eeneR 3 #1 May 11, 2006 Is it normal behaviour for you to keep offering help up to a girl? Here is an example.... Guy totally helps girl out, end of day guy says to girl "you have my number, give me a call" Now that is something in some cases can be taken as flirting but alot of times it is ment as a friendly jesture. Girl calls guy to BS, he again offers help, girl tells guy she thinks she pretty much has everything done but thank you...again guy tells girl "If you need any help im off this that or the other day" Is that flirting or just being overly kind? Keep in mind that I (yes this has to do with me) am from the Chicago area, random strangers dont go out of there way to help people out on a regular basis. The catch is the other person is a transplant to the area from else where in the US.... Yes it is a shame, I would have told him to come on over that night he was available, but I had other plans already So anyway, how common is that? In Chicago im not used to seeing that all that often.She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #2 May 11, 2006 Ask the boy out already!"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #3 May 11, 2006 QuoteAsk the boy out already! You didnt answer the question! Never said I wasnt going to, I was just curious about the behaviour! She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ExAFO 0 #4 May 11, 2006 QuoteAsk the boy out already! Seconded.Illinois needs a CCW Law. NOW. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #5 May 11, 2006 I'm not a guy. The question was for the guys. The "get on it already" cheerleading is for the girls. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #6 May 11, 2006 I'd have to agree with NWFlyer... ask the guy out already.Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #7 May 11, 2006 QuoteI'd have to agree with NWFlyer... ask the guy out already. All right TIME OUT!!!! Sheesh. I am going to call him tomorrow when we are both off of work, as we both do the same job and work 12 hour shifts. That isnt the issue, thats gonna happen She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #8 May 11, 2006 QuoteQuoteAsk the boy out already! You didnt answer the question! Never said I wasnt going to, I was just curious about the behaviour! The problem with analyzing behavior is that there's no set way people are supposed to act when they are attempting to "court" someone.Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #9 May 11, 2006 hmm, duno... i tend to help out if i can, but would flirt in other ways... now, maybe his helping is giving him a time and place to try and flirt with ya, and being from some other place, maybe he is trying just to make another friend what ever it is, hope he isn't crazy... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #10 May 11, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteAsk the boy out already! You didnt answer the question! Never said I wasnt going to, I was just curious about the behaviour! The problem with analyzing behavior is that there's no set way people are supposed to act when they are attempting to "court" someone. That is completely understood. Just this is something I am not used to! Not at all. So it prompted me to pose the question to see if guys on here normally go out of the way to help random strange girls just cause. Readers digest of the story, Dude bought furniture from me, then turned around and spent the whole day helping me move. She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #11 May 11, 2006 If he is from the south?.. If he is a true southern gentleman, He would never make the first move unless you made it crystal clear that it was welcome. Other areas of the country such as Texas and parts of the mid-west also have similar cultures. Are YOU interested?? if so.. make sure he knows that. (Have I ever told you about my great invention called the Kiss Me Bat??) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #12 May 11, 2006 Quotewhat ever it is, hope he isn't crazy... That term is relative He thinks im crazy for having jumped out of an airplane by choice... As do alot of whuffo's.She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #13 May 11, 2006 I would have told him to come on buy the night ... *** I think I see the problem here......! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #14 May 11, 2006 QuoteIf he is from the south?.. If he is a true southern gentleman, He would never make the first move unless you made it crystal clear that it was welcome. Other areas of the country such as Texas and parts of the mid-west also have similar cultures. Are YOU interested?? if so.. make sure he knows that. (Have I ever told you about my great invention called the Kiss Me Bat??) Texas to be exact..... Nope havent heard about the Kiss Me Bat...however I do have the magic 2 x 4 It has collected some dust, will have to drag it out again I assume She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #15 May 11, 2006 Quote(Have I ever told you about my great invention called the Kiss Me Bat??) is this something you just hand out... cause... more women need some of these... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ExAFO 0 #16 May 11, 2006 All: I met the guy. He's a Quiet Texan (never knew that kind of Texan existed). If eeneR does not ask him out, (or at least bang him) She's making a big mistake...Illinois needs a CCW Law. NOW. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #17 May 11, 2006 Quote I would have told him to come on buy the night ... *** I think I see the problem here......! Bwhahahahaha that is a baaaad typo...damn funny though She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monkycndo 0 #18 May 11, 2006 There are some of us nice guys still around that are actually helpful without expecting to get into a girl's pants in return for being helpful.50 donations so far. Give it a try. You know you want to spank it Jump an Infinity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skyrad 0 #19 May 11, 2006 it depends, If he is over seventy hes just being kind, (but would hump you if only it were still possible) if he is over 60 then he's proberbly being kind (but would still hump you given the chance) if he's over 50 then he's proberbly being kind (but would hump you if you wern't his employees daughter) If he's over 40 then he's being kind but wants to hump you. If he's under 30 then he wants to hump you. If he's under 20 he wants to hump you and calls your name whilst humping the pillow, a pie, his fist, the dog, anything that won't press charges. hope that helpsWhen an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy. Lucius Annaeus Seneca Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #20 May 11, 2006 QuoteThere are some of us nice guys still around that are actually helpful without expecting to get into a girl's pants in return for being helpful. *** Turn in your card...! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #21 May 11, 2006 QuoteNope havent heard about the Kiss Me Bat...however I do have the magic 2 x 4 Yep!! Just take the 2x4 and write KISS ME on it with a magic marker or something.. When the time is right.. Smack him up side the head with it and then now that you have his undivided attention.. show him the instructions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #22 May 11, 2006 Quoteit depends, If he is over seventy hes just being kind, (but would hump you if only it were still possible) if he is over 60 then he's proberbly being kind (but would still hump you given the chance) if he's over 50 then he's proberbly being kind (but would hump you if you wern't his employees daughter) If he's over 40 then he's being kind but wants to hump you. If he's under 30 then he wants to hump you. If he's under 20 he wants to hump you and calls your name whilst humping the pillow, a pie, his fist, the dog, anything that won't press charges. hope that helps Bwahahahahahahaha!!!!!She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #23 May 11, 2006 QuoteWhen the time is right.. Smack him up side the head with it and then now that you have his undivided attention.. show him the instructions. I did that once! I didn't have a bat but I used my hand to smack a guy upside the head... he was that clueless. Turned out to be generally clueless and not worth much of my time after that, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #24 May 11, 2006 QuoteTurned out to be generally clueless and not worth much of my time after that, too Well if you would have used my soon to be Patented Kiss Me Bat... You would have atleast had the pleasure of Knowing you got hit him upside the head with a Bat!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #25 May 11, 2006 You guys are killing me!!!! Ok the question posed...this was the kind of answers I was looking for. "My name is Bob, I like to help anyone out anytime I can" "My name is Joe, I like to help girls out with the hopes that they will see what kind of a gentleman I am" "My name is Biff, I like to help girls out so they im a stud and will fuck me" "My name is Mike, fuck that let the bitch do it herself, then still fuck me" I should have made this a poll!She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
