Question for the guys....

[warpedskydiver 0]

Renee if he was a dog he would be sniffing your behind...he wants to date you...DOH!

[warpedskydiver 0]

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He's a transplant...likely has few friends.

You have furniture, you're likely not a serial killer.....he's 'smitten'!

You just summed it up. Plus, if he's a true Texan then he probably has a healthy dose of southern hospitality too. I love the whole southern gentleman thing.

Yep I just love when southern women say "Y'all can fuck me"
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[soulshine 0]

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Yep I just love when southern women say "Y'all can fuck me"
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Some southern women prefer quality over quantity.

Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity!
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[GrumpySmurf 0]

Save time, and cut to the chase - hump him

Life's too short to waste on wondering what might happen - just 'do it'.

[eeneR 3]

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Save time, and cut to the chase - hump him

Life's too short to waste on wondering what might happen - just 'do it'.

Oh my who let you out of your box

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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[ladyskydiver 0]

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I would kick your ass into next week...

What's the downside? [/masochist]

Hrrm...now im not sure im gonna tell you when the house warming is!!!! Lord knows what you will tell the poor guy. Not that you didnt already start in that night....had to tell him im a tequila snob

I know when the house warming party is.

Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile.

[downwardspiral 0]

He helped you move AND it took 10 hours?!?! That man deserves a BJ. I bet ya he acted stoic the entire time. Girlfriend, he is definately interested and he is using the backdoor approach.

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[eeneR 3]

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I would kick your ass into next week...

What's the downside? [/masochist]

Hrrm...now im not sure im gonna tell you when the house warming is!!!! Lord knows what you will tell the poor guy. Not that you didnt already start in that night....had to tell him im a tequila snob

I know when the house warming party is.

Hey dont you start now too...sheesh. Like I have said, im working on this. With both of us working 12 hour shifts and not quite the same schedule...timing is everything so you shoosh.

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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[GrumpySmurf 0]

Like the worlds largest proponent of 'situational ethics' is gonna keep his mouth shut - not likely

Well, no point in thinking what might happen - just make it happen - Hell is simply a life lived in regret, eh?

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[eeneR 3]

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Like the worlds largest proponent of 'situational ethics' is gonna keep his mouth shut - not likely

Well, no point in thinking what might happen - just make it happen - Hell is simply a life lived in regret, eh?

Rolfmao...how true my friend, how true.

Like I had said before, it isnt so much that I have no intention of doing something, this was more of a question of behaviours and is this still really common to have a guy go out of his way to help some random stranger?

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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[vdschoor 0]

He's interested, ask him out..

[mjosparky 4]

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this was more of a question of behaviours and is this still really common to have a guy go out of his way to help some random stranger?

Hey Lady,

Quit trying of over complicate something is very simple. If the guy gets you wet, do something about it. Spending 10 hours helping a lady move is more than being a nice guy; he thinks you would look good as a satin sheet sandwich. Get off the dime before someone else does. jmo

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[Stumpy 284]

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he thinks you would look good as a satin sheet sandwich

LOL thats funny

Never try to eat more than you can lift

[Squeak 17]

[replySo it prompted me to pose the question to see if guys on here normally go out of the way to help random strange girls just cause.

Readers digest of the story, Dude bought furniture from me, then turned around and spent the whole day helping me move.

[popsjumper 2]

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Is it normal behaviour for you to keep offering help up to a girl?

From my experience, it's more common than not. But then I've lived in the South allmy life. But Chicago? Probably the other way around, I would guess.

However, being a Texan, it is for sure his normal nature to be helpful to women. It doesn't appear that you are seeing this as a sexist thing so that's good. Chivalry is alive and well in the South - and quite often transported to the Northern regions.

It's heartening to see that nice guys CAN finish first...or at least, in this case, get into the race at all.

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[eeneR 3]

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[replySo it prompted me to pose the question to see if guys on here normally go out of the way to help random strange girls just cause.

Readers digest of the story, Dude bought furniture from me, then turned around and spent the whole day helping me move.

If he works with you you are hardly a random stange girl. he may be just a nice guy

[eeneR 3]

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However, being a Texan, it is for sure his normal nature to be helpful to women.

That is kind of what I thought.

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It doesn't appear that you are seeing this as a sexist thing so that's good. Chivalry is alive and well in the South - and quite often transported to the Northern regions.

Not in the least bit should anyone have taken this as a sexist thing, there are times in our lives where help is needed and appreciated. It goes both ways, guys helping girls and girls helping guys. Chivalry is alive and well, things have changed slightly, but in general a guy being a gentleman in my book gives him HUGE points.

There is always the ones that comes across with the "Oh that poor woman" attitude. This was definatly not that. Lord knows I carried my fair share of crap.

All things said and done, it put a HUGE smile on my face to see there are still good people out there!

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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[turtlespeed 226]

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So anyway, how common is that? In Chicago im not used to seeing that all that often.

Sounds like he has an interest in being polite. He also is old school and belieb=ves in chivalry.

All this is probably his way of showing you that he could be interested.

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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[DeNReN 0]

OK......I wana speak with this new "cabana boy" when he comes over next time to "help out".....I must find out his intensions toward a fellow skydiver and friend .....well either that or raz him silly

[eeneR 3]

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OK......I wana speak with this new "cabana boy" when he comes over next time to "help out".....I must find out his intensions toward a fellow skydiver and friend .....well either that or raz him silly

Ohhh riiight....sure I will let you talk to him.

Note to self: Make sure puter and IM are both off tomorrow night

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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[DeNReN 0]

Chicken....I was just gona get him into the online gaming

[eeneR 3]

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Chicken....I was just gona get him into the online gaming

Oh my dear, he is a fellow IT geek....he is WAY ahead of you in that relm

She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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[Rainbo 0]

eeneR,
DOH, and double DOH. Just bat your eyes at him a couple o times and go for it...

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[Erroll 80]

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It's heartening to see that nice guys CAN finish first...

You don't think that is taking chivalry a bit too far?

[niolosoiale 0]

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You guys are killing me!!!!

Ok the question posed...this was the kind of answers I was looking for.

"My name is Bob, I like to help anyone out anytime I can"

"My name is Joe, I like to help girls out with the hopes that they will see what kind of a gentleman I am"

"My name is Biff, I like to help girls out so they im a stud and will fuck me"

"My name is Mike, fuck that let the bitch do it herself, then still fuck me"


I should have made this a poll!

Sounds like a case of a guy doing something for a girl, simply because he is a certain way, and the girl reading more into it than there is.

The guy is nice. Being a guy, if he's attracted to you, he wants to hook up. He's either being nice and wants to fuck, or being nice and doesn't want to fuck. The nice thing has no strong relationship to whether or not he wants to. Guys can be nice to unattractive girls to. Typically it's because they are nice guys. Of course, since he's continually offering (out of nervousness presumably), it's a strong indicator that he has some sort of thing for you and probably wants to say something more, but knows that you can't just ask a girl out every time you do something nice for them. You can, but only if you're the type of guy that can pull that of. He isn't, he knows it. Sounds like beta material. Can you handle a beta?

Being a woman you should obviously know its not what he does, it how he does it.