Bodyflight.Net 0 #1 May 17, 2006 This was originally aimed at men for their women, but I find most of the suggestions work well both ways! Hope this inspires someone 1. Leave a note under her windshield wiper at work. 2. Give her a flower for each month you have been together. 3. Give her a facial massage. 4. Take her to the ballet or theatre. 5. Plan an overnight at a bed & breakfast. 6. Get a babysitter every friday. 7. Give your mate a romantic basket - with bubble bath, massage oil, chocolates, etc. 8. Give her a key with a note that says, "You have the key to my heart" or, "You're the key to my happiness." 9. Send flowers to your sweetie's workplace. 10. If you go on a business trip for an extended period of time, send your mate cards timed to arrive the beginning, middle, and end of your trip. 11. Pack "I love you" notes in her suitcase or lunchbox. 12. Leave a rose on the windshield. 13. Give her 10 red roses and 2 white ones in the middle with a note that reads "You will never stand alone." 14. Complain less, compliment more. 15. Praise her in front of people. 16. Wake up every morning fifteen minutes early to cuddle with each other. 17. Make your wife breakfast in bed. 18. Do her chores for a week. 19. Wash her car. 20. Always look into her eyes when she's talking to you. 21. Give a map - "I can never be lost with you around." 22. Give her a pocket dictionary - Write "You" as the meaning next to the word "Life", mark the page and give it to them "Without you, life would have no meaning." 23. Turn her birthday into a birthday month. 24. Sit down and write your goals together. 25. Massage her shoulders whenever you get a chance. 26. Bake cookies together. 27. Take a bath together. 28. Turn the A/C on and enjoy a fire - in the summer. 29. Send a greeting card for no reason. 30. Create your own homemade card. 31. Give a fish & fish bowl with a note attached that reads, "Out of all the fish in the world I pick you!" 32. Start a journal of your thoughts and present it to your wife. 33. Celebrate her 1/2 birthday. 34. Ask the question, "What can I do for you today, honey?" 35. Hold her hand whenever you walk together. 36. Tell her that she is the best thing that has ever happened to you in your entire life. 37. Renew your wedding vows. 38. Learn to have the last word in arguments, "I'm sorry." 39. Make a list of 100 reasons why you love your wife. 40. Create a jar filled with "Love Coupons." Make the coupons redeemable for hugs, kisses, back rubs or any number of special favors. Give the jar to your lover and let him/her redeem the coupons over time. 41. If your partner is stressed out, let her take a nap and keep all distractions and emergencies away during that time. 42. Talk about your dreams together and where you two are going in life. 43. Say, "You mean the world to me." 44. Call your wife right now to say "I Love You." 45. Catch her eyes in a crowd and wink. 46. Place a card on her steering wheel that says "You drive me crazy!" 47. Unplug the TV and leave a card on top that says "Turn me on instead." 48. Write a personalized love story and have it bound. 49. Pray over dinner every night. 50. Say, "I Love you" three times a day for the rest of your life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #2 May 17, 2006 What? I've got to do ALL of that... cannt I do a couple now and save the rest for later? (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bodyflight.Net 0 #3 May 17, 2006 Perhaps if you deliver these tokens in multiples... you will be rewarded with multiples Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #4 May 17, 2006 (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #5 May 17, 2006 51. Put some money 'on the books' for her commissary. ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2fat2fly 0 #6 May 17, 2006 Quote 50. Say, "I Love you" three times a day for the rest of your life. This is what got me in trouble with my first wife....Those two other girlsI am just kiddingI am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireflytx 0 #8 May 17, 2006 I love stuff like this! It is too bad the whole world is in such a hurry and there is not a lot of romance anymore."Well behaved women rarely make history" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #9 May 17, 2006 But the wedding vows allow multiple women (16 in fact)... Four better, four worse, four richer, four poorer.. (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #10 May 17, 2006 QuoteBut the wedding vows allow multiple women (16 in fact)... Four better, four worse, four richer, four poorer.. *** I'm gonna STEAL that! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #11 May 17, 2006 Funny.... going over that list, I realize my ex husband really didn't do any of those things - it's amazing that it lasted 10 years. On the other hand, an ex boyfriend did many of those things.... it was very wonderful!!!! I think my all time favorite is when I returned from a business trip I arrived late at night and was just exhausted. Usual routine I called him to let him know that I'd made it home safely, but ended the call when I got home so I could carry the luggage in. To my surprise when I opened my front door all the candles were lit, rose petals led from the door to my bedroom where I found chocolate covered strawberries, wine and him waiting for me. g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bodyflight.Net 0 #12 May 17, 2006 Funny I suppose.. I don't recall my ex husband doing any of those things either really! Now the 2nd time around I have been married 8 years and my hubby can claim several of those as his techniques.. but I still sent him the list too... not only to be proud of doing the things he already does but to maybe inspire additional tokens of love! Too much of a good thing.. is JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites