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When Do YOU say, "I Love You?"

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ohhh yea like drugging the kids is better then "securing" their mouths [:/]



Well YEAH - DUH!

In court it is SOOOO much easier to say that they had a cold andf you thought you were doing the right thing. Duct tape leaves marks . . .

OK - if you are hell bent on tape - at least use gaffers tape - it doesn't leave BAD marks.

Well - if you use it as a whip - and then as a gag - but there is a whole different story there.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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...I HATE having to manipulate women into seeing things my way. They should just KNOW what to do, and if not, then ASK. And they claim men won't ask for directions...

Cheers,
Jon S.



NOt ask - but give . . . We give directions - like - A little to the left - Faster - no - slower - yeah - thats it -
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About the only directions I've been receiving have been such warm gems as "no thanks" or "I'm tired," etc. In fact, over the years I've learned that if I approach my wife in a husbandly manner and she says "I love you" it means "no." When I hit the jackpot and she is willing to spend some time together "I.L.Y." is not part of the equation. There's probably a reason, but I can't figure it out and, besides, I'm distracted for the next couple of minutes anyway...

Of course I was only kidding when I made that comment about swallowing. However, I ASSume that would be my reaction if I were ever to end up in that position.

Perhaps one reason life has been so dry is because I was never in the habit of saying "I love you," etc. unless I really meant it. There were a few times it would have been very well received (wink wink, nudge nudge) but I didn't want to deal with the subsequent "discussion" when she realized I wasn't being completely honest.

Once again, none for the nice guy. But in a few million years the sun will blow up and it won't matter anyway.

Cheers,
Jon

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About the only directions I've been receiving have been such warm gems as "no thanks" or "I'm tired," etc.



So "Get the fuck away from me you evil bastard!" isn't a general response . . . Should I be worried?
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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What -

is this one of those - "You shoud already know the answer to that question - YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE"

kind of ":|'s"?
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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What -

is this one of those - "You shoud already know the answer to that question - YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE"

kind of ":|'s"?



Who peed in your breakfest cereal? Are you a mind reader? Wait, your girl thinks you are a mind reader, I get it now lol
Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

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Then again, anyone who would hang out with me, I suppose, should be viewed with suspicion!



Or vice versa. Birds of a feather... ;)



Tru-Dat

Tru-dat
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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My last husband said I "love you" quite a bit. At times I believed him...'til he went out with yet ANOTHER woman to screw (long, ugly story).

And then there was the, "You know I love you, right?" Put [B]THAT way, I'd usually cringe because it usually meant he wanted something or wanted me to DO something I didn't want to do. And no, it wasn't sex. I'd have been thrilled if he had wanted that.

I guess the point I am trying to make here is that there are different types of love. He loved me, in his own way, but obviously not in the way I needed or wanted to be loved.

When you say, "I love you," for God's sake..mean it. Don't make them idle words said just to humor them. If you don't mean it, don't say it.

When I say "I love you," I mean it with my whole heart. It means that I would do anything within reason and legality to make him (meaning my current S.O.) happy....and I'm a pretty open minded woman. When HE (meaning my current S.O.) says "I love you," I know I can take that to the bank. I believe it means that he would do exactly the same for me.
Nina

Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz)
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Then again, anyone who would hang out with me, I suppose, should be viewed with suspicion!

And what is this saying about me and MY choice of friends? ;)
Nina

Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz)
Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance

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Then again, anyone who would hang out with me, I suppose, should be viewed with suspicion!

And what is this saying about me and MY choice of friends? ;)



You hanging out with me here and on the phone is proof positive that you have questionable taste in friends.

Hanging out with me in person will mean it's no longer questionable at all!!!:D

Walt

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Ahhh...the day will come.

Mike already says I'm weird because I'm HIS girlfriend. I don't figure having weird friends can hurt at all now. ;)
Nina

Are we called "DAWGs" because we stick our noses up people's butts? (RIP Buzz)
Yep, you're a postwhore-billyvance

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