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Normal is Boring--Warning: Short Rant

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Quirks are amusing;)

And also:

Short/Tall, Blonde/Brown, Skinny/Junk in Trunk, Lipstick/No lipstick, Independant/Needs company at all times, blah, blah-blah, blah-blah.

What is with everyone's self-esteem these days??? Why are there so many threads needing reassurance that people like which of the above physical and/or personality traits you are?

It's boring me.

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Our society shall be known as:

The Non-Fishers.

I'm open to other suggestions, though. :P



Use the Ph version so you are a totally awesome Internet haxor. -- Non-Phishers. Its secondary use is to tell the world that Phish sucks. Cause they do.

p0wned!! Or however you say that!
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Quirks are amusing



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Why are there so many threads needing reassurance that people like which of the above physical and/or personality traits you are?



Isn't that a "quirk?

Let's face it - there are some quirks that we find amusing and interesting. There are other quirks that we find annoying. I like some quirks and I hate other quirks. Self-doubt is a quirk that can be cute if exercised occasionally. Gloominess and a consistently negative self-image is extremely annoying, unless justified (and let's face it - some of us, like me, can have damned good reasons to have a negative self-image).

Low self-esteem can lead to two things: 1) an effort to cure the self-esteem issues; or 2) doing nothing and feeling even worse about it.

I have a number of things I don't like about myself. I have way less now than even a couple of years ago because I'm constantly seeking self-improvement. Those things that we don't like about ourselves are those things that we seek to improve about ourselves.

The instant we are totally happy with ourselves is the instant we start a downhill slide. We've got weight-loss threads, where people who are concerned about their "junk in the trunk" seek to get rid of it. That's a positive.

There's nothing wrong with low self-esteem, so long as it is accompanied by affirmative action to cure the reason for it.


My wife is hotter than your wife.

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Hey, it's cool, I don't need to be in your high-self-esteem group to feel good about myself.

I'll go listen to some happy music and do my morning pilates.


-Karen

"Life is a temporary victory over the causes which induce death." - Sylvester Graham

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I will respectfully disagree.

I think you can be happy with yourself and still work on improving yourself. The two are not mutually exclusive.

I'm not referring to those asking for great ideas/tips for improvement. I'm referring to those "phishing" for compliments b/c they obviously have a need for that to be happy with themselves.

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I'll go listen to some happy music and do my morning pilates.



Sounds relaxing! You are certainly qualified for the group. GTA is not yet in position to determine proper qualifications:P But, I will certainly make good use of him;)

Only phisherpersons not allowed. Sign currently under construction:P
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Whoa whoa. I never even said it was my group. Or that I was even in it. :D

Phish makes me angry. :ph34r::ph34r: Well, not really, but they bore the crap out of me. But everyone is different. If we all had the same tastes, music would completely suck.
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I'm not referring to those asking for great ideas/tips for improvement. I'm referring to those "phishing" for compliments b/c they obviously have a need for that to be happy with themselves.

:)



Do you like goatees? :ph34r::ph34r:
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I'm referring to those "phishing" for compliments b/c they obviously have a need for that to be happy with themselves.



Well, I have a problem with those people. I've found that I usually am not asked for these things by a person more than a couple of times, for I will be completely honest. (It's why my twin sister used to take me shopping with her - I'd tell her if something looked stupid).

Honesty helps me a lot.


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