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Is being nice really worth it??



Nope, those people who choose to betray my friendship, or who are continual selfish assholes are removed from my life....:|

And honestly...Life is much better that way :)
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What do you do?? Personally, I am tired of trying to be nice to people when I always seem to get the short end of the stick.

Is being nice really worth it?? :|



Key note: If the friend continually acts like a jerk to you, they are not your friend.
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What do you do?? Personally, I am tired of trying to be nice to people when I always seem to get the short end of the stick.

Is being nice really worth it?? :|



I wonder what the long end of the stick would feel like, would that be better than the short end? I personally wouldn't want either end of the stick.:|


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Is being nice really worth it??



Nope, those people who choose to betray my friendship, or who are continual selfish assholes are removed from my life....:|

And honestly...Life is much better that way :)



I hear your point. If I feel betrayed, there is definitely a point where I will stop associating with that person.

Life is very short...I guess there really is not need to dwell on the selfish ones that make it difficult.
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Quit being friends with idiots. I did that a long time ago. ;)



But youre "married" to me!?


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What do you do?? Personally, I am tired of trying to be nice to people when I always seem to get the short end of the stick.

Is being nice really worth it?? :|



I wonder what the long end of the stick would feel like, would that be better than the short end? I personally wouldn't want either end of the stick.:|



I like longer sticks...er...uh. I mean why not take the stick and beat them with it? >:(
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What do you do?? Personally, I am tired of trying to be nice to people when I always seem to get the short end of the stick.

Is being nice really worth it?? :|



Key note: If the friend continually acts like a jerk to you, they are not your friend.



I guess that is true...I just seem to want to have a blind faith in the fact that people can change. Which I am starting to question because I guess most don't like or want to change.
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Some people just don't have the mechanism to be friends... they have this problem that when people start getting too close, they lash out or become very distant and then they come back only on their terms.

After awhile, it gets old especially when they come back, they make you feel like you are the one with the problem.

You try being patient, you try biting your tongue, you try to let it go, but after awhile of it happening over and over again, it begins to eat away at you.

There's too much happiness and goodness in this life to enjoy to be bogged down by these people. Go and enjoy and spend your time with those people and don't worry about the ones that are asses. :)


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Life is very short- that works both ways. You don't need too many negative influences in your life, nor should you give up on a friendship over something small. Look at the big picture and forgive and/or apologize as needed. Some people aren't worth it, others are and only you can make that decision.

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Some people just don't have the mechanism to be friends... they have this problem that when people start getting too close, they lash out or become very distant and then they come back only on their terms.

After awhile, it gets old especially when they come back, they make you feel like you are the one with the problem.

You try being patient, you try biting your tongue, you try to let it go, but after awhile of it happening over and over again, it begins to eat away at you.

There's too much happiness and goodness in this life to enjoy to be bogged down by these people. Go and enjoy and spend your time with those people and don't worry about the ones that are asses. :)



Ahhh, but what do you do if they are in the same group that you associate with?? When I get pissed off, I tend to do the whole ignoring thing, because talking about it will just set me fuming. >:(

And as you know...No drama is good drama!!
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Quit being friends with idiots. I did that a long time ago. ;)



I did too.. but man I'm lonely :|:(



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I just seem to want to have a blind faith in the fact that people can change. Which I am starting to question because I guess most don't like or want to change.





I always give people JUST enough rope to hang themselves with. They screw me ONCE and they are done. I don't think people CAN change so I don't bother letting them bullshit me. ;)

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Quit being friends with idiots. I did that a long time ago. ;)



I did too.. but man I'm lonely :|:(



Damn did that mean you stopped talking to yourself too :o That must really be rough....









;) you know im just yankin your chain slappie :P
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Ya I talk to myself all the time.. but for some reason I quit answering. So now I just sit here on dz.com and post meaningless posts and retarded shit to entertain myself. Much happier now.



"Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them."

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Ya I talk to myself all the time.. but for some reason I quit answering. So now I just sit here on dz.com and post meaningless posts and retarded shit to entertain myself. Much happier now.



Good good...glad to see you found a way to deal with that :ph34r:
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
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