Girls, how much prior sexual experience do you want your SO to have?

[SkydiveStMarys 0]

Well? I figured if Walt can post one for the guys...here's one for us ladies...maybe it will help the guys get laid!! Hehehehehehehehhee

Bobbi

A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

[warpedskydiver 0]

what about us man sluts?

[waltappel 1]

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what about us man sluts?

Here's one for you right here!

Walt

[NWFlyer 2]

It's not the quantity but the quality of his former lovers that I care about.

If he's only been with women who put up with a him-first attitude or who faked it all the time, well, then, I doubt his experience counts for much.

However, if his past relationships were sexually healthy ones with a good amount of give and take and mutual learning, well, then, he can come into a relationship with me with the right attitude.

"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

[SkydiveStMarys 0]

"It's not the quantity but the quality of his former lovers that I care about"

No skank lovers allowed!! Eeeeew! I totally agree,

Also for me, I ask all kinds of questions about past lovers to my SO. Its very important to me what he wants from a relationship and what he didn't get from past relationships. If the past lover did something that I never thought of doing, and he liked it...I'm willing to give it ago....if he mentions something that really bothered him about her, I file it away and try to remember to stay clear of that particular subject or situation.


Bobbi

A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

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No skank lovers allowed!! Eeeeew!

Well, there's that part, too...

[RhondaLea 4]

You forgot: "I don't care what he did before he met me, as long as he's a good guy now."

rl

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

[Flygurl 0]

I want a man that can take instruction, but doesn't need it.

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"One out of every four American's are suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If they're okay, then it's you."

[jumper03 0]

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I want a man that can take instruction, but doesn't need it.

hmmmmm

Scars remind us that the past is real

[SkydiveStMarys 0]

Hes got to be a "good guy" for me to even take the time to get to know him, BEFORE, I jump into bed with him.

All of my past/present relationships started out as purely "friends". I wouldn't have it any other way...and most of my friends are "good guys", I don't have the time or energy to hang out with anything less.

Bobbi

A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

[Michele 1]

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I want a man that can take instruction, but doesn't need it.

Brilliantly said. Me too!! And one that is willing to talk about his fantasies and hear about mine...and maybe experiment and explore a bit; 'cause who knows what gets discovered that way?

Ciels-
Michele

~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek
While our hearts lie bleeding?~

[warpedskydiver 0]

what about good guys who can be real perverts when requested?

[Flygurl 0]

mmmm.

fantasies are meant to be explored.


where to start, where to start.

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"One out of every four American's are suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If they're okay, then it's you."

[warpedskydiver 0]

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mmmm.

fantasies are meant to be explored.


where to start, where to start.

WOOHOO!

I suggest starting at trailer slot # 6 @SDC

[Flygurl 0]

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I suggest starting at trailer slot # 6 @SDC

Careful now. I'll be out there next month.

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"One out of every four American's are suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If they're okay, then it's you."

[warpedskydiver 0]

hmmmmmmm really now?....hehehe

[selbbub78 0]

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I want a man that can take instruction, but doesn't need it.

Brilliantly said. Me too!! And one that is willing to talk about his fantasies and hear about mine...and maybe experiment and explore a bit; 'cause who knows what gets discovered that way?

Ciels-
Michele

ABSOLUTLY 100%! I'm with you on this one!!!! Definitely the best way to go!

CReW Skies,

"Women fake orgasms - men fake whole relationships" – Sharon Stone
"The world is my dropzone" (wise crewdog quote)
"The light dims, until full darkness pierces into the world."-KDM

[kbordson 8]

If I were looking, I would want him to have confidence in all areas (not just the bedroom), knowledge of what would make him and me happy, and understanding that he might get to learn a thing or two along the way.

But... that all being said, although it's not a deal breaker, I would perfer he not have experience with some of the "ill effects" of sexual relations. (as an OB/Gyn... I've seen some rather nasty things that I would rather not be exposed to)

Karen

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You forgot: "I don't care what he did before he met me, as long as he's a good guy now."

Precisely.

Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

[livendive 8]

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If I were looking, I would want him to have confidence in all areas (not just the bedroom), knowledge of what would make him and me happy, and understanding that he might get to learn a thing or two along the way.

But... that all being said, although it's not a deal breaker, I would perfer he not have experience with some of the "ill effects" of sexual relations. (as an OB/Gyn... I've seen some rather nasty things that I would rather not be exposed to)

Changing the "him/he"s to "her/she"s would make this an answer I could give in the other thread. OK, I'd have to delete the OB/Gyn part too. I don't envy you having to look at all the things that can go wrong. Then again I imagine your job gives you a perspective on those kinds of things that is quite a bit more realistic than most. I hadn't really thought of STDs when I was writing my answer in the other thread, but the two things do kind of go hand in hand. Given how common some of those things are (I've read that genital herpes affects 25% of women in the US, and HPV well over half), a fair amount of experience almost guarantees a person has been exposed to them, even if they haven't contracted them. I guess that does make the "pure" options a bit more attractive.

Blues,
Dave

"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!"
(drink Mountain Dew)

[caress 0]

I like men who know what the heck they are doing. I love to have them tell me what they have done and then maybe have it done to me and put a new twist on it. I believe that sexual openess is part of being honest with one another on a large level, If they can be open and honest on that level most of the time they will be honest on every level. My husband was scared to death to reveal some of his fantasies, but he did and we did some of them and mine too. I like to be commanded sexually and I like to be in charge too. It builds character and trust. Open up to your S/O it is the best thing in the world for the relationship.

I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being
right.