PRSKY71 0 #1 April 7, 2006 inherent in a relationship? (whether platonic or romantic) OR, Is it earned? What do you think? Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #2 April 7, 2006 It's different for each person and their individual comfort level in interpersonal relationships. Trusting in the initial connection is fine. The rest has to develop as it develops, you know?Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #3 April 7, 2006 I think there has to be a base of trust after you go with your gut instinct and their history if known. If you screw up however, you have to reearn it.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #4 April 7, 2006 At the start of a relationship, trust is earned. Once the relationship is going, trust is inherent. Once trust is broken in a relationship, it can never fully return. And that's the bottom line. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #5 April 7, 2006 QuoteAnd that's the bottom line. 'Cuz Stone Cold said so!!! Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #6 April 7, 2006 I used to trust people until they burned me. Then I was burned pretty bad once. Now it has to be earned. But it doesn't seam to cause problems. I guess that's the norm and I was just a pushover before. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #7 April 8, 2006 Trust has to be earned in any kind of relationship. Once that trust has been vilolated it is very difficult to get it back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stitch 0 #8 April 8, 2006 QuoteAt the start of a relationship, trust is earned. Once the relationship is going, trust is inherent. Once trust is broken in a relationship, it can never fully return. And that's the bottom line. AMEN!"No cookies for you"- GFD "I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65 Don't be a "Racer Hater" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites