Divorce - -

[Dumpster 0]

DIVORCE SUCKS!!

Thanks for listening. - Just had to get that out of my system.

Easy Does It

[mx757 4]

DIVORCE ~ The screwing you get for the screwing you got.

[lisamariewillbe 1]

DIVORCE - The gift that keeps on giving ....... and by gift I mean grief

Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

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To quote Danny Devito in War of the Roses,

"[In divorce] There is no winning, only degrees of losing!"

Sorry man. I really am.

I miss Lee.
And JP.
And Chris. And...

[Orchid 0]

Depends on how you look at it.........first marriage is a practice/trial run. If one doesn't learn from the mistakes the first time........one will never learn.

Some considers it a failure......others considers it as fine tunning!

"Love is doing small things with great love."

Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492

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Depends on how you look at it.........first marriage is a practice/trial run. If one doesn't learn from the mistakes the first time........one will never learn.

Some considers it a failure......others considers it as fine tunning!

That's a pretty drastic/callous...a "practice/trial run" (sic)? esp. when there are lives/feelings/emotions/kids/lots-o-money involved.

I miss Lee.
And JP.
And Chris. And...

[drae 0]

Yes it does. No matter what the circumstances. Even the ones that have been inevitable for years. The problem with my own is the "stuff". The dissolution of the marriage is over, that was the easy part. Now there is so much "stuff" to divide and separate. An "amicable" divorce...sure...as long as one doesn't begin living a new life!

[Orchid 0]

when there are lives/feelings/emotions/kids/lots-o-money involved.

[Dumpster 0]

Divorce sucks weather you want it or not.

Money/property issues are the easy part -
Fortuantely kids aren't in the picture this time around. (My first marriage, however, was a different story-)

Yes, lessons are learned. I've learned alot about myself, and about her, both negatives and positves on both sides. I have certainly learned alot about myself and who I really am, (finally-).

You are right that both need to be willing to work to make it last. Unfortunately that's not the case this time around.

I started the thread just before I went to bed. I wanted to scream that out loud outdoors, but figured more folks would listen here. Skydivers are suck cool people!

Easy Does It

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Some considers it a failure......others considers it as fine tunning!

I oughta be extremely well-tuned now!

Easy Does It

[ladyskydiver 0]

Hugs, Lenny!

Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile.

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Some considers it a failure......others considers it as fine tunning!

I oughta be extremely well-tuned now!

Me too, but don't give up hope. It does get better, I promise. Just agree that you've been fine tuning yourself for the future.
One of my favorite jokes:

Why is divorce so expensive?










Because it's worth it!

[masterrig 1]

I can 'feel' for you! Having been through 2, myself. The first one was just plain ugly. Hell, I didn't know she was nuts till after the wedding! The 2nd. one went rather well. Hell, we both used the same attorney!
I have found though, third time, IS a charm.
Good luck to ya', man.


Chuck

[SkyDekker 1,465]

yes it does suck.... going through the first one right now...