Do you blame your SO instinctively?

[Mike111 0]

For some reason eveyr little thing ,whether it be a bug crawling up a wall or the wind messing up her hair, my SO blames me for

I never blame her for things unless she has done something wrong, yet she always thinks she is right and that "boys are wrong"

Any advice?

What about you?

[skymama 37]

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Any advice?

Well, if you want to keep having sex, accept that the woman is always right and make the phrase, "yes, dear" your mantra.

She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

[Squeak 17]

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Any advice?

Well, if you want to keep having sex, accept that the woman is always right and make the phrase, "yes, dear" your mantra.

Alternatively find a reasonable woman

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[shropshire 0]

I've learnt to save my breath and admit to being the root cause of all of the ills in the world... Seems to be working out O.K

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[cesslon 0]

Hi mike
is she a nympho?
if so check this thread
http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=2214299;sb=post_latest_reply;so=ASC;forum_view=forum_view_collapsed;;page=unread#unread

[kbordson 8]

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make the phrase, "yes, dear" your mantra.

I HATE that phrase! It's either so condescending and arrogant or just represents a person with no backbone.

I much perfer spirit.

Maybe start asking "why" it's your fault that there's a bug there or what ever else she is annoyed by. Not in a bad way, but to try to better understand her logic.

k.

[skymama 37]

LOL...geez, look at the winky, I was kidding! That's the advice they always give in the movies to men who are about to get married.

My seriously advice would also be to talk about it. Maybe she doesn't even realize that she's blaming you for everything. People in a relationship often just get into a pattern with how they treat each other and those types of responses tend to be automatic.

Calmly tell her that her accustations are hurting your feelings and let her know every time when she has said it again, especially when it is something that couldn't possibly be your fault. Also, turn the tables on her and ask her how she would feel if you did the same thing to her.

She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

[Gravitymaster 0]

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For some reason eveyr little thing ,whether it be a bug crawling up a wall or the wind messing up her hair, my SO blames me for

I never blame her for things unless she has done something wrong, yet she always thinks she is right and that "boys are wrong"

Any advice?

What about you?

I'd tell the narcissistic little Princess to hit the road and find some other wimp she can beat up on.

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[kbordson 8]

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LOL...geez, look at the winky, I was kidding! .

I know... but I still HATE that phrase. Its a visceral reaction... a nauseating gut pain that makes me cringe and quickly slap it down... even if it was from skymama (and I risk being chastized for slapping it down)

Good advice though.

k.

[skymama 37]

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even if it was from skymama (and I risk being chastized for slapping it down)

You can disagree with me, I don't care! There's no rule that says the Mods are always right. Although, now that I say that, it isn't such a bad idea...

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[Icon134 0]

hmmm... I have no idea... but I don't think I would...

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[Mike111 0]

Is she - yep!

[Mike111 0]

Of course we don;t like intentionally dso it but some people just do without realising it cos they cant take blame, yet although some are just downright nasty so do.

[stitch 0]

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Any advice?

Well, if you want to keep having sex, accept that the woman is always right and make the phrase, "yes, dear" your mantra.

Thats funnyWith most of my relationships it has been the oppisite "We only have sex when you want to"And no,I'm not stalking you

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[jtval 0]

[reply. Also, turn the tables on her and ask her how she would feel if you did the same thing to her.

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Alternatively find a reasonable woman

BTW- if your answer was always, I think this is the best advice.

EDIT:
but sometimes the lack of sex can drive anyone crazy (not in a literal sense) maybe its time to "hit it."

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[Mike111 0]

lol. what we men have to put up with

[shropshire 0]

Yeap... either that or do you own....... um........ ironing

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[JohnMitchell 16]

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For some reason eveyr little thing ,whether it be a bug crawling up a wall or the wind messing up her hair, my SO blames me for

Agree with her to the point of ridiculousness. Tell her you spoke to God and had him make the wind blow. Tell her you placed that bug on the wall just to catch her eye. You're the one that made toilet paper rolls so hard to get started and you are the lord of panty hose that run too soon. She will either someday laugh and lighten up or haul off an hit you. Either way, it will get your relationship out of a tiring rut. Good luck with her. She sounds like a cutaway to me.

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Of course we don;t like intentionally dso it but some people just do without realising it cos they cant take blame, yet although some are just downright nasty so do.

I'm not sure I understand what you've just said... but I think a lot of the reason people blame others for the "things" that they do is merely a defense mechanism because we ourselves are afraid of the reprucussions having done wrong...

I don't see myself doing that sort of thing because... I really don't have a whole lot of pride... and thus I don't have a big issue with admitting that I've fucked up...

Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

[Mike111 0]

i Agree.

Ill see for a while how it goes, i mean when you lvoe someone its hard to really see "how bad" they are, but evetually enough is enough i guess.

[Mike111 0]

hehe sounds good... until she then make sme call her "madame" lol....

[yamtx73 0]

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If a tree fell in the forest, and no one was there to hear it, would it still be your fault?

According to some of the women I've dated.... yes, even if I wasn't in the forest... Do you think that's their way of saying I'm a god?

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