning that it's generally better not to engage angry people.

Consistently doing that.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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I don't know if it qualifies as 'will power' or not...
But the most Courageous thing I've EVER seen was: 6 years ago in Russia when we were getting ready to drive off from the orphanage with our new sons...
the youngest, who was 6 at the time stood for a moment looking at the building that had been his home for the past 4 years...
To no one, under his breath he said to himself..."I'll be okay"
Here's a kid leaving everything he's ever known, going off to who knows where, with some people he doesn't even know...that don't speak his language and wear funny clothes...
And this brave little guy is secure enough in himself to...Be Okay!
Nothing I've ever done or will ever do could hold a candle to that kind of courage!



that's fucking cool.





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It really was...!:)
It made me think back to how sacred I was just going off to college...as an adult! (semi-adult anyway)

Another thing that was REALLY cool...
As you can see form the Pic, the clothing the kids have there is old and donated stuff from everywhere...

On the first day we 'met' the kids...the oldest boy was wearing an old tee shirt from the 1980 Nationals...
I was there and have the same shirt!

I thought...Just meant to be!B|










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On the first day we 'met' the kids...the oldest boy was wearing an old tee shirt from the 1980 Nationals...
I was there and have the same shirt!

I thought...Just meant to be!



Ok how cool is that!!!!! You rock man...that is awesome.
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