Do you carry hatred in your heart?

[kelel01 1]

With all these revenge threads, I wonder - how many of you carry hatred in your hearts for someone? It could be a specific person, a race of people, a group of people, etc. If you do, does it hurt?

My answers: I do, and yes. Pure, bitter hatred is hard to let go of, but it's certainly no fun for me. Just thinking about it makes me irate. And mine is only directed at 2 people. I couldn't imagine hating an entire race or group of people. I don't think I'd ever leave my house.

[Icon134 0]

There have been people I disliked on occasion... but I don't "Hate" anyone.

Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

[divnswoop 0]

No........skydivers don't hold hatred or grudges.......

[AlexCrowley 0]

yes, pretty much everyone. Especially in the Bonfire.

TV's got them images, TV's got them all, nothing's shocking.

[SkydiveStMarys 0]

Yes, there is one person. I am sure time will make the hatred simmer down. I am not actively working on that right now, I will let time, if that is the case, heal my wounds.


Bobbi

A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

[jmpnkramer 0]

There is only one person I truly dislike!

And no it is not you Silly Girl! 3


Those close to me know who it is. Not A Skydiver.

Well Maybe two.

From experience though bad things happen to those who do ill will to others in time.

I am not talking about the goofy shit on here either.

I am talking about things that ruin careers, or cause other actual life hardships.



NOW GO GET ME SOME WATER WINCH! Otherwise No TIP for YOU!











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The REAL KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER!

"HESITATION CAUSES DEATH!!!"
"Be Slow to Fall into Friendship; but when Thou Art in, Continue Firm & Constant." - SOCRATES

[Amazon 7]

No,


There is no point in hating others. It only hurts you and makes your life less joyfull. The very best revenge is living well and moving on with your life.

[AlexCrowley 0]

or killing them and eating their feet.

TV's got them images, TV's got them all, nothing's shocking.

[kelel01 1]

Believe me, I know. It's just hard. There have been 2 people in my life that have gone out of their way to make me miserable. They always had a way of maing me cry. If I get upset long enough, I eventually get REALLY MAD. I'm starting to get over it, but I was just wondering if I should seek counseling, or if this was semi-normal.

And Kramer, I have no problem bringing you water and a soda if that is your desire . . . although I also don't get tips.

[micro 0]

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With all these revenge threads, I wonder - how many of you carry hatred in your hearts for someone? It could be a specific person, a race of people, a group of people, etc. If you do, does it hurt?

My answers: I do, and yes. Pure, bitter hatred is hard to let go of, but it's certainly no fun for me. Just thinking about it makes me irate. And mine is only directed at 2 people. I couldn't imagine hating an entire race or group of people. I don't think I'd ever leave my house.

Yep, I sure do... I try not to, but the wounds run deep... somedays are better than others and I can actually feel some "love" towards this person, but on other days, I just want to . Of course, I'd never harm him, but the thought is there.

I really struggle w/ the hate. My faith tells me to love those who hurt you, to not hate, to forgive. And sometimes I really try to follow that... but man, when I'm reminded of the shit he did, man...

I need healing in this area, for sure.

I miss Lee.
And JP.
And Chris. And...

[jmpnkramer 0]

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a soda if that is your desire . . . although I also don't get tips.

I very rarely drink soda. Don't like carbonated drinkies!

No Tips! Fuck That!

I thought everything was a community jar these days.




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The REAL KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER!

"HESITATION CAUSES DEATH!!!"
"Be Slow to Fall into Friendship; but when Thou Art in, Continue Firm & Constant." - SOCRATES

[skycat 0]

I only hate one person and he has desered it in spades. Other than that there are people who annoy me and people I really don't like, but I don't hate them, because people change and how I would know they changed if I hated them and refuse to see the new them.

Fly it like you stole it!

[kelel01 1]

No, we get a higher hourly wage than most other restaurants' hostesses, and no tip-outs. It's a trade-off.

[eeneR 3]

At times have had a strong dislike for people who have hurt me. Maybe in the beginning there was a level of hatred, but that faded long away with time.

However those people who directly hurt me, or are manipulative. Those people will always be put to the list of people who have no purpose in my life. There is one person on this list right now, and I pretty much think they will never come off that list. This really harms me in no way, I just dont have and will never have any friend type interaction with them other then Hi and bye maybe, but they will never ever become my friend. Takes alot to get there, takes a lot to get out of there.

Otherwise, I take people with a grain of salt, decide where they belong in the grand scheme of things in my life, and decide if I feel they are someone I want around or not. If not, then just dont deal with them, and move along.

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto

[cocheese 0]

Not in my heart, but in my fist. I really do hate corruption and those who try to screw everyone.
I also hate inconsiderate/
unsafe/fuckwad drivers on the road. Would like to pull them out of the car and bang their heads againt the car and say "Does that feel good ? You like the taste of bumper or glass better ?"
Other than that, i'm a lover not a fighter.

[PLFXpert 0]

I hate clowns

I do really dislike clowns, but no hatred for anyone/thing I can think of. There have been people who have wronged me, and I was really hurt/upset/confused, but never bore a hatred for them. You just have to learn that some things, some people, you're just not going to understand and you can't change the past, but learn from it/grow from it.

I "cut away" those people/things from my life.

Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

[gmittar 0]

No hatred here, but some very intense displeasure when I have to encounter certain people. I don't with them harm or anything, I just want nothing to do with them.

|>.<|
Seriously, W.T.F. mate?

[yardhippie 0]

I used to carry a lot of that stuff around. But Im a forgive and forget person now.
I kinda picked it up from my old boss. I screwed up pretty big one day. nearly cost a bunch of $$.
His comment after he chewed my as was
"and tommorow is another day."

I liked that philosophy. So as im trying to wake up in the mornings (provided Im not hungover and the previous day still with me). I just assume its gonna be a great day, b/c at that time I dont know what the day will bring.

Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD
"What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me
"Anything you want." ~ female skydiver
Mohoso Rodriguez #865

[TheAnvil 0]

I hate the sonofabitch that stole my luggage when I was in Africa. Do you have any clue how hard it is for a short man to shop over there? Just another way of society keeping the short man down.

Vinny the Anvil
Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL
JACKASS POWER!!!!!!

[jmpnkramer 0]

You're such a fool Midget Man.

Did that really happen or are you thread killing?

Don't forget to call. I have a stressing Amazon around me!




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The REAL KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER!

"HESITATION CAUSES DEATH!!!"
"Be Slow to Fall into Friendship; but when Thou Art in, Continue Firm & Constant." - SOCRATES

[Girlfalldown 0]

In order to truly hate you must first truly love. Then you can hate that motherfucker all you want.

This has nothing to do with anything.

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(Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.)

[NWFlyer 2]

Nope. I find that carrying around hatred hurts the hater much more than the "hatee." I don't necessarily forgive people for hurting me, but I let it go. At some point, it becomes less about what the person did to me and more about how I react to it. I choose not to bother with hatred... I find it unhealthy and debilitating for the most part.

The older I get, the more I realize that there are very few people in my life who are worth a lot of energy, either positive or negative.

That said, I think I am truly lucky (or maybe I've just made good/lucky choices about the people I let into my life) that no one in my life has ever done something so truly, horribly, unforgivable and hurtful to me that I couldn't let it go. I think there are things in this world that could qualify, but I haven't experienced them yet.

"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

[pincheck 0]

Not anymore , as you get older perhaps you realise life is just to short to spend that much energy on useless shit like that.

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[lisamariewillbe 1]

dont call her a amazon....just cause your short

Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

[wildblue 7]

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yes, pretty much everyone. Especially in the Bonfire.

Same here. I am starting to hate you a little less though (just a little) because of our common contempt for the general population.

it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality