mcneill79 0 #26 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuoteIf you knew something that could potentially hurt someone (that is close to you) would you tell them??? Its OK Gia.. You can go ahead and tell your friend that you are secretly madly in lust with me and you want to have my Puppies!! I am sure she will forgive you!I bet she would want to watch Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #27 March 2, 2006 Ideally, honesty is what I'd want to be and to have from the people I'm close to. But in reality most of us aren't so emotionally sound that we can always take brutal honesty well or be honest in a way that is not hurtful in itself. So, in my mind...yeah honesty is good, but I'm not always totally honest, even when I'm trying to be, and I don't always want other people to be totally honest with me. There are things I don't want or need to know. linz-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GiaKrembs 0 #28 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteIf you knew something that could potentially hurt someone (that is close to you) would you tell them??? Its OK Gia.. You can go ahead and tell your friend that you are secretly madly in lust with me and you want to have my Puppies!! I am sure she will forgive you!I bet she would want to watch Okay, okay, it's outta the bag, I'm secretly in lust for you and I desperately want to have your puppies!!!! But only if she can watch!!! Please forgive me!!! g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #29 March 2, 2006 See dont you fell better now that is off your chest!! I feel certian that we can ALL work through this trying time together. I say we start with a Group Hug. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GiaKrembs 0 #30 March 2, 2006 QuoteI say we start with a Group Hug. Brilliant!!!! Better warn Slappie not to come in here... we may suffocate him with all this fluff. g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PsychoBob 0 #31 March 2, 2006 ***Glad I could help Bob. Like I said, a Little Gas-X goes a long way!! QuoteBWAAAHAAAAA!!!"I'm not a gynecologist but I will take a look at it" RB #1295, Smokey Sister #1, HellFish #658, Dirty Sanchez #194, Muff Brothers #3834, POPS #9614, Orfun Foster-Parent?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites leapdog 0 #32 March 2, 2006 Quote***Would you want your friends/loved ones to be honest with you knowing that it may hurt you??? QuoteAbsolutely! Just recently a very good friend of mine was up front and honest about a problem I was creating. It was not what I wanted to hear, but it was the truth and they were right. Her honesty made me re-evalute some things and I think it will make me a better person down the road. It also shows they are a real friend and will tell you the truth not matter how much it hurts. It's hard to find real friends so when you find one make sure you cherish them. I agree and I would also like to add that the expectations set forth by both persons in a relationship mean the difference between withholding info = lying or not. Personal characters that have moral courage have no problem with telling the truth in this matter because in the long run it helps and not hurts even if in the immediate it hurts. Gunnery Sergeant of Marines "I would like it if I were challenged mentally at my job and not feel like I'm mentally challenged." - Co-worker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ROK 0 #33 March 2, 2006 If someone asks, tell it the way it is. If you know something and they haven't asked, really examine your motive for sharing the information. If it's out of love, or because you care for someone, do it. Anything else, keep your mouth shut... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yamtx73 0 #34 March 2, 2006 QuoteEveryone professes that honesty is key to any relationship, whether it's a friend/lover/mom... etc. Question: If you knew something that could potentially hurt someone (that is close to you) would you tell them??? Would you be honest???? If you don't tell, does that make you a liar??? Would you want your friends/loved ones to be honest with you knowing that it may hurt you??? g It really depends on the situation, how damaging it is, knowing how they would handle it and how they would react if they found out later and learned that I had known but didn't tell them.....The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #35 March 2, 2006 QuoteThis souds like one of them situations with no solid answer, one of those ones where you have to make a good judgment call. Good Judgement comes from experiance - Experiance is what you wish you had just before you did what you did - Or Experiance is what you get right after you needed it the most.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #36 March 2, 2006 Quote I'd rather be dishonest than manipulative. rl To be dishonest is to manipulate the truth. Therefore it can be said that being dishonest is being manipulative. That being said some questions there is just no correct answer.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #37 March 2, 2006 Is this a set-up for us guys having to answer the age-old question: "Do these pants make my butt look big?" My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites GiaKrembs 0 #38 March 2, 2006 Quote"Do these pants make my butt look big?" 4 1/2 hours, and 37 post's later - FINALLY someone with a clue! g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #39 March 2, 2006 That is the question to which I was alluding that there is no real answerDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites CSpenceFLY 1 #40 March 2, 2006 QuoteIs this a set-up for us guys having to answer the age-old question: "Do these pants make my butt look big?" The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #41 March 2, 2006 Quote...The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. So, if Julie ever asks you that, call me first before you answer...I want to be there to see the action.... My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RhondaLea 4 #42 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuote I'd rather be dishonest than manipulative. rl To be dishonest is to manipulate the truth. Therefore it can be said that being dishonest is being manipulative. That being said some questions there is just no correct answer. There was a context for my statement, as follows: It depends. Is it something the other person really needs to know? Honesty for the sake of honesty alone is often manipulative. Some people can't wait to be "honest." They lie in wait for innocent people with whom to be "honest," usually to obtain a particular result. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #43 March 2, 2006 Does this bazooka make my arsenol look big?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #44 March 2, 2006 ok I am going to say that is the deepest part of this threadDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lawrocket 3 #45 March 2, 2006 There are some noble lies. For example, sometimes it's a lie when a doctor tells family members that a loved one "died peacefully and without pain." SHoudl the doctor say, "Your husband's death was probably excruciatingly painful - especially those last 3 or four minutes." Sometimes lies are for the benefit. Usually I don't want to lie to anybody - I hate lying and I am horrible at it. So I just keep my mouth shut. Usually I can avoid lying by asking the following question when I am asked something: "Do you think you are prepared to handle what I am about to tell you?" Usually, the person will decide against my answering. I see benefits of lies. Rarely, though. If a lie is to cover up a bad act, then I nearly always refuse. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Thanatos340 1 #46 March 2, 2006 QuoteI see benefits of lies Spoken like a True lawyer!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #47 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuoteI see benefits of lies Spoken like a True lawyer!! Damn, Jay beat me to it. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #48 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuote...The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. So, if Julie ever asks you that, call me first before you answer...I want to be there to see the action.... Another answer is . . . I can neither confirm nor deny the appearance of bigness in jeans.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites twibbles 0 #49 March 2, 2006 QuoteI answered thinking specifically of selfish moves that I made when I was younger (and I mean a LOT younger). How much younger can you be? Sorry, drunk post and couldn't resist. i'll have to apolagize now before i forget in the morning.. Eugene . "In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #50 March 2, 2006 Quote How much younger can you be? Yet another one fooled by my baby face. Thanks. I'll take that as a compliment. (And I was referring to my teenage years, btw). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
leapdog 0 #32 March 2, 2006 Quote***Would you want your friends/loved ones to be honest with you knowing that it may hurt you??? QuoteAbsolutely! Just recently a very good friend of mine was up front and honest about a problem I was creating. It was not what I wanted to hear, but it was the truth and they were right. Her honesty made me re-evalute some things and I think it will make me a better person down the road. It also shows they are a real friend and will tell you the truth not matter how much it hurts. It's hard to find real friends so when you find one make sure you cherish them. I agree and I would also like to add that the expectations set forth by both persons in a relationship mean the difference between withholding info = lying or not. Personal characters that have moral courage have no problem with telling the truth in this matter because in the long run it helps and not hurts even if in the immediate it hurts. Gunnery Sergeant of Marines "I would like it if I were challenged mentally at my job and not feel like I'm mentally challenged." - Co-worker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ROK 0 #33 March 2, 2006 If someone asks, tell it the way it is. If you know something and they haven't asked, really examine your motive for sharing the information. If it's out of love, or because you care for someone, do it. Anything else, keep your mouth shut... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yamtx73 0 #34 March 2, 2006 QuoteEveryone professes that honesty is key to any relationship, whether it's a friend/lover/mom... etc. Question: If you knew something that could potentially hurt someone (that is close to you) would you tell them??? Would you be honest???? If you don't tell, does that make you a liar??? Would you want your friends/loved ones to be honest with you knowing that it may hurt you??? g It really depends on the situation, how damaging it is, knowing how they would handle it and how they would react if they found out later and learned that I had known but didn't tell them.....The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #35 March 2, 2006 QuoteThis souds like one of them situations with no solid answer, one of those ones where you have to make a good judgment call. Good Judgement comes from experiance - Experiance is what you wish you had just before you did what you did - Or Experiance is what you get right after you needed it the most.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #36 March 2, 2006 Quote I'd rather be dishonest than manipulative. rl To be dishonest is to manipulate the truth. Therefore it can be said that being dishonest is being manipulative. That being said some questions there is just no correct answer.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #37 March 2, 2006 Is this a set-up for us guys having to answer the age-old question: "Do these pants make my butt look big?" My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites GiaKrembs 0 #38 March 2, 2006 Quote"Do these pants make my butt look big?" 4 1/2 hours, and 37 post's later - FINALLY someone with a clue! g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #39 March 2, 2006 That is the question to which I was alluding that there is no real answerDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites CSpenceFLY 1 #40 March 2, 2006 QuoteIs this a set-up for us guys having to answer the age-old question: "Do these pants make my butt look big?" The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #41 March 2, 2006 Quote...The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. So, if Julie ever asks you that, call me first before you answer...I want to be there to see the action.... My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RhondaLea 4 #42 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuote I'd rather be dishonest than manipulative. rl To be dishonest is to manipulate the truth. Therefore it can be said that being dishonest is being manipulative. That being said some questions there is just no correct answer. There was a context for my statement, as follows: It depends. Is it something the other person really needs to know? Honesty for the sake of honesty alone is often manipulative. Some people can't wait to be "honest." They lie in wait for innocent people with whom to be "honest," usually to obtain a particular result. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #43 March 2, 2006 Does this bazooka make my arsenol look big?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Broke 0 #44 March 2, 2006 ok I am going to say that is the deepest part of this threadDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lawrocket 3 #45 March 2, 2006 There are some noble lies. For example, sometimes it's a lie when a doctor tells family members that a loved one "died peacefully and without pain." SHoudl the doctor say, "Your husband's death was probably excruciatingly painful - especially those last 3 or four minutes." Sometimes lies are for the benefit. Usually I don't want to lie to anybody - I hate lying and I am horrible at it. So I just keep my mouth shut. Usually I can avoid lying by asking the following question when I am asked something: "Do you think you are prepared to handle what I am about to tell you?" Usually, the person will decide against my answering. I see benefits of lies. Rarely, though. If a lie is to cover up a bad act, then I nearly always refuse. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Thanatos340 1 #46 March 2, 2006 QuoteI see benefits of lies Spoken like a True lawyer!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #47 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuoteI see benefits of lies Spoken like a True lawyer!! Damn, Jay beat me to it. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #48 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuote...The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. So, if Julie ever asks you that, call me first before you answer...I want to be there to see the action.... Another answer is . . . I can neither confirm nor deny the appearance of bigness in jeans.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites twibbles 0 #49 March 2, 2006 QuoteI answered thinking specifically of selfish moves that I made when I was younger (and I mean a LOT younger). How much younger can you be? Sorry, drunk post and couldn't resist. i'll have to apolagize now before i forget in the morning.. Eugene . "In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #50 March 2, 2006 Quote How much younger can you be? Yet another one fooled by my baby face. Thanks. I'll take that as a compliment. (And I was referring to my teenage years, btw). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
ROK 0 #33 March 2, 2006 If someone asks, tell it the way it is. If you know something and they haven't asked, really examine your motive for sharing the information. If it's out of love, or because you care for someone, do it. Anything else, keep your mouth shut... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #34 March 2, 2006 QuoteEveryone professes that honesty is key to any relationship, whether it's a friend/lover/mom... etc. Question: If you knew something that could potentially hurt someone (that is close to you) would you tell them??? Would you be honest???? If you don't tell, does that make you a liar??? Would you want your friends/loved ones to be honest with you knowing that it may hurt you??? g It really depends on the situation, how damaging it is, knowing how they would handle it and how they would react if they found out later and learned that I had known but didn't tell them.....The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #35 March 2, 2006 QuoteThis souds like one of them situations with no solid answer, one of those ones where you have to make a good judgment call. Good Judgement comes from experiance - Experiance is what you wish you had just before you did what you did - Or Experiance is what you get right after you needed it the most.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #36 March 2, 2006 Quote I'd rather be dishonest than manipulative. rl To be dishonest is to manipulate the truth. Therefore it can be said that being dishonest is being manipulative. That being said some questions there is just no correct answer.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #37 March 2, 2006 Is this a set-up for us guys having to answer the age-old question: "Do these pants make my butt look big?" My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GiaKrembs 0 #38 March 2, 2006 Quote"Do these pants make my butt look big?" 4 1/2 hours, and 37 post's later - FINALLY someone with a clue! g Raddest ho this side of Jersey #1 - rest in peace brother Beth lost her cherry and I missed it .... you want access to it, but you don't want to break it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #39 March 2, 2006 That is the question to which I was alluding that there is no real answerDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #40 March 2, 2006 QuoteIs this a set-up for us guys having to answer the age-old question: "Do these pants make my butt look big?" The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #41 March 2, 2006 Quote...The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. So, if Julie ever asks you that, call me first before you answer...I want to be there to see the action.... My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 4 #42 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuote I'd rather be dishonest than manipulative. rl To be dishonest is to manipulate the truth. Therefore it can be said that being dishonest is being manipulative. That being said some questions there is just no correct answer. There was a context for my statement, as follows: It depends. Is it something the other person really needs to know? Honesty for the sake of honesty alone is often manipulative. Some people can't wait to be "honest." They lie in wait for innocent people with whom to be "honest," usually to obtain a particular result. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #43 March 2, 2006 Does this bazooka make my arsenol look big?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #44 March 2, 2006 ok I am going to say that is the deepest part of this threadDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #45 March 2, 2006 There are some noble lies. For example, sometimes it's a lie when a doctor tells family members that a loved one "died peacefully and without pain." SHoudl the doctor say, "Your husband's death was probably excruciatingly painful - especially those last 3 or four minutes." Sometimes lies are for the benefit. Usually I don't want to lie to anybody - I hate lying and I am horrible at it. So I just keep my mouth shut. Usually I can avoid lying by asking the following question when I am asked something: "Do you think you are prepared to handle what I am about to tell you?" Usually, the person will decide against my answering. I see benefits of lies. Rarely, though. If a lie is to cover up a bad act, then I nearly always refuse. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #46 March 2, 2006 QuoteI see benefits of lies Spoken like a True lawyer!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #47 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuoteI see benefits of lies Spoken like a True lawyer!! Damn, Jay beat me to it. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #48 March 2, 2006 QuoteQuote...The answer to that question is NO! Your ass makes those pants look big. So, if Julie ever asks you that, call me first before you answer...I want to be there to see the action.... Another answer is . . . I can neither confirm nor deny the appearance of bigness in jeans.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
twibbles 0 #49 March 2, 2006 QuoteI answered thinking specifically of selfish moves that I made when I was younger (and I mean a LOT younger). How much younger can you be? Sorry, drunk post and couldn't resist. i'll have to apolagize now before i forget in the morning.. Eugene . "In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #50 March 2, 2006 Quote How much younger can you be? Yet another one fooled by my baby face. Thanks. I'll take that as a compliment. (And I was referring to my teenage years, btw). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
