Frankfallsdown 0 #1 December 30, 2005 Random question. Just thought I'd feel a little better () if I got the "publics" feeling on this. Okay, wife and I have been thinking about her sleeping with another man whilst I watch (my idea not hers). She agrees....and I think it would be awesome....most times. Everyonce in a while, I get my doubts, but all in all nothing but good thoughts! Anyway....anyone out the willing to admit they like this idea too? PMs would be great if not willing to post out in "public". Anyone tried it and had good/bad results? Thanks....this should be interesting. Edit to add: Gender of said person Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shellybellyfly 0 #2 December 30, 2005 Someone else... as in another guy or a girl? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shellybellyfly 0 #3 December 30, 2005 Well I personally wouldn't want my guy to have sex with another girl... But I guess I was thinking that you were gonna watch your wife with another chick. But if you both want to do it, go for it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frankfallsdown 0 #4 December 30, 2005 Yeah, she said pretty much the same thing: "I wouldn't want you to do it (with another woman).....but hey if thats what you want." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shellybellyfly 0 #5 December 30, 2005 Yeah, I would get jealous watching my guy do that with another chick! But as long as it's your idea.... have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frankfallsdown 0 #6 December 30, 2005 Yeah, if it'd been her idea..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 4 #7 December 30, 2005 This is a nice idea as a fantasy and a really bad idea in practice. The kind of bond between two people that causes them to marry each other is like spider silk--strong as steel, fragile as gossamer. A relationship between two people requires a certain balance, and if you fuck with it, you're going to pay the price. Instead of asking a bunch of skydivers a question this important, why don't you take the time to research the implications and consequences of three-ways. The short version is that they are a bar to intimacy, and the damage you will do to your relationship is incalulable and can't be undone. Please take a little more time to think this through. There are a lot of other ways to put some spark in your sex life. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #8 December 30, 2005 Without going into detail, all I can say is don't do it if you really want your relationship to survive. I've seen the aftermath and it's not pretty. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindercles 0 #9 December 30, 2005 I completely agree with rl and walt. However, if you do decide to go through with it, just remember that if it's not on video (and posted on dz.com) it didn't happen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ne146t9 0 #10 December 30, 2005 Seeing someone else pleasure your wife... I think I would be worried if she agreed to it, even if it was your idea... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Superman32 0 #11 December 30, 2005 I couldn't even imagine some sweaty dude even seeing my girl naked, much less doing her. If it were some hot chick instead, that would be a different story. P.S. I'm not married, if I were, it seems that going into that type of shenenigans in a marriage would likely to lead to divorce court. Hey dude, that's just not my bag, but if it's yours and your wife's go for it. Inveniam Viam aut Faciam I'm back biatches! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #12 December 30, 2005 It may sound like a good idea, it may make a great fantasy, but in reality?? Give it ALOT of consideration, not just the sexual aspects but also the repercussions this will most likely have on your relationship. The consequences could be disasterous...The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 4 #13 December 30, 2005 QuoteSeeing someone else pleasure your wife... I think I would be worried if she agreed to it, even if it was your idea... Women generally agree to such things to please the man who suggested them, and for no other reason. One of the problems is that it invariably gets turned around, "You wanted it, you enjoyed it." There are very few women who will come up with the idea on their own. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frankfallsdown 0 #14 December 30, 2005 Yeah, not so much concerned that she's okay with it. She is very open to things....as am I. It'd be pretty dumb of me to suggest something...and then get all pissy about her agreeing to it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #15 December 30, 2005 As a divorce lawyer, I'm all for your idea! My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gmcenroe 0 #16 December 30, 2005 I agree with RL and walt as well. Once you go down this road, you've opened the pandoras box. There's no turning back. In general when this suggestion comes up it could mean one partner wants out, this is putting the foot in the door. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #17 December 30, 2005 Try Ebay."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pincheck 0 #18 December 30, 2005 agreed with Rhonda bad move mate Billy-Sonic Haggis Flickr-Fun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ncrowe 0 #19 December 30, 2005 Ummmg Get Video? "Don't Mess Around With the Guy in Shades- Oh No!!! " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
morningdove831 0 #20 December 30, 2005 I must agree with RL and Walt as well. It sounds really hot at first, but after it's over there will usually be emotional consequences. Think about the long term consequences and chances are you'll find they outweigh the few minutes of fun. One who looks for a friend without faults will have none. -- Hasidic Saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
squink 0 #21 December 30, 2005 I wouldn't do it if I were you, the aftermath will NOT be pretty! ...the door was open SKYDIVERGIRLS.COM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #22 December 30, 2005 Regardless of how openminded you think the two of you are, there will come a time when one of you upsets the other. It may be something trivial, or something more intrinsic, but it will happen. In that instance, all of the things that give you even the slightest bit of pause will leap to the foreground as being the root of all that is wrong with your relationship. Do you really want that to be the memory of another man pleasing your wife? Doubt being what it is, one or both of you may wonder at differences between having sex with each other and sex with an outsider to your relationship. It will become a wedge. "Did she enjoy HIM more than ME?" "How long before he asks me to let him try it with another woman?" Don't kid yourself, human nature, while not entirely predictable, does have certain patterns that aren't hard to follow.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
