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Does turning 40 freak a guy out?

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40 is nothing. It's turning 30 that's the freak out. I've been forty for awhile now. Nothin to it.


Besides 50 is the new 30. Must be true, cause I heard it on Entertainment Tonight.
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My husband turns 40 this year too... We don't usually celebrate birthdays and stuff like that, but I would like to do something special for his 40th... Something raunchy. :ph34r:

And I just realized that I will be turning 35 this year... Gosh, I feel old. :(

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I'm 42 and turning 40 didn't freak me out one bit. In fact I'm enjoying my 40s so far. My life started in October of 1963 and for others their lives started either sooner or later than mine. We're all given one chance here and it doesn't matter when it started only that it did. And for the younger generation who like to judge those older than themselves, remember (assuming that you survive) that you will be in our shoes before you know it. Getting older is better than the alternative of being dead.


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With or without BDUs?


Bobbi


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Wha'? You an' Walt gonna play grab-ass or do you want pointers in regard to your SO's turning 40?
Aw hell, keep doin' what you're doin'. It's more fun than discussing the aging process!:D

Besides... it's just another day. Get him a present and give it to him over a nice dinner for two. Maybe a fancy restaurant like Cheddars or KFC.


Chuck

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My husband hates parties...I wwas threatened severely if I threw him a party. But his 40th just came and went. My 30th was shocking for me...he threw me a huge surprise party (flew my folks down and everything)..... I don't think I"ll handle 40 well.... heck..... I don't think I'll handle 35 well!

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I honestly have no recollection of my 40th birthday. I remember the week before, celebrating in Nashville.

It has something to do with my brain being in a state of mush at the time.:|

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40s was good, 50s -- even better! Video tape his old friends fromHS or college (or have them send in a video) Have a few "ham" friends act out his life as you read it. I did this for my wife and it was a hoot. We had about 70+ people there. We were dying laughing.

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Is it a "happy" thing? Just another birthday? Would you want to celebrate it or just let it go? Does it weird you guys out? Is it a milestone?

SOs birthday is coming up and I don't know what I should do for him....take him away for the weekend...throw a huge bash? Any suggestions?

Bobbi



For me it was just another day... didn't realize it was my birthday till I got home and read the paper....
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For Me? It's just a number too. But I LOVE parties, presents and being made over.

For You, I'm a giver. What's that phrase of yours? Oh yeah......"Selfish Altruism." I just wanted to see you smile. I enjoyed the planning and subsequent surprise of attempting to make your 40'th something to remember. But if you so desire, I won't make a big to-do again.
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When I turned 40, I requested a party at our home. My ex kept swearing he wasn't going to do it, but in the end, I got it.....complete with a stripper dressed in a military outfit. Stripper wasn't very good, but the party and friends were GREAT!!!
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My husband turns 40 this year too... We don't usually celebrate birthdays and stuff like that, but I would like to do something special for his 40th... Something raunchy. :ph34r:



Woohoo...raunchy 40th birthday celebrations sound like fun. I suggest that for Bobbi's SO, as well.

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And I just realized that I will be turning 35 this year... Gosh, I feel old. :(



Awww...Keely, you're not old. Btw, I'm going to turn 35 this June, myself. I am looking forward to it! (Paaaaarty-time!) We can be "old" together, Keely. :P

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Aaaah you both are just babies!!

I'll be 39 in September.:|

I honestly don't feel my age...and I still get carded...used to piss me off when I was younger, now when they ask for my card...I always ask them to tell what age they think I am.;) They never suspect that I am almost 40.:o

Bobbi
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I don't think he really has a problem turning 40...the number thing doesn't bother him...its more of how he feels when Saturday morning rolls around...He has a very, very physical job....He works alot in the outdoors...with heavy objects...so between the heat and lifting he is really sore. He has mentioned a few times that he "feels" old because of what type of work he does. But boy! Does he have great leg AND arm muscles!:D:$:$:$

Bobbi

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it didnt bother me at all. I was more surpsised that i actually lived this long :ph34r::ph34r:
It still blows me away, I'm nearly 43 now and I NEVER EVER expected to make it past 25 when i was younger
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Forty is tough for me. I really started analysing my life and discovered that the big house, tons of toys, and great job just don't mean as much. It's like I achieved my goals and still felt empty. I went through a period of depression and lost about twenty pounds. It was a good thing for me because I started to really pay attention to how much people and friends really meant. I also got off my ass and decided to enjoy each and every day. I'm in excellent health and have made some awesome friends since I started skydiving. I started my life over and love every damn minute of it too...Another ones coming up in June, and I'm ready for it!

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